in love with boss feeling is mutual both married. what to do?
2006-08-19 06:11:51 · 22 answers · asked by txops 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stay away from him. Not only is he your boss, he and yourself are married. He is in a position of power and if it doesn't work out - bye bye workplace.
Also, you should end your marriage if that is what you want BEFORE you see another relationship.
This is not healthy and if you are dead set on having a relationship with this guy, end your marriage and he with his, then find another job and see what happens.... Good luck....
2006-08-19 06:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make it your personal fantasy, and forget about it, cause, if it comes down to the nub, YOU WILL GET FIRED!
The Boss will get reprimanded, and you will cite sex discrimination in the lurid court case over why you got fired, and then the boss will get fired, and everyone will get divorced, and all will suffer, and ARE THERE ANY KIDS?
Whether or not, WHATEVER ARE YOU THINKING???
Either of you own a home? cars? Pension plans?
You would like to end your days on this earth as a bag lady?
Geez, you must be ready to take over that open position in the village!
2006-08-19 06:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to begin with, neither of you had any business even starting to explore this avenue. Nothing good will come out of it on either end. Think about it. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. what makes you think that he will not do the same to you if you leave your husband. Don't do it. Get a different job and keep the physical experiences at home with your husband.
2006-08-19 06:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Boxcars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comes down to this -
Who do you love more ?
Who does he love more ?
If your answers aren't the same, how will you deal with it ?
Quit for 6 months. Think about things. Work on your marriage. Don't see him. If at the end of that time, the feelings (and your answers) are the same, it might be the real deal.
2006-08-19 06:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by AmericanDreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both married and he is your boss. What are you doing? This has dissaster written all over it. You should end it with your boss, find another job if needed and save your marraige. If you don't you may very likley end up all alone AND unemployed.
2006-08-19 06:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strengthen a backbone and checklist this "boss" to somebody in HR, or another larger-up. If what you're announcing approximately her is genuine, she'll maximum actual get fired over her therapy in direction of you and her generic behaviour.
2016-10-02 07:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop it ........ I know Way too many that went down that Road to Ruination! :-s
Other wise carry on ...... Maybe you too can Get Fired, Divorced, Never be able to trust your New Mate Because you Both have Histories of fooling around now. etc ...... believe me .... will make for a miserable experience :-s
2006-08-19 06:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the boss has a private cabin - then no problems, otherwise hotels and motels are always open... Good Luck... Happy Sexing...
2006-08-19 06:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Fraud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another Job immediately...work place illicit romances Never Ever Last....Ever
2006-08-19 06:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go somewhere with it, one of you should get a different job and you both should divorce.
2006-08-19 06:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋