crazy older sister?

Question

ok. here it goes. me and my sister hated each other since like i was 11 and she was 13. but we had a werid sibling relationship lik u fight and 1 hr later your friends. but now saince she hit me and got me in trouble and lied,,,,, so i broke her computer and were like enemy . really hate each other kind.but shes doing most of the hating and consantly following me around harassing me n doing what ever she can to bug me and make me feel uncomfortable. my mom has a whole lot of stress n all so i can't go to her and we've fought physically and it always ends in her favor.( shes fat) n i don't wanna do that . its got to the point where i have to run away from her when she is home. its pretty much affecting my life life and im tired of it. any suggestions?

* it all climaxed during the summer so not that long ago

Answer 1

Crazy older sister? Are you kidding? You both need to grow up. You say she's fat. What are you? A saint? Please. No wonder your mom is stressed. I would be too if I had children like you. Why don't you go to your sister and call a truce? Tell her that you're tired of the fighting, and you need to apologize for breaking her computer. Who do you think should pay to get it fixed? You both sound like spoiled little brats. You both need to straighten this out, and both of you need to go to your mom and apologize to her too. If you mean it and you don't want this sort of life for yourself, you need to let things go. If your sister bugs you, just leave. Don't answer her, go to your room or leave the house. If she doesn't get the reactions from you then maybe she'll start to believe that you don't want the drama any more.

Answer 2

You upped the ante when you broke her computer.
The "hate hormones" have locked in on you now. You know how a lot of teenage girls just decide to hate someone for no good reason? Yup, that's it.

If she is just yanking your chain, she is doing so to get a particular reaction from you... so quit giving it to her. Clam up and walk away.

I would suggest removing yourself from her presence as much as possible. Lock yourself in your room. Do your homework at a friend's house or library. Consider getting into more extracurricular activities so you have legitimate excuses to be away from the house.

Answer 3

Its a common thing when two ormorebrother and sisters live togather, it happens. If u feel like running.better consult yr mother. u have not written about yr father.Keep minimum things common. Donot keep any thing in share as far as possibble.Keep urself away when she is home. Overlook her actions which seems undesirable.One day she will feel u missing and she will behave properly.In case unwanted quarrell start,runaway from the spot for that time.

Answer 4

Uh, so now you realize that breaking her computer, far from making things better, has made them worse, right?

How long ago did that happen?

Apologize for your role in all this. If you have a computer, give it to her. (Assuming hers hasn't been replaced yet.)

Then be neutral toward her for a while, and keep away as well as you can until you see she's calmed down.

Answer 5

i would say to either confront her about her issues or avoid her at all costs....you could talk to your mom about this no matter how much stress that she's got she's got to have time for the two of you too! just let your sister be and don't give her the reaction that she's looking for that you already have done....leave her alone to find someone else to pick on....

Answer 6

Just say things to your sister like..."You must really love me that is why you follow me around" or "Are you trying to be like me and you are just studying my movements so that one day you can be me" or"Are you learning a lesson on how to be mature like me by following me around" or " I love it when you follow me around because you are so special to me"