I have been married for 6 yrs. We had problems with arguing over dumb stuff. I also felt like he was emotionaly cheating on me(running to another woman for emotional support).He would avoid me and I felt that he was doing it because he didnt want me anymore.We seperated for a couple of months but got back together.He acts funny sometimes and that is the only thing I think of is him doing wrong.
2006-08-16 16:49:12 · 10 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ALways trust your gut feeling.
2006-08-16 16:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your instict can serve you well, but you have to learn to step back emotionally and think it out logically, analize what he does ( but do not tell him u r doing so ), try to quantify his actions, but from a viewpoint of a man, after all if he was going to another women for emotional support, he felt like he couldn't not get an unbiased trusted opinion from you.. so you want to think why, don't go for right or wrong, just concentrate on the why aspect.. and then see if you cannot find fault in his thinking, be it where ever that may point to, you or him.. be ready for any self discovery you may find not to your liking and be ready to change what may be needed. i have yet to meet a women who has not some sort of emotional baggage she carries with her and then subconsciously acts out over time.. all the while driving a slow wedge between her and her partner
2006-08-16 17:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My marriage sound a lot like yours. It goes in waves. Sometime great, sometimes not so great. During the down slope I decide to make myself fun to be with. That way he doesn't want to spend time or talk to anyone else.
We are on the up swing right now. And wouldn't want to fight with anyone else.
married for 11 yrs.
2006-08-16 17:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by seekingknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that strongly about it, its probably true. Confrontation may not work, but you might want to try to get him to admit he is relying on another for emotional support. That is cheating, no matter how you slice it. Forget this guy. You will probably never forgive him and never forget he abandoned you emotionally.
2006-08-16 16:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by 0000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does the same thing. He runs to his ex for emotional support. Yes I think it's cheating. Let him know how you feel. Give him an ultimatum. Loose her or loose you. Good luck.
2006-08-16 17:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts, especially if it's the same pattern over and over again. If you seriously have doubts about your marriage, perhaps it's time to sit down with him and communicate.
2006-08-16 17:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like intuition to me. He should be "forsaking all others" and if you don't like him talking to another chick then HE is certainly at fault.
2006-08-16 17:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough being married! Only you know if you are being paranoid or real!
2006-08-16 16:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG OR EVEN CONSIDERED IT THEN YOURE PROBABLY RIGHT AND HE IS UP TO SOMETHING.OTHERWIZE IT COULD BE A GUILTY FEELING YOU HAVE AND YOUR PUSHING IT OFF ON HIM.
2006-08-16 16:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut...it's usually right! sorry!
2006-08-16 16:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by hethbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋