2006-08-16 17:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now he felt very sorry to me of the mistake he had made, he promised me he will love me forever and never made the same mistake again. But I still feel very sad and can not accept what have happened to me
2006-08-16 17:43:25 · update #1
Sometime forgiviness doesnt work...I think you should leave that guy.
2006-08-16 17:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by eternal_soldierz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you in the first place . He would not hurt you by these actions of lusting and cheating or lying . It just happened is the oldest story in the book. It is called choices and once you make that choice you live with it . So if you take the ****** Back never ask where, why , how , what position or do you really feel sorry . He's a player and always will be . Your much better cutting it off now and finding some one who really knows what the word monogamous means. Your only asking to be hurt again and again if you let him back in.
2006-08-16 20:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheats on you once, he'll probably cheat on you again and again! yes, u maybe able to forgive him, but will u forget this? it hurts you so deeply that the scar may stay there for a long long time. it also depends on how much u love him. if u really love him and can't live w/o him? then u shud forgive him and give him another chance. hope he would learn from his mistakes and never repeated again. if he does that again, dump him! he is a jerk.
if i were you, i would leave him cos i am a perfectionist. i can't afford a single cheat! that's enuf already! no matter how much i love him.
2006-08-16 17:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loss of trust is a terrible thing to experience. I know and have lived through it. Time is the only thing that heals this wound. You must remember the good about him and go from there. If he NEVER cheats again,then things will get better. Yes I am still with my lady and love her with all my heart. We have been together 21 years now!!!
2006-08-16 17:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me i'd head back to my relatives and associates that care about me. he's a psychological and actual abuser and also you may want to no longer rationalize his habit no remember what you attempt to sense about him. once you come back on your spouse and children you record for a divorce in that state formerly he information one the position you stay or you'd be stuck there till the youngsters are 18. seem at your husbands history with you and recognize that if he has saved this a secret what different secrets and techniques might want to he be hidding from you? He can be a good Dad yet he's not proper to his newborn's mom. at the same time with his dishonest habit he might want to in some unspecified time sooner or later take you down with an incurable std no longer pondering how the newborn's might want to sense about that. it heavily isn't person-friendly yet when he died the following day you may want to manage because you may want to don't have any selection. it is your proper to sense hatred over this betrayal and as we communicate no longer opt to forgive him. you may want to continually bypass back to school at a later date even as issues get settled. he might want to pay newborn help because the regulation will stand behind you even as it consists of that. by no skill ever settle for something on your international that brings you down and by no skill up on your existence. because something he might want to be sorry for now doesn't replace the options he made and how he allowed you to sense about it. you may want to spend more effective power on hoping to fix this than it would want to take to rebuild your self a sparkling existence. You need to sense threat-free and secure by technique of someone that you make investments your emotions into and maximum of all to be respected. What might want to truly difficulty me right that's that his pal knew about it and that i had to take heed to "isn't that the single you've been banging"? i'd sense so humiliated that he might want to turn to his pal for convenience if he ever cared really that I walked out of his existence?
2016-11-25 21:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive, but the problem is you can never forget and because of this it very seldom works out.
2006-08-16 19:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by kb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search deep in your heart to forgive him. God hates divorce.
But if he contiues to cheat over time, then you might want to
consider the alternative.
I Corinthians 13;8a, Love never fails!!!!!
2006-08-16 18:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Spruce yourself up and go out and get laid. Get even....... then you won't feel so sorry for yourself.
2006-08-16 17:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋