Family - October 2007

my daughter always throws a fit because i wont let her have a boyfriend.She is only twelve.Do you agree or am i being to harsh.?.?...

2007-10-14 11:07:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my early 20's and got circumcised last year (under her insurance) for medical reasons (balanitis&phimosis). My dad, who I just started talking to again last May, asked if I had gotten circumcised yet. I told him yes and he said "good." He IS circumcised, too. He says he wanted to/would've done it when I was born but I was born with other health issues to deal with. Him and my mom don't talk (divorced), but he told me I should tell her about it now "so she knows."

Should I tell her about it? And I'm curious if she wanted me circumcised, too, at birth. Would it be weird to ask her that? And to also ask her why she didn't do it as I got older? Should I ask her all these Qs?

And girls, would you find it weird to know this info about your brothers, father, etc? DO you know this info about them?

Also I pretty much know 98% she does NOT know. Bc by law Kaiser said they cant say stuff to other ppl w/out my permission.

N I paid the copayment of $20 so no need to send bill 2 house.

2007-10-14 11:06:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 and I have a 10 year old sister. We both have different fathers and now my mom has left them both. She kicked out my stepfather because he was an ***. My mom used to take a lot of crap from him and I had to do the same for years But no matter what he did, she would love him. He'd hit me and I even got send to my grandparents for 3 years becuase that's what he wanted. Now my sister is doing the pretty much the same thing that her father did and my mother defends her like she did with him. Now, if I get mad or say something I'M the bad guy. My mom suffers a lot but she still treats her like a queen but when I do something bad, I get hell. I need to know what can I do because I'm going crazy and I tend to be a bit of an angry person and I don't want to do or say anything that I might regret.

2007-10-14 11:03:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ketsuban 2

my dauguters called the dcfs on me and thier father because they cant have thier way teenagers we let them go to socail partys ect take care of them they tried to sneak boys through out windows this scared us so bad they my husband talk talk talk to them till he had enough so he whipp them and they had the school to call on us all the things we do for these kids they act like they deserve it these kids are out of hands these days especially these teens 16 17 im bout to run away from home my dam self if i cannot control them and raise them the way we see fit i take err thang i can when they mess up im not gonna have lirs and boys crawlin through the window we dont let them even see boys they see them at school they just not ready yet education is there resort not boys or sex we want the best for our children the case was unfounded and they are gonna seek counsling but it hurt me i feel like leaving i cant take this

2007-10-14 10:53:18 · 10 answers · asked by mcgloson@sbcglobal.net 2

ok. here it goes. me and my sister hated each other since like i was 11 and she was 13. but we had a werid sibling relationship lik u fight and 1 hr later your friends. but now saince she hit me and got me in trouble and lied,,,,, so i broke her computer and were like enemy . really hate each other kind.but shes doing most of the hating and consantly following me around harassing me n doing what ever she can to bug me and make me feel uncomfortable. my mom has a whole lot of stress n all so i can't go to her and we've fought physically and it always ends in her favor.( shes fat) n i don't wanna do that . its got to the point where i have to run away from her when she is home. its pretty much affecting my life life and im tired of it. any suggestions?

2007-10-14 10:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 10:45:05 · 4 answers · asked by alainagrnt 1

five years ago i met a beautiful woman through an overseas mail order bride service,we married on a beach in mexico my wife is a mexican latina,she lived in mexico her entire life untill she met and married me,now we own a beautiful home in florida.i have a great job and i make a lot of money and i have given my mexican wife the good life.i will admit though i am 25 years older than my mexican wife.two years into our marriage i realized that my latina wife was not satisfied with my sexual performance.i was sad about this,but i came up with a great idea,i have a son from another marriage who is the same age as my latina wife.i asked my wife if she would be willing to have sex with my son,at first she was reserved about the idea,but i told her that if she did not do this i would have her deported on numerous immigration violations.i also told my wife that i would stop sending money to her mother who still lives in mexico,i told my wife that her mother would starve to death if she did not

2007-10-14 10:29:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i gave birth to my first born she did not call to congratulate me. she doesn't seem to like me.

2007-10-14 10:23:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my family seems to disrespect me and my things. first and foremost i do not mind helping them or sharing with them however i do not appreciate that they disregard everything i say. then when i tell them they get ignorant calling me names and putting me down. for example, my vehicle. my mother needed to use my car a few times i had no problem with this but i told her if i lend it to her then she is the only one who drives it i also told her not to worry about the gas but just b careful w/ it. which brings me to my sister and my vehicle. i learned early on not to lend my car to my sister. she would go to the store w/ it (a normal 15 min trip) and would come back hours later w/ a half or 3/4 tank of gas missing and not an offer to replace or an explanation as to y it took 4 yrs to get a loaf of bread. she also has leant my car to her bf (he wrecked hers bc he went 'mudboggin') well i later found out my mom had given my sis my car (she gets it alot when i loan the car to my mom)

2007-10-14 10:17:52 · 5 answers · asked by Jen 2

Well i am 13 and my mom still treats me like a baby and i dont like it. like she does stuff like "Hey babydoll" and i dont like it when she does that. i dont like it when she kisses me on the lips. its weird i mean it was ok when i was younger but i just dont like it. She is way over protective and stuff. and i hurt her feelings once by telling her i dont want u to call me that so i am not doing that again. i want her to b WAY less clingy and let my sleep over at my friends houses. like one time i went to a slumber party and about a month later i got invited to another one. and i asked her if i culd go and she said "But honey you just went to one lats week, so no." and it was so unfare! and she is not a cool mom and i want her to b a cool mom like my friends moms. they are awesome. my mom wears her pants past her bellybotton and tucks in her shirts and puts tissues in her pants!! she is weird how can i get her to stop! And i am not telling her so! HELPPPPP!

2007-10-14 10:06:54 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say the father says he will do something with the child & then does not do it. You can see the sadness & disappointment in the poor child's face, but what can you do?

2007-10-14 10:05:17 · 7 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

I heard from my yonger son (58) yesterday. I was overjoyed. My Children have all left the State because of needing jobs. This son's factory closed down after he had worked there for 29 years!

If it has veen a while sence you called your elderly parent why not just pick up the phone and make their day a little brighter!

2007-10-14 09:57:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 09:38:22 · 4 answers · asked by Angelica1951 3

It seriously is not my fault. I have spoken with all the administrators, counslers,and the principal of the school.The teacher spends most of the time yelling at my class and its not only my class its all of his classes.When he does teach he only gives us answers and doesn't explain anything.When I ask he ends up yelling the answer.I cannot do anything about it. My birthday is next week and I promised myself not to do anything, because I failed the class and my parents find it extremely weird that I do nothing. They are the parents that have high hopes for me and to crush everything for them it crushes me. Anytime I build up the courage I just end up crying how can I tell them?Please no comments about you should have done better.I spend up to 5hours studying for that class and barely sleep I thought the teacher was supposed to teach?

2007-10-14 09:31:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents kick me out of the house because i complain alot when i have to study and i fidget to i have add. My sister is a brat some times i whish sheould would go. and our family never talks. I talk to profesinols and they say i should just take pills, but what i really want to do is run away. I try to talk to my parents and they say do it it would be there plessure on opening the door. what should i do

2007-10-14 09:17:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok let me explain to all you ppl my sit , im on my freinds comp hes letting me stay for awhile... but i dont want to be hear forever i have no cloths no money and i have already talked to my aunt and uncle they dont want me thier they wont even answer the door what do i do p.s. homless shelter #$%@ that idea

2007-10-14 09:14:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

pls help me as i need true and helpful answers! my cousin who lives with his parents is 10yrs old and has 2 younger brothers. his mum n dad always tell him off, scream/shout at him and even hit him (smack on cheek or on arms) but it does not leave any bruises or other visible signs, his younger brothers are always favourtised dey r always allowed to d things first e.g have first go in playing on playstation/wii, his mum also always keeps saying that he cant read, he is not good at doing his maths/english in skul. he is very close to me his (aunt) and he would like to live with me. his parents do not negelect him as he does get his basic needs met e.g food water etc, his parents do stop him from meeting me and when they found out that he speks to me through msn / emals his email account was blocked by his dad, his parents tell him off to the extent which makes him cry, i no that he would preffer to live with me, is there any thing i can do about this? any way of getting custody of him?

2007-10-14 09:09:46 · 5 answers · asked by mo1 1

My mom and dad are arguing about the silliest stuff. I apologized to my mom twice this morning "for taking sides." I just apologized, for the second time, and my little brother but in saying, "we only have one mom, angel. Crissa's mom isn't our's." Crissa is my half sister, and we only share the same father.

And I dunno who to believe, my mom thinks my dad is touching girls my age, and that my half sister is always trying to get my dad to touch her. My mom said that at Ravina, I said, "So That Isn't A Problem."
I never said that! What do I do!

2007-10-14 09:06:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is a few things that I have learn. 1) the pain of childbirth. 2) How to breastfeed. 3) To be more patient. 4) It's ok to ask for help. 5) They think things are real even when they are not. Like Cartoon. My kids watch kids Teenage ninja turles. When my son was 3 he flushed our real turtle down the toilet. When I asked why he said I wantted him to go see his friends. Like on TV. 6) You can't stop everything. 7) You always learn new things. I have learn more but that is a few. Now I wish to know what you have learn from yours. Thanks.

2007-10-14 09:06:09 · 5 answers · asked by NayNay 4

and yes i have tried talking to them they dont want me thier and i really dont have any freinds to help me out im getting to the point where i just want to give up and die.. i dont know what to do

2007-10-14 09:00:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Next Year, I will be 18 years old, and my mom still treats me like i'm 10. I've been driving over a year, and I make good grades in school and plan on going to college.

But when it comes to simple things, my mom wont let me go through with it. For example, yesterday I wanted to go to a haunted house with about 8-10 of my friends. We are all the same age, and 4 of us were going to drive so the cars wouldnt be jam packed. The haunted house is about 25 minutes away from where we live, and theres no way we could get lost because I have a GPS. After I got all my information, I called her to tell her whats up, and I couldnt even start because she said no. She said I'm not about to drive way out there (which is bull becuase I used to work at an amusement park half an hour away from home) and she said thats the end of it. Everyone else could go, except me, and I'm OLDER than everyone.

I just want to know how I can talk to her about putting down boundaries and she'll actually LISTEN to me

2007-10-14 08:39:34 · 5 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5

2007-10-14 08:27:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would you feel if you boy friend told you he was going to be staying the night at his son mother house after a party he will be attending with his son and that it would be to late to drive back from the party.

2007-10-14 08:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by cjeangant 1

We've been married for 10 years with one kid .We have a green card and are couple of years away from filing our citizenship Now after all those years my husband wants to dump me as he thinks that we can not continue our relationship because of our differences.Now he wants to go back to our home country and wants me to follow him there so that he can divorce me and can stay closer to his son.I dont want to move there right now as I dont want to leave my home here and take away all the facillities and education my son is getting. He(my son) is a citizen here by birth.and also I am not sure if my husband wants to dump me and my son in our home country and return back here so that he could get his own citizenship.so I am confused about whether to go there with him or stay here.Also he is warning me to leave us here on our own if we decide not to follow him in our home country. .Is there any way I could stay here if he decides to go back.should I file divorce here?

2007-10-14 07:58:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice please I have a three year old and her father is basically a deadbeat. He goes for months and ignores her and also does not help finacially even though he works a decent job. All he does is disrespect me then Im looked upon as the crazy one when i confront him im so fed up with him ignoring his daughter like she doesnt exist and not helping. My problem is with him ONLY but he is with a 41 year old woman who acts childish. She plays little games on aol and myspace calling me names or making smart *** references directed to me but not coming out and saying it to my face.She also makes it seem like I am jealous of her and im not. I know the best thing to do is ignore her but it is hard plus my daughter father goes talking crap to everyone about me and gives her the upper hand should I confront her or juss continue to ignore her? If I ever have to do visitation with my daughters father in the future How can I have my daughter around that woman if she acts that way?

2007-10-14 07:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by Bleedingheartz 1

my grandpa was cutting tree limbs and he did not notice what one he cut and cut one and SLAMMED right on my moms car. it is brand new and she is really upset...how can i make her happy without aggravating her?

2007-10-14 06:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by little_mama_on_the_block 2

2007-10-14 06:08:53 · 14 answers · asked by mjanechacha 2

If you lined us up most people can't tell that we are related. We both have the same mom and same dad. http://www.freewebs.com/msmariaandmskiera/Family.htm
Maria- 10th grade
Kiera- 9th grade
Alex- 8th grade

2007-10-14 05:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by Maria 2

Hey everybody!
My name is Mariana and I have a big of a problem to solve so I was hoping that someone could give me some advice...
I'm 29 years old, my parents died 4 years ago in a car crash so I was declared the legal guardian of my baby sister (Matilde) (she was 2 years old then)...
Now she is 6... she calls me "mommy" and to her my fiancé is "daddy" (he's ok with that... we're dating for 5 years now plus we are friends since I was 11...) I'm a bit confused and I really don't know what to do... I want to tell her that I'm not "mommy" but I don't know How and When? ...should I tell her now or should I wait a couple of years until she is big enough to understand... I just don't want her to suffer... I want her to know the truth she deserves that... I want her to be happy above all I love her more than anything...

Help me please... what should I do?!
Thank you so much!
Mariana

2007-10-14 05:39:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 05:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous