We all have fun before marriage. Lot's of dating followed be sex with lots of guys. Why we should not do it after getting married? And if both the husband and wife agree on this, what's the harm?
Sex is basically having fun. As we can watch movies or have a coffee, we can have sex. The basic concept is same - To have good time. One may claim, 'it's not exactly same, as there are 'risks' in having sex'. Were there not any before marriage?
I feel that monogamy after marriage is quite hyppocratic, when all us are ok with it before. What is the basic reason for this concept of monogamy by the way? I mean I can have a family, very well look after it, and still have sex with other friends. and so can my husband.
So still is it wrong??
2006-08-18 20:50:29 · 13 answers · asked by Maddy4You 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DISEASES and what are you teaching your children. do you remember your vows?
2006-08-18 23:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look just because you and your husband are screwed up in the head doesn't give you the right to bring children into this world so they can watch Mom and Dad screw the world.
You ever hear of A.I.D.S. and other sex sickness that can lead to death and permanent problems for your possible children.
If you think sex is like a cup of coffee or watching TV you should not be getting married. Why don't you just become a prostitute and have fun and make money.
2006-08-19 04:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being as I wasn't one to go sleep around with a bunch of different people before I got married, of course I wouldn't want to after I've been married. It would be wrong for me. Marriage and raising kids is a LOT of work. I wouldn't have time to go out and do extramarital things, I also wouldn't want to expose my husband and children to the diseases that you come in contact with when you sleep around. I'd rather focus on them and their well being and bringing them up in a moral invironment than sex with other people. Why is it everything revolves around sex? My husband is more than enough man for me I don't need anyone else.
Maybe you should marry/or should've married a swinger since you see nothing wrong with it. I guess if you dont think it's wrong then nobody can tell you it is. People do what they want to do.
2006-08-19 04:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lonesome Dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason for the concept of monogamy is biological. If it's just the two of you, you know your genes get passed on through children, and he knows his genes get passed on. Plus your children have two stable providers. It's all about continuation of the speces. And if you want so badly for you and your husband to be intimate with others, why did you bother to get actually married in the first place?
2006-08-19 04:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married if you were having so much fun single. I'm sure it wont be so fun when your hubby brings home a better looking girl than you and screws her right in front of you. Think about.
2006-08-19 04:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Fort Worth, TX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole idea of marriage to one person is monogomy. Why get married if you still want to play around?
2006-08-19 04:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong. I don't see nothing wrong with it when you are only dating but marriage! No, I don't you should be doing that type of stuff.
2006-08-19 03:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS WRONG BECAUSE WHEN U ARE MARRIED U ARE CHOOSING TO BE WITH ONE PERSON SO ITS NOT JUST THE NEED FOR SEX ITS ALSO THE FAMILY ,LOVE AND COMPANION IN LIFE ,AND TH ATS THE WAY god told use to be
2006-08-19 04:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as ALL parties involved with understand the consequences and risks and are ALL okay with it, then thre shouldn't be a problem with it.
2006-08-19 04:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by jay.shuler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i really appreciate wat you wrote and am perfectly agree with you!!!! 100 points!!! Too many people do it after marriage and then make as if they are saints!!!! Well said, bravo!!!!! Too many hyppocrites !!! by the way am Samy from Mauritius. email me if you wish . samy021171@yahoo.com
2006-08-19 04:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by samy021171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all fun and games till someone gets hurt.
2006-08-19 03:58:41 · answer #11 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋