Hubby has a good looking friend that all the girls say is really hung and knows how to use it . Should he be the one or a stranger ?
2006-08-19 05:57:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you and your husband are in agreement and have a healthy and honest relationship, it doesn't matter which man you bring into your bed. Be mindful that if you have been with your husband for a while and this man is larger than him, that he may hurt you internally, so go slowly. Also, be sure and use a condom. Even though this individual is not a stranger, he is not your husband. So unless he brings you STI and HIV test results, a condom is a must.
Have fun and be safe!
2006-08-19 06:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by keshet80 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure whomever you choose has their medical papers all in order. I would highly suggest requiring proof of an aids test and whatever other STD tests this person might have had.
Also, remember, that once you have someone else... you may never be satisfied with Hubby again. It could just as easily end your marriage espeically if hubby gets jealous after a while. It might not happen at first, but could easily happen years later when hubby gets tired of just sharing you.
OR, your husband could see this as an invite to go out and screw anyone he wants without your knownledge.
2006-08-19 13:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends.. If you and your husband are ok with swinging and this man can be discreet then there isn't a problem with the friend. Discretion and trust are the two biggest factors in a swingers relationship.
2006-08-19 13:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT! It will open up a can of worms that you are not prepared to deal with! Insecurity, infidelity and serious doubt and mistrust, just to name a few!
2006-08-19 13:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you have this you most likely will need years of medical treatment.
2006-08-19 13:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Bernie Lomax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advise against the idea.
2006-08-19 13:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by papadaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you just really WANT a painful divorce?
This is a really, really a bad idea...
DON'T DO IT ! ! !
2006-08-19 15:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Steven H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋