Family - October 2007

Well, my parents are FORCING me to go to church until I'm 18, and to be quite honest. I HATE IT. I don't want to go to church, I just wanna be left alone... but since my parents are threatening to cancel comcast internet if I don't go to church once a week, I have no choice. About two months ago we started going to this new church, and I am almost 17. There are alot of teens in this youth class and sometimes I feel like I'm obligated to go to it... but the thing is, I don't even want to be in church in the first place, much less go to some youth class. I only go to church because I have to, the truth is I want to get out of that place ASAP. Not only do I not like church, but I am a little shy and I am a bit worried of what people will think of me, so if I go to that teen class, theres like 20 people I don't even know and I feel a little intimidated... sorry I know it sounds bad, but I shoulden't even have to go to church, I think I am old enough to make my own decisions...

2007-10-15 03:47:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my family and I are probley the closest fam you will ever meet , we have our fights tho and the last one has turned 5 out of the 7 against my husband this puts me in awful situation , how do I get them to stop making him out to be a bad person he is far from an asshole he just protects me when we all fight I mean he takes my side they should only be mad at me right?

2007-10-15 03:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by momo 2

Sister has Power of Attorney OVER mother's care. Believe just told MOM to sign at the X on the papers. Mom suffers form dementia. Sister lives in Florida with MOM and we live in Illinois. Sister refuses to give us info on MOM and hangs up numerous times. We think sister is after MOM'S money since our Dad took very good care of MOM money wise. And sister really needs her money.

2007-10-15 02:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by shaw 1

2007-10-15 02:36:27 · 7 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5

anything.....

2007-10-15 02:18:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a full time job and i want too move out of home. my Parents have given me concent as they know i would be alot happier. I am able to support myself. But if my mum and dad help me out in renting is it legal to do this even though im not 18 till april 08

2007-10-15 01:38:18 · 7 answers · asked by *k a m * 1

whenever i want my son to do something he will never do it. he never listens to a word i say. i have no control over him and it really peeves me off. even wen hes going to bed he awlays gets out and make a mess of his room but wen his dad does it he goes straighto to sleep, and i have tryed being more aggressive with My son and everythign he just wont listen. please help

2007-10-15 01:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Charse** 1

In the past (recently) have had issues with my mum. I have come to the point where I feel better when I don't speak to her. We initially had a huge fight when she realised I was definitely going to University so I wouldn't be giving her any more money. I thought she would be happy for me, but I think she loves money more than anything. I decided I wouldn't give her any money regardless and that she has to work. I had gone through the trouble of having her relocate and help her find a good job only for her to throw it in my face after 10 days of working and she decided to move back out of the country. Recently she was trying to blackmail me by using my sliblings, knowing that I care for them and will send money if it's to do with them, but I refused. She is now so full of anger, and snaps at everyone (major tantrums). My sister cannot take it anymore and has no choice because she is so young. She is bullying everyone including my dad. Now after everything she wants to come back to her

2007-10-14 20:17:05 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are 15 and my friend just told me that her parents abuse her. For example: Her mom is making her loose ten pounds or she is taking away all her privileges, all though she is perfectly healthy and ok with her body image. She explained this too her mom but she doesn't care.
Then anouther time she borrowed something of her dads and he accused her of stealing it and he whacked her on the shoulder. I always knew her parents were mean and unfair just not like that.
She has phoned a child help hot line but they want to remove her from the household and she panicked and hung up. I just found out this whole whammy today and i can't stop crying. I feel really really bad for her and i don't know what i can do or she can do to resolve this. It's just not fair that my household is so perfect while she has no love or support at home. I'm not allowed to tell anyone that she told me this. I dont know what to do or tell her. Please someone help us?

2007-10-14 18:06:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

The whole problem started with my dog. He is still just a puppy and so likes to chase my sisters cat. Sometimes this goes beyond just chasing for fun though and it actually turns serious, which is when we have to intervene. A couple days ago this happened. My dad who has anger issues and others as well built up from a crappy childhood threw him out of the house in response to this. I went out and got him back inside but by the time i caught him and got him inside my dad had left. I just turned around in time to see him flying out of the driveway. He returned today and talked to me, my sister, and my mom. He thinks the solution is for him to move out. I sometimes think this too, but it would hurt my sister and i dont want that . I need to know what i should say to my dad and what i should do to help my sister if he does move out, which i think he just might tonight when we're asleep. please help me.

2007-10-14 17:36:56 · 11 answers · asked by Kijin 2

2007-10-14 17:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do, for being over protective. they wont let me go to my homecoming dance when i went last year. they said o their might be shootings and stuff. i wanted to say BS. they also check ur stuff if u have alcohol and things

2007-10-14 17:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 17:17:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

K i am having series problems at home.I am turning 18 in 3weeks and thats when im gonna get my first car.Anyways my mom had a misscarriage and now she has cancer and herpes.Shes at the edge of dieing and i just applyed for college.With all my family members living in portugal and in the neatherlands there's no one but me to take care of my little brother when my mother dies.How can i solv some of theese problems?

2007-10-14 17:11:41 · 14 answers · asked by domenicathesims2player 3

i am 11 my dad shot himself in the head should i go to his funeral? i dont want to i am mad at him

2007-10-14 16:51:10 · 16 answers · asked by Kady L 1

I'm 18, so i should be able to do this, but I've been through a lot this summer. My mom walked out, i found out i cant have kids, my sister had an abortion, I found out my step-sister hates me when she pretended to be my friend for years, i moved away from all my friends, and started college at a place i hate with the roommate from hell. I want to ask my dad if i could go into therapy just so i have someone to talk to and give me actual advice. But he's really hard to talk to . Any ideas as to how to go about it?

2007-10-14 16:45:57 · 10 answers · asked by Steph 3

So my boyfriends parents separated shortly after he was born, his mother says it was because she found out that the dad may of had another son born shortly after my boyfriend. At the age of 20 my boyfriend found out that it was true. He really does have a brother out there somewhere in the world. He has an older brother that he is very close to, and neither of them want to meet him. I have been trying to convince him that he should especially considering we have children now. What do you think????

2007-10-14 16:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by lboogie 2

I'm the youngest (sort of) in my family. No one ever talks to me or ever calls unless someone dies . Not my parents , siblings, etc. And if I have a problem I cannot go to them. Not to talk or anything. Im 24 and it really hasnt hit me until now. When I tried to talk to them before, I was told that I was over reacting...Am I?

2007-10-14 16:25:25 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Kimchi♥ 4

or dislike her so much. If she is nice to you, buys you things, listens to things you tell her about your life and is interested in you and wants good things for you always.....what is it that makes you hate her still. I honestly need to understand this....is there anything she could do short of leaving your father that would make you happy?

2007-10-14 16:15:54 · 9 answers · asked by Rein 5

I mean this seems to be a common phenomenon. Seems when u confront people ahead of u, u r fighting against him; but laterly, when u r calm, ur enemy becomes urself, sth which misers me, hoping some great experiencer would answer.

2007-10-14 16:11:53 · 1 answers · asked by Brown 1

My husband and I are into the goth scene, and I'm bisexual. I don't feel like I fit into the mold of "normal" mommy sites, and I wanna meet more moms like me.

2007-10-14 16:09:59 · 2 answers · asked by kittystephens 1

I have a 19 year old sister who lives at home with me, my brother and my mom. The thing is that she dropped out of high school, she doesn’t work, or even help around the house. She takes off with her boyfriend whenever she wants and doesn’t come home for days, and when she does it’s just to sleep and eat all the food we buy, me and my brother are tired of this situation, we want to kick her out, but my mother opposes saying that if we kick her out of the house and something happens to her, it will be our fault. What should me and my and my brother do? Should we admit her to come to the house whenever she wants so she can take off whenever she wants? Or kick her out for good?

2007-10-14 16:05:45 · 2 answers · asked by garza285 1

ok here are the details....
he is an illegal immigrant, she claims to love him and that they want to get married before the citizen laws change, so they can have a normal life.
They both have not graduated H.S. and are very immature i think as far as finances go and jobs/school.
We were raised in church and my mother does not like this boy for VERY good reasons i can't say, and feels like my sister is making a mockery out of marriage. My mother will be very hurt, and i HATE that.
I LOVE my sister and want to be there for her but i feel as if i'm not being honest with her, i do feel she is too young to get married and he is all wrong for her. What should i do she wants me to go to the courthouse this week and be a wittness. Should i just support her because no one else in my family is. or should i try to stop something i KNOW she is going to do anyways, we have had ALOT of arguments over this guy the past year and her and i relationship is finally back on track..HELP!!!!

2007-10-14 16:01:59 · 16 answers · asked by vintage004 1

I dont wanna go to school tomorrow, so when i wake up wat should i tell her?? besides i dont wanna go to school

2007-10-14 15:52:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepmom makes ALL the rules at my dads house...she tries to control everything..and my dad just goes along with it. My mom lets me get away with a lot. I don't want to hurt anyone. What should I do?

2007-10-14 15:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Skittles: Taste the Rainbow 3

my mom is quite strict and i've been training her to let me stop calling her every hour when im at my friends house and ive also made her feel bad for yelling at me for many stupid things and she stopped doing that as much

is this ok for me to do?

or am i becoming too demanding or something?

2007-10-14 15:47:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

let's say your make a child and then the father dies, and a person gets together with the mother and the person who gets together with the father adopts the kid is he legally the step father?

2007-10-14 15:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 15:42:02 · 5 answers · asked by dreammaker 1

Ok, I will try to make this long story short. I was married we had a child. He then started to steal my money and use drugs all day. Totally changed and didnt work was a getting trouble with the law and so forth. We did get a divorce. The judge didnt give him any rights to our child because of his history. Now 3 years later his mother wants to see the child. The mother is writing letters to me and there are not nice ones at that. She use to talk to the child then would sneak her father on. Our child now has issues. She holds her self from going to the bathroom everytime she hears their names. I got a letter now stating the the grand mother wants my child to visit her, we do live in diff. states. She has stated she has been around the house and said she will do anything at cost to get her. She calls all the time and wants to talk to the child, the letters dont stop. I want to put a restaining order on her. Will the courts let me? DO we have to appear in court? How does this work?

2007-10-14 15:28:16 · 6 answers · asked by duh..... 1

my dad is the biggest dickface to walk the planet...and he does not have respect to me, my mom, he tries to buy my little sister with the little money we have...

he got kicked out 1.5 months ago and now hes living at his moms.

weirdness:
he came into the house (while still living at his moms) at 2 in the morning, and he blows up everytime i give my opinion and hes worse than a kid when it comes to the things he wants (i want this gun uses it once)....

reason he got kicked out:
worked for a friend(my dads a plumber) not telling my mom, he lied, and the job overall we would have got 1000$(which we need) but instead he wanted to hunt the woods by his house...
lied about something else totally retarded(i forgot what it was)

my dad is a mamas boy where he goes to her with many problems(jail, home, ect) and makes it look like it my moms fault...

so am i wrong to hate my dad? what should i do?

oh yea, hes tooooo manly to use coupons...

2007-10-14 15:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous