(I'll call him Vince) Vince and I grew up bachelors all the way from high-school. We are the greatest friends and brothers.
However, now I am irritated by his happylife with his wife and her puppy. I don't understand. Vince was the bad one between the two of us: He did things with girls I can't imagine doing. Now however, my second marriage has fallen apart and Vince's first marriage seems to be vibrating!
I was his best mate at the wedding, but I didn't expect for them to last this long. Honestly, I didn't think Vince would propose! He never stayed with a girl longer than 3 months!
Now, there at the 7th year anniversary! My second mararige only lasted 5. I should be happy for my fraternal twin, but I feel like I've been cheated. Here I was doing the right thing all my life and now I'm suffering two divorces, while Vince so in love it's sickening!
What gives?!
2006-08-19 06:25:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't knock your blessings....it just seems that it's taking a little longer for you to find your perfect mate....your brother is happy so be happy for him...someday he will be your best man again but this time it will be a very lasting and properous marrige.....don't give up on love and don't let your jealousy drive a wedge between you and your brother.
2006-08-19 06:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously not making the right choices yourself!!! Try taking a little more time getting to know these women before you marry. And, lucky for your brother that he has made a good choice. There maybe a reason that you are making these wrong choices, try looking inward. Maybe, if you look a little harder you will too!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-08-19 06:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feeling is basically understandable but hey you should be happy that your twin changed for good and finally found someone to be with ..
as for your case.. do not stop loving.. we always fail but through failures we learn somethin',right?
eventhough you and vince are twins..still ur different from him.. try to reflect what's on goin' on to yourself.. your inner battles...
do not worry you will soon find your woman that suits you best and will fall deeply in love with you.. you soon be happy .. now get up and find her
2006-08-19 09:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by weakest Link! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for your brother. He has learned how to make a marriage work. Talk to him about it instead of being jealous. He might hold the key for you to have a successful marriage.
2006-08-19 06:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your obviously picking the wrong women, or maybe your not doing things as right as you think you are, Look back at your first 2 marriages and identify what went wrong and change things before #3.
2006-08-19 06:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking from the outside in. You don't really know what's going on behind closed doors. Don't get upset about it, no one is perfect and you never know what's really going on with people.
2006-08-19 06:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Here I was doing the right thing all my life"
.......huh? that sounds like DENIAL to me! get some relationship training and go make a good relationship with someone.
http://www.barbaradeangelis.com/advice.asp
http://www.cyberparent.com/relate.htm
2006-08-19 11:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋