which is the easiest way possible to get over a past relationship?

Question

I would like to get this guy off my mind and just get on with my life, please give me hints

Answer 1

I know where you are at and it's painful
Got back with mine and it is nearly as painful, we never forget they left do we?
My advice, move on darl and don't look back.

Answer 2

First keep your mind very busy.Dont let it think.If you are at work concentrate more than usual.If you are not working then divert your mind into hobbies which you like or learn new hobbies and crafts which will keep you busy.Always keep your mind occupied with some activities either indoor or outdoor.When you feel that you are about to think of this guy,just take a walk or go to friends house.Dont be alone when you have such thoughts,either call a friend or switch on some good music or watch some good humourous movie.
So the basic idea is keep yourself busy and mind occupied.Dont worry about anything else.Time is the best healer,so think you would be able to take this guy out from your mind.If you think its hard to get this guy off from mind try a change of scene.Shift your place.Try to make the best use of the phase by learning new hobbies and activities.That should keep you busily occupied.

Answer 3

You have to get involved with friends that do not include him. You do need to grieve but not wallow in it. You must find ways to not always be home. Take a class, get into a sport, join a dance class, volunteer somewhere. Make a list of the things that you really enjoy and find ways to get involved in them. If he calls, do not pick up. If you have to, change your phone number. Do not call him!!! If you have vacation time accrued and you have some cash, now would be a good time to take a trip to visit a friend or family. Maybe get a girlfriend to go with you on a cruise or even on a quick weekend trip. On weekends, get a good book and go and sit in a really pretty park and read. You need to get to know you again. You need to start making happy memories somewhere else and a good place to start is with you.

If you own your own place or are allowed to paint, paint an accent wall. First, write on the wall all the good things about yourself, friends and family. Then paint it and seal all those good things forever with fresh paint. If you can afford some new accent things like pillows, rugs or plants, this can keep you busy shopping for the right things and price, for quite awhile, and make you feel new again. If you have a patio, you can get some new plants, a little table with chairs...get it used and paint it... and add bright chair pads. Make it an outside room and sit out there and go through your mail, magazines or just enjoy the sky. You do not have to spend a fortune, look for good sales or discount places. Buy yourself flowers often. You can get them inexpensively at the grocery store. Buy a bunch, divide it up and put flowers in each room. Flowers really lift the spirits. If you can't spend any thing right now, then clean and rearrange what you have and look around outside for some flowers or even some pretty greenery. Look for pretty, delicate branches. Several of these in a clear glass vase can make an exciting arrangement. Cleaning can be very therapeutic. Go to museums, art stores, book stores and just browse. Even thrift stores can be fun. Balance busy with alone time and do not go into debt trying to feel better.

Sadly, it just takes time but you can do it!

Answer 4

Hi.
You should better forget your past and concentrate on your future. Past can't ever come back. Go out with your friends more often and enjoy life. You can also join some courses in order to focus your attention on other things. You will see that once you will find someone else you will automatically forget the other guy. You should not let your chance slip away. Forget the guy for good and remember that life reserves lots of happiness fro you. Wish you all the best. Stay alert. You never know when happiness might knock at your door again.

Answer 5

By getting into another one. It's the easiest but not recommended. Give yourself a break! Think about what went wrong. Focus on the part you played in it. Spend time with your friends, lend on them for awhile. You'll be a better person from the experience. Good luck.

Answer 6

I know axactly how you feel, im in the same situation as yourself.
Ive been hurting for weeks but ive not decided that life is too short and i have to just get on and make the most of it. Im even going to meet another guy tomorrow, i advice u to get out, put ur glad rags on and go make a killin babe. Good luck

Answer 7

After an abusive relationship some years in the past (mentally fairly than bodily) it took me an prolonged long term to get close to to a guy back. whilst i think of roughly it now, i could seek for issues that wasn't even there. i could be protecting in my relationships and finally discover motives to end them. i believe as quickly as you come across the main dazzling important different as I rather have (married almost 8 years) the undesirable techniques ultimately fade away. Mine have and that i'm hoping they do for you. you may enable bypass of the previous. reliable success x

Answer 8

Socialize more. Go out with friends and don't feel you have to be with a man any time soon. Work out at a gym or workout more if you do that already. Focus on doing positive things for you. Take up a new hobby. If time you will wonder what you ever saw in him.

Answer 9

Honetly, there is no easy way to forget a past relationship especially, if it was your first. It will take time but be assured only time will ease the pain. Keep yourself occupied or confide in someone who is will to be acompanion and be a good listener. By talking to someone in confidence, it will help u realise the good and bad of the relationship and it will help u heal faster

Answer 10

Sorry there is not a easy way. It takes time. You were emotionally attached and that makes it difficult to get over. You will never forget the relationship. You need to except your change and move on to better things. In time you will feel less.

Answer 11

Sometimes there is just no easy way but time. Just let yourself go through the process and when you start feeling better, only then can you start doing the things you used to like doing. Give it time. It's different for everyone.