Marriage & Divorce - 16 August 2006

I used to do alot of partying, now 2 years after stoping i feel like i just dont get it. I see all these happy people, and i dont understand how they are happy. I have 2 children and dont know how to enjoy that either. I stay fully involved in there lives, 50% custody. but i dont understand how people find happyness in a life like mine. School kids, school kids... etc
any ideas or did i just kill my brain with ecstacy and such?
also i was maried at 18 and divorced at 24... i also dont get the dating scene since i realy only dated my exwife in highschool.
any help is apricated. I know many of you will just have rude things to say so let me have it....

2006-08-16 19:04:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a question regarding divorce. Michigan is a no fault state, right? So since this is true, if a live in girlfriend attends a court date for a show cause against her boyfriend for spousal support, will this have an effect on anything? Would it be in her boyfriends best interest for her to stay at home? Soon to be ex wife is aware the girlfriend lives with her soon to be ex husband, her attorney knows as well but unsure if the Judge knows. Thanks!!!

2006-08-16 19:02:18 · 4 answers · asked by maryannmccarthy2003 6

i got married 5 months ago n losing interest in sex.though he take care of my feelings .help

2006-08-16 18:59:41 · 10 answers · asked by catty 1

ive always been suspicious of this guy, he is supposed to be a friend of her son. in the past she has never had a problem crying in front of us. i woke one morning around two oclock , my wife was awake walking around in a see through night gown this guy was sitting on my sofa, her son was awake as well but why was she awake at this time of night when she had to work the next morning, suspect?

2006-08-16 18:55:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

People say everything has its own pro's and con's, well you tell me one good reason why I should even consider it?(my parents are trying to force it on me)

2006-08-16 18:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-16 18:48:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Waiting for answer. Specially from Girls.

2006-08-16 18:43:19 · 10 answers · asked by DJ 2

My step son acts rediculously jealous whenever me and his father show any type of affection?!..When we hold hands he runs to break our hands apart?!.If his father kisses me he forces a kiss the same way, and whenever we hug he runs in between us! he always wants to be in the middle!??...why does he act like this?? and when will it stop??

2006-08-16 18:38:50 · 20 answers · asked by Collie 1

2006-08-16 18:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by dee4evermore 1

2006-08-16 18:23:44 · 7 answers · asked by lilly 2

After watching KANK, it really makes me think... what do you guys have to say about it?

2006-08-16 18:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by LLLL O 1

2006-08-16 18:19:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently heard my husbands text message alert so after about 2 texts I decided to check it. The first text said"I love you" and the second text said "meet me." I am not sure if there were more because I went totally numb. I confronted my husband of 18 years who looked surprised yet had no idea about who it was from and what was going on etc. In the meantime he erased all outgoing and incoming calls made that day. He claims the girl who worked with him in the office drinks alot and must have been drinking and texted the wrong person. I called the girl and left a message. THe next morning at 6, she called to say she was so sorry. She was out drinking and was now getting up for aspirin and meant the text for her boyfriend and they had been fighting. THe next day I had asked to hear the voice mails. He though he had erased all of them but, not hers! She said "Hi, its me, gues you're busy, talk to you later." He claims nothing ever happened. Is he cheating?

2006-08-16 18:12:34 · 21 answers · asked by Karen 1

I am a concerned father of two beautiful children. We are in a divorce situation and I am trying to assess the threat to these children when they are in the home of their 'socially' active mother. The statistics I have seen- 50% for female children and 35% for male children- have me panicking. Even more so when I consider that these statistics are for the general population: when applied specifically to the population of broken families the odds of my children being molested are truly frightening. This is a built-in inequity of divorce: I realized that while I agonize over this very real threat to my children in my ex-wife's home, she has no reciprocal concern at all - very little molestation is done by father's and less done by non-family women in the children's home. Why is this insidious and pervasive tragedy not being kept in the consciousness of the nation? Why are there apparently no laws that protect millions of children from this inherent divorce threat?

2006-08-16 18:05:15 · 7 answers · asked by jasmann444 1

well, weve been married for 18 years already. i was 16 and he was 20 then. its just that i have caught him thru text messages which led me to actually talk with the girl which he had seen only a day after i knew and it turned out that it was the first time they saw each other. my point is, i can understand that men can be like that but simply the thought of having girlfriends thru txt is a reality that he still want to have anything with other women. but, after each time we fight, he makes it up to mt the best way he could. still, it hurts.

2006-08-16 17:59:55 · 10 answers · asked by gianelli 1

i met this guy. i have to admit he is hot, smart and successful. but he is also soo in love with himself. he thinks so highly of himself. always tries to get the attention, wants me to chase him and tells me how people try to pick him up all the time. he is simply too vain.

i wonder if any good relationship can be maintained with someone of this personality?

2006-08-16 17:54:09 · 14 answers · asked by kenko 1

2006-08-16 17:50:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anon 1

can there be a deep love relationship made in a weektime ?

2006-08-16 17:45:13 · 15 answers · asked by neo 2

I have been in a verbally abusive relationship with my husband of of 4 years.He was my first love since I was14.I am now 47 years old.I have left him twice over this, and yes, he has gotten better, but I still couldn't take it.I will love him until the day I die,and can't stand being without him.I miss him so much, it's killing me.He contacted me many times trying to reconcile, go to counciling, whatever it takes.I rejected him because we have done this twice and he changed for awhile.He is the greatest person in the world most of time and we have so much in common.Can a person like him really change?Also, he has been on a dating website after giving up on me since 7/27/06, just talking.I know he is going thru hell living in our house alone.Last time he did this, he immediatly dumped women he was talking to when I came home.He has been a faithful husband when we were together.I know this, cuz I checked.Should I call him and try to save my marriage again?I don't want this divorce!

2006-08-16 17:41:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-16 17:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-16 17:38:30 · 10 answers · asked by sridhar s 1

Do interracial marriages have the same chance of survival as same race marriages?

2006-08-16 17:32:48 · 19 answers · asked by ERIC W 3

2006-08-16 17:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by neo 2

Have any regrets?? I mean bofore , during . or after you got married... My regret is not waiting until I was 30 to get married,, and also I am falling out of love with my husband....

2006-08-16 17:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by E.M. 4

She offers no good reason, and I truly can't see what her problem is>>>does she believe she is the Queen of Never Never Land or has she totally lost touch with reality?

2006-08-16 17:27:47 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4

advice plz

2006-08-16 17:26:35 · 10 answers · asked by carrie 1

2006-08-16 17:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by kiddsdirtwork 1

My husband, and Igot married almost three years ago. We did not love each other that much when we did get married. We married becasue I was pregnant (which was his decision). We ended up falling in love about a year ago. I found my husband on the computer doing his thing while he was on a web cam with anouther girl. He told me that he wanted to see if he still had it going on. I got scared, and I separated from him. Now, Itold him that I did not care if he looks at porn I just don't want him doing anything with a real person even on-line. He said that he hasnot since that time that I caught him. Well the other day he went onto sexyads.com where you can look at real peoples naked pics, I found out, and I also found out that he did not chat with any of them. What should I do?? I fell like I'm not good enough. I know that I'm attractive, but I'm scared that hes getting bored with me??I'm not fat, and I'm a great wife?? Please help me I'm going crazy!!

2006-08-16 17:21:47 · 32 answers · asked by Nicole 1

I feel when you are young 18-24 you are marrying basically for love, but I feel once you start to get older you still marry for love however you start thinking about the financial situation, what you can bring to the table, and also what the future holds for you lke retirement, kids, college for your kids, how you can make the marriage work together you know different things. When I was yonger and I am now 28 I was engaged to this guy I was really in love with who continued to do hurtful stuff like take from others, manipulate others, and do whatever he could to get ahead, but he would also overdraw his account all the time for stupid ****, spend money on unimportant things but leave his bills unpaid. When we first got together we were 19 and I never looked at things from that point of view, but once I got a clue and said to him I want more in life and that I wanted to live a honest "work for everything life he started saying I was acting stuck up and that I wanted someone with money

2006-08-16 17:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Val 1

2006-08-16 17:20:04 · 11 answers · asked by Cobra 5