Maybe I am dellusional but you decide.... My husband only worked a part day the other day and he mentioned to me "This is a coincidence but the girl that we didnt hire to watch our dog is animal sitting next door" I didnt feel comfortable about hiring her for multiple reasons and my husband knows why and yes I am a little threatened by the idea. He said that she brought her dog also and our dog and hers gets along well (but she is bird sitting why did she bring her dog) I think my husband knew she would be there and worked a short day and didnt bring our dog to his parents (his parents watch Holli every day) to introduce her dog and ours and try to slowly convince me she could watch Holli, he became irrate when I said "No wonder you worked a short day" right away he thought I was accusing him of cheating but initially I think he was planning on somehow getting her to animal sit our dog, but being he got so angry I am wondering if there was more to it...
2006-08-19 06:57:36 · 11 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whoa calm down. First check yourself first. Why are you threatened by another woman? Is there something going on in your relationship that would make you think she SHOULD cheat? If so, then this is more than a relationship problem than her. If not, then it is about your own insecurity from wherever. Ever hear the saying is to get someone out of your life accuse them of rage. Meaning, if we push someone away we can somehow feel more powerful in being rejected.
If you are so worried he is cheating...ask him. And listen. Then tell him why you feel he is cheating. But pushing someone into that direction can only self-fulfill your own prophecy.
2006-08-19 07:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by kaiynasha 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Probably you're right to think that there might be more to it. Keep your eyes wide open and look for unaccounted for time and weird things happening, including changes in his sexual appetite. Watch the cell phone bill. Can you tell I've been there? I denied it for so long, so I can tell you what changed during that time. I think he told you she was next door to make you think that he himself was surprised by it, when maybe he knew it. Maybe not; maybe the girl is chasing him and he could be oblivious. Just keep watch.
2006-08-19 07:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by agatehunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you already asked this. you are jealous and suspicious. he wants to think he has a chance with a young girl. please. 17 year old don't like old dudes. anything older than 30 is like going out with their dad. accept the fact that you accused him in an insinuating way with a joke and you don't want to be honest with yourself about what you did. he knows you and your tone and what you mean when you say these things. he is your husband. why don' t you try to be honest and tell him that you are insecure and she threatens you and you think he is going to cheat on you. stop playing behind words and worries.
2006-08-19 07:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have he change or weird to you when that girl come over? if yes, then yeah something is wrong... so try to see ifyou have friend that he don't know who to follow and help friend with camra, gas, food soemthing to help you to see if he is cheating on you and if that is a proof. then there you go.
Don't go and tell him you cheating on me and just go court and have lawyer to ask him questions and if he said no never in my life time and then it will show the picture and believe me his face will be so damn red and couldn't face anyone even you smiling.
2006-08-19 07:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u accuse him for similar things on a normal basis, he may just be getting sick and tired of it. my wife accuses me of everything under the sun, but after she does her lil "digging" into the situation, she finds there was nothing going on at all. if it still bothers u and this is not a recurring problem, just talk to him about it and try to have him see it from your point of view.
2006-08-19 07:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by tmack8403 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds fishy, but you need to just watch and listen for now, don't accuse and don't bring up the subject any more wait and see what happens next, it all may mean nothing at all.....time will tell you.
2006-08-19 07:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This definately sounds fishy for sure. There's more to it, gut hunch here. Sounds like he's hot for this girl. I'd watch him like a hawk.
2006-08-19 07:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone has to 'dog-sit' for you everyday?
You two need help on a PROFESSIONAL level.
Idiots (both of you)
2006-08-19 07:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
While not a smoking gun, it warrents keeping your eyes open.
2006-08-19 08:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lookin at your profile and the questions you ask. you have some issues sweetie.
Get some help..........
2006-08-19 07:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋