2006-08-18 12:26:40 · 19 answers · asked by mukuljack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i did my mother in law and father in law hated me after i got married they st oped hating me and had to accept the fact i mean they didn't talk to my husband for 2 months but oh well why should i not get married just b/c they didn't want it i would still do they will get over it and accept it one way or another best luck
2006-08-18 12:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My parents never approved and I married anyway. All it caused was more stress over the years. After the kids came along things just got worse. Do not get married unless the parents approve.
2006-08-18 18:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by bettiepagefan25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you close to your parents? Is your Boyfriend close to his? Family is everything in this world, but when we get married that is our new family. However, sometimes older people see things that younger people don't. Why not have a longer engagement and try to win both parents over?
2006-08-18 12:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I agreed, and my husband agreed, and his parents agreed, but mine didn't, but they let us do our own thing (I was 20, he was 25) and now, ten years later, I wish I had listened to my mom. Sigh. Mother knows best, as does Father. Maybe you should ask WHY they don't agree, and be open about it. Seriously, it could save you some major heart ache.
2006-08-18 12:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Strange question... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I couldn't marry if my parents didn't agree. They're very good when it comes to anything really. So I trust their judgement.
2006-08-18 12:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love that person and your family does not understand your love for each other, I would say go for it because your family will always be there for you no matter what decision you make. If your family does not stick by your side then you should decide who you should choose.
2006-08-18 12:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by twiinsgirl316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your parents they see a bigger picture than you do and have your best intentions at heart vs lust and love and all those confusing hormones. They just want you happy and if they are worried about you there is a good reason.
2006-08-18 12:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because yu shudnt drop one relationship to pick up another...and anyways, yur family is ur best bet..they def no wuts best for yu..but if its cuz of sum1s race that theyre saying no or becuz of sum1s class...i think its up to u..otherwise, ur whole family and u shud agree together =]
hope i helped!
-pyarkipari♥
2006-08-18 12:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents know you better than anyone. Listen to what they are telling you.
2006-08-18 12:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dianne T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you really love this person you shouldn't care because its not like your going to live with them.
2006-08-18 12:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by aracely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋