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2006-08-18 15:22:22 · 18 answers · asked by parisrulesok 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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I got married a few days after I turned 17. My husband and I are still married and will celebrate our 16th wedding anniversary in September. I got pregnant 8 months after we had been married even though I was on the pill, it's LONG story (female issues)..

So, my feelings are this. Go to school, get your degree and establish yourself in a career so that IF you ever have to work to help support your familiy for whatever reason you can do so. Travel with your girlfriends and do the things you think you will want to do.

I love our daughter to no end...but I wish that I had gone to college and "had a life". Once we had her there was not the extra money to do things. I stayed at home to be with her so that she wasn't in childcare all the time. NOW, I am going to college, and it's HARD to balance a home, work, and family with school.

Just my own opinion based on my experience.

2006-08-18 15:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by Deana G 5 · 1 0

I am not sure that there is a specific or designated age for marriage. I am certain that if I would have married before the age of 25 I would have missed out on many experiences with friends ( male & female) and life in general. My best friend met her husband at 14 and married him at 18. Never had any other relationships and now at 28 wonders to the point of seperation what else is out there. There are many fish and the sea and testing the waters is part of the game. When you find the right person for you it is time. There is NO specific age. I am the 3rd marriage for my husband and hopefully last, but the marriage and relationship of now 8 years is wonderful. Wait until you find the love of your life, you will not be sorry. Marriage is sacred.

2006-08-18 22:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by louwho 1 · 0 1

I think between 26 to 28 is a good age to get married. Most women really become sure of who they are around this age. Let me say a woman should only get married if she feels secure with herself and is absolutely positively in real love with her man. Long engagements a real good idea.
When it comes down to it age doesn't matter. Without two mature and committed adults who have chemistry, love, friendship & trust for eachother no marriage will work for long.

2006-08-18 22:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by genuine1 3 · 0 0

It does not really matter how old a woman should get married because some of old women get married but later they end up in the divorce court. Also, some of the young women get married but later they end up in the divorce court, too. Age has nothing to do with the marriage.

2006-08-18 22:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by maxunn1234 2 · 0 0

i think the perfect age for a woman to get married is 30++

2006-08-18 22:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by alexa t 1 · 0 0

25

2006-08-18 22:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0 0

When she is mature enough, has had the opportunity to experience different things, is clear on what she wants out of life and finds a man that she is in love with and who is in love with her.

A lot of people "fall in love" and then it's an instant race to the altar, and then after they find out that they really weren't right for each other and want different things out of life.

I don't really have an exact age but if a woman is still very young she probably isn't as clear on what she wants out of life and hasn't had much of an opportunity to experience what's out there.

2006-08-18 22:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think a woman should get married at the time when she and her boyfriend are completely in love and devoted to each other. When they are able to financially live on their own together, and when they are mature enough to handle life together. It doesn't matter what age. 18 or 81. Whenever you find true love, hold on to it!

2006-08-18 22:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ann 4 · 0 1

I feel that since this is a major decision in ones life to make. I think around 23 or higher is the best age your more mature and ready to make the commitment.

2006-08-18 23:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0 0

Normally, a good age of marriage (either men or women) is around 25 years of age.

2006-08-18 22:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by caltam84 3 · 0 0

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