Have any regrets?? I mean bofore , during . or after you got married... My regret is not waiting until I was 30 to get married,, and also I am falling out of love with my husband....
2006-08-16 17:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have the same regret. I wish I would have waited until I was at least 27-28. I am falling out of love with my husband. We barely talk and we argue all of the time. It is just not working. He is not the same as before and I am so tired of bending and trying to make things work.
2006-08-16 17:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by Looking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 26 and am now in process of divorce 8 years later. I can not say I regret getting married though because it gave me my two precious boys. I do regret staying so long after the love was gone and only arguing and resentment remained.
2006-08-16 17:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I regret getting married sometimes, you know when the happy times comes you're haooy,but when the bad times comes You regret it especially when the bad out weigh the good. I was 20 when we got married and he was 23. I agree I should of waited also. My husband and I met in Nov. 2003, we made it official Dec. 8, I moved sometime that month, We got married April 24,2004. We separated Oct. 04 , we got back together Nov 04 around Thks givingand I got pregnant and our baby was born Aug.2005. See how fast things went. At first he loved me unconditionally but then things started going sour. Now I dont want him to touch me , I dont even want to have sex with him, when we do I just lay there unless its oral sex. In between those times our relationship has been up and down, mostly down. Its really hard and hurting when we feel this way but if u want to be happy then theres got to be a change. It seems like sitting down to talk dont help it lead to us making love and thats the end of the conversation. So I know how u feel but u got to do something about it. I tried leaving my hubby but it didnt work so now we just take it one step at a time in trying to repair our marriage but my feeling deep down still feel the same even though we call ourselves reparing our marriage. So just ttake it slow and talk about it. You can email me and we could talk sometimes. bscales04@yahoo.com
2006-08-16 18:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by BDOG05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married young and we divorce after 12 yrs. I regret doing it at such a young age for a variety of reasons. The divorce took it's toll but I am so happy now with my new found freedom and new life. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
2006-08-16 17:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. i shouldn't get married at only 22. now I'm 24 and have a daughter, my marriage is not working well. we have lots of arguments. i am really tired and regret thinking that i should had fun at my age and need not to be suffer right now. i am fuc*king sad.
2006-08-16 17:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm on my 6'th and final husband! Lots of regrets! But had no choice in the matters! example, adultry, broke my heart, no more get out while the gettin's good! You can make yourself happy all by yourself!
2006-08-16 17:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by unohu54 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My only regret is not getting out of the relationship that I was in, prior to my husband, sooner. I still have self-esteem issues due to what my ex did to me!
2006-08-16 17:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my regret was getting married
2006-08-16 18:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by sniper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i never have or had a regret because you learn from your mistakes and your trials in life
2006-08-16 17:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by theelementgod 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then divorce before it gets worse
2006-08-16 17:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋