2006-08-18 16:37:39 · 21 answers · asked by ndck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sling your own pooh at them
2006-08-18 16:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
2006-08-18 16:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to be honest with your fiance and yourself. If this is not what you want at this point in your life then you have to let him know and not continue to lead him on. However, my question to u is "Why did u except the ring if you were not ready to commit?" U really are giving mixed signals and that's not fair to him. Let him go to find someone who is more deserving of his love because it obvious that u don't want it.
2006-08-18 17:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by cashmere3636 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will see thru any lies. Just be honest. Pain is a part of life. It will suck to give him this pain, but it must be done. It's better than marrying and having a divorce. Do it in person. And be around for a few weeks, cuz he'll be calling and will need you to hear all about all his confusion. You owe it to him to help him thru the pain. But then, break off contact, once you think he's over it.
2006-08-18 16:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh dear, that's a tuffy...well the best thing I can say to you is to just have a long talk with your fiance....tell him that your not ready to be engaged right now or for that matter in a relationship....tell him that you need so time for yourself to sort things out but that ya'll can still go out to dinner and stuff just not together all the time.....and always stay friends tooo.......Good Luck......
2006-08-18 16:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by lyn_x_three 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i told him that i was not ready for marriage and that i should not have accepted the ring which is true i told him 2 days after we got engaged. He put me on the spot by asking me to marry him infront of mine and his family so i did not want to embarass him or make him look bad or foolish, i gave the ring back to him and have not seen him since and that was well over 7 years ago.
2006-08-19 15:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by rememberingdad2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips on this site on how to break it off in a nice way
2006-08-18 16:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
play the song by Ray Charles, "Hit the Road, Jack." That should give him a hint.
2006-08-18 16:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you're boinkin' his best friend, say, "Uh? I don't think this is going to work out, but can I keep the ring!? Bu-bye!"
No, just tell him it's over.
2006-08-18 16:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you have a change of heart,and that your not ready to make a serious commitment !
2006-08-18 17:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him that you've had a change of heart. It's better to do this now than after your married.
2006-08-18 16:44:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋