My friend Maria wants me to go out with this guy named Jon & she asks me
how I know that he isn't my special someone I don't know but when I met him I didn't have any feeling for him & I didn't sense anything & I just doubt that he is the one.
He asked me for my address the 2nd time that I talked to him & I didn't give him it
because that's too early to give someone your address & I don't give my address out.
And he was like do u have a job? And I said no & he's like this one place is hiring.
He kind of made me mad about these 2 things & he souded kind of pushing when he asked for my address because he kept asking for it.
He kind of reminds me of my sister's boyfriend that is a jerk & an idoit & he kind of reminds me of my sister's stupid boyfriend's brother.
I don't really want to go out with him because I didn't really feel attached to him &
I didn't really feel happy when I met him.
Maria is making me feel kind of bad because I don't really want to go out with him.
My mom's best friend said that if he is the one that I will sometimes see him around if it's planned & if it's not planned. Is That True???
What All Do You Guy's Think???
Do You Guy's Think That He Is The One For Me???
What Should I Do???
2006-08-18 16:31:40 · 10 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your feelings for him just aren't there, don't waste your time thinking about what other people will think about your decision. It is very unwise to go out with someone you don't have feelings for just to make other people feel happy. Good luck.
2006-08-18 16:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds too pushy. As cheesy as it sounds when you find "the One", you really do know when the time is right. I've known my husband since I was 7, but I never had a crush on him or anything. We grew up together off and on. when I would spend my summers in Ga we would hang out. Then when I went back about 6 years later after no contact I wantesd to see how he was doing and somthing inside me just clicked, I knew he was "the One" I felt a magnetic draw to him, not lust or anything emotionally at first, just drawn to him . We just clicked. I learned the hard way NOT to listin to what your parents think is best for you. I divorced my husband over somthing I knew could be handled through a temporary separation and my mom talked me into a divorce. Well the time apart helped us both grow up a little, but it also made me realize that I loved him no matter what. We are married again. Happliy =)
2006-08-18 23:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go out with someone you are not comfortable with. I don't think hes the one either. I knew about 5 min after meeting my husband he was the one. It felt like I found a home with him, like I found the rest of me. We did not even have to go anywhere. We could talk for hours, and still do. Hes my best friend. Please don't let your friend manipulate you. Stick to your guns and say no, maybe someother time or some other person. Be strong
2006-08-18 23:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, when "the one" comes along, you'll know it. You'll just sense something about him, but you won't know what it is, will probably put it off as nothing, but *something* will nag at you. I'm with the poster above--I knew the first time I met my husband that there was something special about him and we've been together for 12 years, married for ten.
But this guy....your instincts are trying to tell you something about this guy. Trust it; my gut never leads me wrong.
2006-08-18 23:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance. Trust your instincts, they're telling you that there's something wrong with this, especially as he seems to resemble people you think are jerks. He could be putting pressure on Maria to get her to persuade you to go out with him.
Tell her he's not your sort and that you're not interested. If she's your friend she'll back off.
2006-08-18 23:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by shiralee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first off tell him to stay away,I'm pretty sure were talking stalker here.second tell your friend if this is the kind of men she wants to set you up with,tell her not to be doing you any more favors,and last if you don't like him and don't fell comfortable being with or around him then don't be around him,tell him thanks but no thanks,you are your own person,you need to do what you feel is right for you,and not what everyone else thinks is right for you.and no i don't think he is the one for you.good luck
2006-08-18 23:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by hshellraiser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy makes you feel uncomfortable it's best to end it here. Someone that truly cares about you will NOT be pushy about anything. Good Luck!!
2006-08-18 23:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Robert H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes u jsut dont hit it off..but maybe if u give him more time to perster u, u might realize that he;s a nice guy after all..lol..i think u kinda like him u jsut dont know it becuase if u dont care a damn bit, u wont be asking around..lol...so...what dya think? ..lol
2006-08-18 23:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like hell.
2006-08-18 23:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by vbplr_12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really feel like reading it so...................Yeah
2006-08-18 23:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by J-Kidd "07" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋