I haven't had sex for more than a year, but occassionally i DIY.
2006-08-18 19:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by ndyong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe u just have alot of stress and worry and just dont realize it. sometimes even though we dont notice our minds r preoccupied so we dont get turned on, but if u relax and start thinking about how beautiful ur wife is and how much u love her and want to make her happy and think about how she feels about u then u never know what could happen. and if that dont work think about the best sex u and her had and try to remember how wonderful it felt and all the things that u 2 did to each other and that might also help. good luck and best wishes!
2006-08-18 19:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have the urge, but u have the responsibility 2 satisfy her, when she's in need!
Since, u have a wife with u , u can go 2 her whenever u think that u have 2. Why must u DIY?
I'm sure she is prepared 2 serve u anythime u're in.
Don't turn her down, whenever she gives the orders, accept it. If u keeps on letting her 2 complain, then ur marriage will b reaching the danger point.
Have u think of any reasons what makes u lost interest? Medicine issues, stress, or aged problems? If any one of these arise, u've 2 go 4 consultation. Look 4 a good doctor who can really gives u a great help.
Don't let ur wife feels disappointed. U have 2 talk 2 her, let her knows that what problems u're facing. This is the only way that she can help u 2 overcome of u DIY.
Husbands & wives should be honest. If u share the intimacy things & help each other, there's a possibility that ur marriage will b happier.
Good Luck!
2006-08-19 03:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by cancerlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you wanted sex and your wife was telling you to get lost would you be happy? Of course she's not happy about a sexless life. Why should she be?
Maybe you're content with a celibate life but you aren't a Priest. You have a wife to think about. If you love her and you aren't doing this as some kind of nasty payback I would suggest you go to a doctor or counselor and find out why your sex drive is nonexistent. You would be doing yourself, your wife, and your marriage a favor.
By the way, if I found out that you were ignoring me and DIY, I would be soooooooooooooo pissed!
2006-08-19 02:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you're. you're depriving her of it. why DIY? You've here and an ideal partner. Dont think of the reasons as to why not.
Its selfish?
2006-08-20 09:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! something very wrong. I suggest you see a porn movie with your wife and after that see whether you can perform. Please don't "DIY", very hurting your wife. Good luck!
2006-08-19 11:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hei u have some problem r.Sure u r wrong.Hei don't wasted your wife u know.If don't like to feed her let me feed her 4 u ok.Your wife so hungry already u know?Go n check your brain n your dick.
2006-08-19 16:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some help out there, medication etc. Just because you are not interested, doesn't mean she shouldn't get it. You can please her in other ways or let her have a bf.
2006-08-22 19:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think thats your problem...diy... why not the real with wife?
save it for her and you...
you'll be fine.
2006-08-19 10:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to scare you but it could be some kind of medical problem. Could be stress, anxiety or even depression.. who knows?
2006-08-19 02:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by BMD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL ARE YOU KEEPING HER HOSTAGE ? you ought to let her go out and get some.
2006-08-19 02:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by toooextreeeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋