is marriage glorified prostitution really?
2006-08-18 10:57:59 · 42 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he doesnt help pay the mortgage and you dont have sex? Why be married? Does he pay all the other bills instead? More info needed.
2006-08-18 11:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-18 11:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No money, no honey, huh? Is it you who doesn't want sex? Financial issues is among the number one stressors in a relationship. If it is your husband who has trouble with sex, perhaps he's feeling like he's less than a man right now. You two should talk about what's going on between you. You married for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer. I had a loser husband who chose to give up employment, even then I suggested he go back to school. I figured maybe he was fed up with the pay ceiling and felt unfulfilled. This was after he either quit or lost the third job. I had long before picked up a second job to keep up with the bills.
Now, if he has adequate income and chooses not to help you with the mortgage payment, then he's just as much a loser as my ex-husband was. Your question is wide open, there are so many variables which can affect your situation.
2006-08-18 13:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, not a very manly man, is he? At least does he help with the cleaning and pamper you as a queen??
Marriage is not prostitution. If you don't need the sex either, then why complain. Maybe you are into a very spiritual level. But most humans enjoy having sex as a way of expressing intimacy, love, fun, confidence, trust, etc.
Maybe you just need to be the mother of someone and he is the perfect partner to be mothering around.???
2006-08-18 13:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the way it has been here, so I gave up on the sex, it is his loss, he won't change, so I changed and no sex for him. It is much like glorified prostitution. I just decided I didn't want to be his hooker anymore! Luckily I am not married. oops forgot that detail. Right now we live together so it sucks just the same.
2006-08-18 16:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the mortgage have to do with sex???
He should be helping you pay for the mortgage if he has a job...you two are married afterall and it is a partnership.
I am not sure why you are not having sex as I am not involved in your marriage but it sounds as though you are having some marital issues pertaining to finances and intimacy that need to be addressed ASAP.....no cash, no sex....what's he there for??? I wouldn't be giving any free rides that's for sure.....
2006-08-18 11:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are an unemployed prostitute if you an't having sex anyway. Maybe you should charge him and put the money towards the mortgage. Or just get divorced sounds like you wont miss him or need him anyway
2006-08-18 11:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by simjam31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont feel that it is. There are some women making a larger salary than their husbands, does that make him her man whore? I dont think so. Your husband should be contributing to the bills in one way or another. If he doesnt pay the motgage then maybe he should pay all the utilities, whatever evens it out.
2006-08-18 11:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you think of it that way.
For some, sex borders on a sacrament, a merging of mind, body and spirit.
If it is just 2 minutes 52 seconds of squishing noises, should you feel all you have to do is shut your mouth and open your legs, there are far deeper troubles.
2006-08-18 11:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a construct of church and state. A contract, which normally isn't expressed in enough detail to maintain. If you feel that your end of the deal is not being enforced, you are within your rights to not give anything of yourself.
2006-08-18 11:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by neoliminal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋