Family - October 2007

i dreamed the we were in the hospital and my mom was getthing checked and she was pregnant and she pulled me by my shirt and said remember this date 3/25/2008.
my mom isnt really pregnant & the date is 10 days after her b-day
what can that mean?

2007-10-15 10:05:52 · 2 answers · asked by *Mike-N-Alpha*`13~ 1

my family keeps trying to break me and my hubby up. i'm a stay at home mom of 3 kids and he works. ever since i had our 2nd child my family keeps tryng to break us up. my mom called one day and told him i was out with some guy and i was sitting right next to him. how can i get them to stop.

2007-10-15 10:02:49 · 9 answers · asked by lisaanndubay 4

My mom says I run around the streets too much. Almost everyday I come home from school, stay until about 4:30, leave, come home at 8:30. I think she doesn't understand that I can't stay at the house all day everyday. So I was just wondering if its me who needs to understand her or her who needs to understand me?

2007-10-15 09:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by devonl18 2

a only child but we didnt have the money for a lawyer, and stuff. Now we went back today. and my grandpa used somme really low and so rude things, I hate him. My hubby was in the army reserves (well he is) and they go, you appear quite a bit bigger than last tiem we was here. well his shlulder got messed up in iraq. so he cant pass his pt tests. Also they bourght up sayind i am not competitent. (which i have suffered from depression, but i got meds for it, and also cut, but i have quit doing it) we have kept bank account clear, not going - but only one time, cuz i subtracted wrong. We have been trying to pay off all our bills, and just want a house. but while we were there my grandpa literally "lied under oath" about things aobut me to make it seem like i am not abele to handle the money
he really hurt me and my husband today, iwth some of the things he said to and about us, some of which were lies. what should i do i never want to see him again. and he really hurt us

2007-10-15 09:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by tiffany w 3

My husband and was offers a 6 figure job, I called my mom to tell her the good news, i told her a little more about the benefits and she asked what his salary was, I told her and she didnt say much. The next day my brother told me she was mad when she got off the phone. I thought she'd be happy for us but i think she's jealous--im not sure what to say to her. Any advice?

2007-10-15 09:50:59 · 7 answers · asked by avz 2

My little sister tattels on the stupidist things what should I DO PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-15 09:42:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my 20's and have the most overprotective, old fashioned parents...sometimes it's a good thing and sometimes...it's kinda hard...

For me to get where i am today with their trust and for them not to get paranoid...is HUGE...i'm the oldest so they STILL have the hardest time letting go (even with the littlest things 16 yr olds can do grrr) I'm a simple girl and i usually don't go along w. the crowd...i've got values and i'm a smart cookie :) Being the oldest, i've kinda had to grow up and be mature compared to others my own age but of course, they'll see something else, as "innocent".

I was planning on having some on my bday until my cousin brought it up (getting me drunk) and of course, the FREAKED...the whole "drinking" thing didn't even come up w. them 'til now and they're back to freaking out again..

2007-10-15 09:09:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a middle aged man who is having a problem,i have been married to a wonderful beautiful lady for nine years,it has been a great marriage with only one exception,six years ago my lovely beautiful wife gave birth to baby girl.at first i was really exited about being a father,i have always wanted to be the father of a beautiful smart daughter.but i will be honest,our six year old daughter has been one dissapointment after another,and i am not sure how long i can take it.one week ago i took my daughter to the fair,we were waiting in line to ride a roller coaster,in front of all those people my daughter began to scream and cry,this went on and on for ten minutes,i informed my daughter that she was humiliating me and i told her to stop or else daddy will not take her to public places anymore.my daughter is not very pretty as is,but with all the screaming crying she became even less pretty.i have decided i will no longer take her anywhere because she embarrases me,my wife feels the same w

2007-10-15 09:01:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother out of the blue calls me and says he met a girl 2 weeks ago and now she's pregnant. What's worse is the idiot believes her and thinks it's his. (Do the math.. they first had sex a week ago) It's not possible for her to be having symptoms so early! Anyways she insists on getting to know me and.. He just told me this today!! To buy me time I said let me soak in the news and give me a call when she knows for sure she's pregnant. He wants me to be her friend and all buddy with her... but I just want to yell at her and call her a conniving little slut for trying to trick my little brother. He says since he got her pregnant, he's going to marry her. Get this the girl is 6 yrs his senior with 4 kids already...UGH!!!. So I just told him not to do anything rash. Just be careful.. but what I really wanted to say is, "what are you a moron?..you don't know this girl! She may be pregnant from someone else and trying to pin it on you. Should I say what's on my mind.. or let him find out?

2007-10-15 08:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by ******* 5

my buddy works at krogers only makes like 8 an hour and they take most his check for child support so he only brings home like 150 a week home so 600 a month 7200 a year so he is stuck liveing on his cousins couch is there any finanial help for that situation or no cause that snot even enough to live that crazy when single moms get free house free child care and food stamps and medical card while hes stuck paying child support and being dirt poor thats ohio for you

2007-10-15 07:34:04 · 4 answers · asked by patrick43113 1

I`ve allways heard that when that when someones parent dies they have to leave their kids at least a dollar. Is this true? Does it matter what state? Not being cold, just wondering.

2007-10-15 07:31:16 · 6 answers · asked by rockpendragoon 2

I have never meet them,and now the girl's have contacted us and want to come and live with us, the girls told us that their mother won't buy them clothes or sneaker's and that the oldest who is only 14 years old has a job and she has to buy her own stuff like for school and clothes I feel that at that age this child should not be working. But the NYC child support takes out $180.00 a week for child support and the girls said their mother told them that my husband doesn't support them, every week he gets this money taken out $180.00. Now they want to come and live with us, where do we start, what do we do,

2007-10-15 07:19:17 · 12 answers · asked by emigirl6363 2

My grandma/mother(she raised me) died recently and I need some coping techniques. HELP! I am not taking it well.

2007-10-15 06:13:53 · 36 answers · asked by nessa913 4

Just a gentle reminder from a lady who just returned from visiting my 82 year old dad in the hospital.He suffered a stroke on Friday,and looks so frail and helpless laying in the hopital bed.I recall growing up how strong and vital he always was,and well...sorry,gotta go now,I am going to cry again...

2007-10-15 06:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

here is the thing, My mom is a cellphone freak...she spends almost all day sending msgs to people who gets into fights with her, and she gets herself and us in trouble becos she says things which shouldn't be said, and she can hurt alot with these text msgs..besides, we sit beside her while she is texting doing whtever we do, she is like in another world, absentminded and boring...I tried to tell her 100 times, my dad too, I shouted and neglected her, did the same but nth works with her, she won't quit what so ever, i am afraid it has become an obsession or a disgusting hobby!! Please this is driving me nuts,,, and i am starting to get really pissed off at it :((

2007-10-15 05:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by Farah K 2

I have 5 sis-in-laws and 1 brother-in-law.. I dont talk to my bro-in-law because of crap he's done to me..(long story, but very good reason why i dont) So anyways, my husband and i have had problems last year and it caused us to separate, all though it wasnt a good reason but we still did. During the time we did which was 2 to 3months almost, he meet a friend (girlfriend) he had a relationship with this girl for about 2 months until she had to go back home, shes from CAL. and we live in TX. So anyways, it took at least 6 months longer for me to actually take him back..When we got back together it was very hard for me. To me it didnt seem like his family liked that very much (us working things out)..Things were very weird between us, i didnt talk much to them because they accteped this girl like he wasnt even married..so after a months i deceided to change my ways with them and actually try to talk to them. So i come to find out that one of the sisters is still talking to her..

2007-10-15 05:52:18 · 6 answers · asked by love 2

Me and my husband have been married for 2 years now and I have a 4 year old who is not his. We have no children together. I would just like some advice about the step-parents role in raising a child. We started out fine and now that my sons real dad has stopped paying the child support my husband says that it is not his job to help me pay for daycare and the bills around the house. My son had a 5 month old puppy and the puppy got into our bedroom and chewed up come computer wires and my husband took the dog and dumped him on the side of the road and it took me and my son 2 hours driving around to find him.

Can some one help me understand the role of a step-parent. My sons real father also has 3 other children who are older than my son and I have helped raise his brothers when me and his father was together. I paid of stuff for them and got them toys and took them to the doctor when they needed to go. But I do not understand why my husband feels the way he does.

2007-10-15 05:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by Kathy Y 1

2007-10-15 05:38:28 · 6 answers · asked by crybabygomez 1

2007-10-15 05:36:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see this happen all the time during fall and winter months. On top of this, they wear flip flops.

Is is it a fashion trend or need to look sexy?

Need rational answers

2007-10-15 05:36:38 · 18 answers · asked by shakky_wakky 2

I was good friends with her but now she is driving me crazy. She tells me what not to do with my child ( which is her only grand child) if I am doing something she sends me an article about it.
I would just brush it off but now it is becoming a problem. Because she does it more often now and on everything. They visit one day a week but now I am rethinking their visits.

2007-10-15 05:33:49 · 15 answers · asked by clair 1

2007-10-15 05:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yahoo Friends, I thank you all so much for all your well wishes and I am proud to report that i found my father after 30 years, but my joy and happiness has now been clouded by the fact that his wife and daughter are not as receiving as he and my brother are. I called the number that was listed and it was the right one. I learned that in edition to the four siblings I grew up with, my father had four addition. Three boys and one girl just like my mother. I have communicated with one brother everyday since I found them. The other two are aware of me but we have not spoken. The girl however totally does not want to let me in. His wife feels like I may walk out on him as he did me. Now, while I respect them and understand how they feel, I deserve a space in his life as well, right?I have wanted this for 30 years and now I am wondering if I am just setting myself up for more rejection and hurt I am not understanding why I am getting this treatment?Am I wrong 4 wanting a spot in his life?

2007-10-15 05:23:38 · 5 answers · asked by lashenica j 2

My husband, two young children, and I moved to a new state where we did not know anyone. We have been here for 2 years now. We are thinking about moving back "home" where all our family is. We like where we are now, but it's really hard with no family to help us with our kids. We NEVER get time for ourselves. I feel like my children are missing out on their grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. What do you think is more important in the long run, family or living in a community that you really like? We just don't want to be selfish and do what's right for our kids, and we really miss our family. Please help. Thanks!

2007-10-15 05:15:42 · 16 answers · asked by flyaway 1

My boyfriend and i have just recently moved in to our very first flat together and i was extatic to finally get out of his mums house and set up home. Unfortunatley for my boyfriend, his dad died a few months prior and left him an alladins cave of stuff in his will, he got 15 guitars, 4 amps, 2 computers, 1 wardrobe, 20 swords (repllica samurais), a box full of expensive knives and loads of little knick knacks. My problem is that that, while im really gutted for his loss and i can see how much all this stuff has helped get over that, now we've got all that stuff piled into our 1 bed flat, theres absolutley nowhere for my personality. Every where i look, i see all my father in laws possessions rather than mine and joes, i just feel terrible for having a problem with it but i just wanted me and my boyfriend to slap OUR personalitys over it and even my family have told me that walking into the flat, they'd of thought a middle aged single bloke was livng there.

2007-10-15 05:14:37 · 43 answers · asked by gemba253 4

My daughter's b-day party was Saturday and my besfrd's car wouldn't start. She called every last one of her sister's to get a ride to the party. Not 1 of them would come up and drop her off.I had my BF pick her up since no one could do her the favor. She was mad at them b/c she has always been there for them. At the party we made plans to make a big Sun. dinner at her house. I went (Sun.) to pick her up to go the the store. While we're out her sis calls asking where she was, she replies and then her sis asks what you cooking today and my Besfrd being the person she is tells her oh me and momo are making a big dinner, so her sis's invites herself and says i'm going to call teh other sis to come up. She gets off the phone and tells me and I flipped and said no 1 of them could drop you off but they are quick to come eat up for free right. I told her no i will not feed all of them us just with us was alot of ppl. Was I wrong? i cook'd @ my house instead.

2007-10-15 04:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so my wife & I had my parents & my sister over - we bought a brand new nice couch from American Furniture about 4 months ago. NO ONE is allowed food or drink on our couch (we don't even eat on it ourselves). My mom wanted a drink of my sister's soda, and my wife told my mom that we don't drink on the couch (which I back my wife up on). My mom said "Oh I'll be careful," and again my wife informed her that we don't drink on the couch. In response, my parents then proceeded to leave, while my dad didn't even say bye to me (though I did to him).

Historically, my parents have a tendency to treat my brother & I (ages 29 & 26, respectively) & our wives as though we're still "kids." I think this little scenario is an example of that; they treated us as though we're not allowed to have our own enforceable rules at our house.

Wouldn't you agree that it was immature of them to leave because they didn't like our rule? Most people would respect our wishes.

2007-10-15 04:18:04 · 21 answers · asked by Devo 4

I'm 17 years old. I really want a car now, but I will need one when I go off to college soon. I know that the standard answer for this question is "get a job", but there are many reasons why I can't do that.

1. I am in all honors courses at my school. This means I have at least 2 hours of homework every night, but usually more.

2. I spend a lot of time working for volunteer organizations. Neither me or my parents want me to give this up.

3. I spend a lot of time with my youth group. We only meet once a week, but there are a lot of retreats. I'm also a student leader so I have to do a lot of extra things with that.

4. Extracurricular activities! They take up tons of time.

My parents can afford to get me a car. We aren't at all rich, but we live comfortably. My parents just aren't convinced that they should buy me a car or not.

2007-10-15 04:10:30 · 11 answers · asked by pretty little liar 6

ok i've always know that my parents favor my brothers more then me, but when my brother slap me on the back as hard as hecan, he gets a stern "logan" or"logan u have to help with the dishes as ur punishment". Hello!!!! helping with the dishes is his chore!!! but, i supposidly "lost her hair brush" I GOT GROUNDED 4 THE DAY!

how is this fair?? i want to know from the parent, "why do u do this????

2007-10-15 04:06:54 · 4 answers · asked by blahblah 2

Or preserve a large part of their capital to give their children a boost?

2007-10-15 04:05:11 · 54 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5