advice plz
2006-08-16 17:26:35 · 10 answers · asked by carrie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he needs to stop sleeping with the child, that is sad and dangerous!!!
2006-08-16 17:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That is unhealthy behavior. His child will become dependent on someone sleeping with them and won't want to sleep on their own. When they do try to get the child to sleep alone, they will have many sleepless nights. And if he gives in and ends up sleeping with the child to get them to stop crying or throwing a fit, the cycle starts all over again stunting the progress of growth for the child. His wife(your sister) will start to feel inadequate and have self esteem issues. He needs to not only think about the mental health of his child, but the stability of his marriage to. Good luck to your sister, I fear she has some major struggles ahead of her. Be there for her and support, she will need it.
2006-08-17 00:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want to sleep with her why doesn't he sleep on the couch instead of taking up space in the kids bed when he comes to her for sex she needs to tell him no and turn over and go to sleep the nerve of him she needs to ask him ?'s is he seeing someone else or is he happy with her and the marriage something is wrong and she needs to know now
2006-08-17 00:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some people sleep better when there is no one there to criticise their sleep habits (snoring for one). I've been married 30 years, and prefer to sleep alone. Sex is still in the picture.
2006-08-17 00:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by bobmartin333 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you shore that it is his choice to sleep in another room when i was married i wasnt aloud to sleep in the same bed as my wife because see wouldn't share a bloody thing she will need to put her cards on the table or pack her bags because it wont change
2006-08-17 01:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by sniper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your sister snores or has other bedroom behaviors that makes it hard to sleep with her, so he has to move to the 2 year old's room. BTW, do you think that you have a moral right to ask questions and potentially offer advice to your sister? Shouldn't she be the one asking for advice?
2006-08-17 00:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to kick him to the curb , I mean just for sex, what an ***
I guess she like it , cause she lets this happen,,
2006-08-17 00:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And she puts up with this why? Something is seriously wrong here.
2006-08-17 00:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, how does your sis feel about this, and what does she tell him?
2006-08-17 00:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by semma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind your business and stop posting hers
2006-08-17 00:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋