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Can your hubby heart love 2 woman, one the wife the other a third party. Love and care at the same time. i find it rather ridiculous.
Please advise.

2006-08-16 22:48:54 · 36 answers · asked by sun 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

36 answers

Yes. Human beings are capable of loving many people at once.

2006-08-16 22:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes a man can love 2 women. A man should love 2 women. His wife should be number 1 and his mother should be number 2. Other than that, (unless he has adult daughters) it's wrong for a man to love another woman.

2006-08-16 22:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0 0

The question is not whether he can love two women. The question should be: does he love the woman he's with enough so that he doesn't feel the need to love another one at the same time...especially in a marriage?

2006-08-16 23:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0 0

Of course a man can love 2 women. But unless the first woman doesnt mind sharing, in the end he is going to have to either choose one or lose both.

2006-08-16 22:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0 0

yes i think its ridiculous... u either love someone and the other is just for passing time or u are playing with both... if your hubby tells u that then u must divorce immediately because he is playing with u and the third party while he gets away with it...it is the 2 of u that will be jealous of each other while he is enjoying time with both of u....leave him because u will only end up feeling hurt and bitter towards men...

2006-08-16 23:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0 0

It is possible. Unfortunately, unless you were raised to accept polygamy as a way of life, this type of situation can be really painful. Either make your hubby choose or live with it and hope he stops loving the other woman.

2006-08-16 22:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0 0

yes man ca luv or sleep with 2 wome also.it had happened to me because i had fall in luv with a married man.i'm also married with kids.we are in the same organisation and we get really close and this have been going on for 3 months. life is so happy with him coz you feel as though this is your first date.he told me he luv me more than his wife.on the other hand i also do luv him very,very much.than 1 day his wife found out and suddenly he told me that we have to stop seeing first but if he really luv me this is a gd opportunity to tell the truth because i'm prepare to tell my hubby about this affair.i've cried and can't concentrate on my work because i'm missing him because we have not see each other for a week already. now it makes me to realize is this the way he luv me?i tried to forget or stop thinking of him but it's very difficult because he so special and i kept thinking of him every seconds. so ladies out there if possible don't ever have a affair because it's a difficult relationship if things didn't work out.now i'm depressed, down, not eating proper meal and lost interest with hubby.

2006-08-18 05:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by hai s 1 · 0 0

Everybody can love two person at the same time but once after marriage I feel that each individual should be devoted to his/her spouse. If you need to care for friends of different sex, sometimes it good to get your spouse along just in case misunderstanding arises. So it also depends on what is their previous relationship and how much the coples trust each other too. But a word of advice is tt if your spouse is taking care of his friends of different sex, let him know how you feel so tt he is aware of what he is doing. You can have a good talk with him on this matter too

2006-08-17 04:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0 0

Anyone can love more then just one person. But is who you love the most that is important ! And if he is with you, you should be the one who is more important in all areas. Or maybe he is cheating on you? Some guys like to have a few women around!

2006-08-17 03:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by jdfnv 5 · 0 0

Love and sex have nothing to do with each other from the mind of a man. Sounds like that is what you are talking about. A man can love his wife and have sex with the mistress and not love her. That man will tell the mistress that he loves her in order to set it up for coming back again.

2006-08-16 23:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No. A man/woman can only love one person truly. They might sometimes misunderstand their feelings and think that they love more than 1 person at the same time, but if they really think they'll know that their TRUE love is only ONE!

2006-08-16 22:55:08 · answer #11 · answered by fleur 2 · 0 0

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