The chats i see are just flirting.Do you think they can stop at just that.plz help women or men answers.
2006-08-19 19:41:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he;s your husband, he shouldn't be chatting with other women, period. It isn't right. Our society has made it way too easy to allow "harmless" internet interactions, whether it's chatting or emailing or porn or whatever.
My wife is the one who made that clear to me a few months ago and I have never been happier about our relationship. I was hurting us, and she made me stop.
Hope it helps.
2006-08-19 19:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Non-Stop Movie Watcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing good can come of this, if he's flirting usually there will be another level, next will either be cam to cam, or phone calls, and usually flirting ends up in sexual conversations over the internet eventually, does he chat in front of u, or only when ur at work, if he really felt he wasnt doing anything wrong he'd do it while u were there in front of u, and not waiting till ur at work.. I really think u should nip this in the bud before it becomes an obsession or he finds someone that he either emotionally cheats on u with, or physically cheats on u with..
2006-08-20 03:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might seem like harmless flirting to him, but it turns in to an adiction. And it is easy to step in to a reality affair. Somehow the person thinks the person on the other line is better than reality.
Encourage him to get addicted to a game or something that woudln't threaten your relationship.
2006-08-20 04:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband used to do that and then once it escalated to slightly more and it really upset me. I say if you are already worried about it, then you should probably camly sit him down and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable. If he is committed to the relationship he should understand and want to stop doing something if it is bothering you and if you are justified in your worries. Flirting is okay when you're in a relationship only if BOTH people in the relationship are okay with it. But you aren't (I"m not either), so it is acceptable for you to ask him to stop.
2006-08-20 02:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for married people, it is not advisable to someone on both sides be chatting over the internet. it would not only threaten your relationship but it would also hurt somebody's feeling on the other line. flirting is not a very good hobby esp to a married person because it may lead to deeper emotional attachment and even to physical. try to stop him before it becomes his addiction.
2006-08-20 05:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in a tough predicament. Todays technology makes this kind of "cheating" easy. Most folks can never stop on that. There is that need to meet that mysterious enigmatic person on the other side.
2006-08-20 02:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by EZV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is amatter of some concern,as choosing chatting as pastime,is certainly shows his mental condition.u must convince him to do other constructive work as pastime,if possible try to remain all time in touch with ur husband through phone/email/messenger.
2006-08-20 03:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by yours h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many a marrage has ended over this. my opion?
2006-08-20 04:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋