my dad is the biggest dickface to walk the planet...and he does not have respect to me, my mom, he tries to buy my little sister with the little money we have...
he got kicked out 1.5 months ago and now hes living at his moms.
weirdness:
he came into the house (while still living at his moms) at 2 in the morning, and he blows up everytime i give my opinion and hes worse than a kid when it comes to the things he wants (i want this gun uses it once)....
reason he got kicked out:
worked for a friend(my dads a plumber) not telling my mom, he lied, and the job overall we would have got 1000$(which we need) but instead he wanted to hunt the woods by his house...
lied about something else totally retarded(i forgot what it was)
my dad is a mamas boy where he goes to her with many problems(jail, home, ect) and makes it look like it my moms fault...
so am i wrong to hate my dad? what should i do?
oh yea, hes tooooo manly to use coupons...
2007-10-14 15:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh my....I think your feelings are valid. I think your father has a lot of growing up to do. You sound way more mature than your father, which is really sad. I do not think you are wrong for your feelings. It sounds however, that it isn't so much that you hate your father, but that you have zero respect for him because he has not earned your respect. Can't blame you for that. There is nothing wrong with you being happy that your parents are getting a divorce because it sounds like a divorce in this situation will give you, your sister and your mother a chance at a happier life, and it will give your father the chance to grow up and act like a man and a responsible father as he should be. This is his opportunity to earn that respect he has lost in your eyes. Let's hope he doesn't blow it. In the meantime, if you can be civil toward your father, that's going to save you a lot of hurt in the long run, but certainly, you are still entitled to the feelings you have. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders.
2007-10-14 15:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually in this type of situation, a divorce is not going to help you at all. Especially if both parents are being verbally abusive toward you. You also mentioned that your father has become violent. I'm sorry to say that you may need to contact child services to seek professional help. In the meantime see if you can stay with any friends or relatives for a while until, child services helps you out.
2016-05-22 14:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad has some problems but those problems are between him and your mother. This isn't your argument, stay out of it. Your mother has no business talking badly about him in front of you, its your dad, end of story. You are smart enough to see the difference between what you know a father should be like and what he is doing. If you want to tell him something, then tell him that, respectfully.
Your father is not the biggest d*ckface to walk the planet, my daughters father is. Although he's better now that he lives in another state. Good luck hon.
2007-10-14 16:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, It's normal. My parents divorced about a month ago, and I was happy because my dad, apparently was also a dickface, but instead of living with his mother (who is dead), he lives with his sister (my aunt) but, when I finally found out they were divorcing, i was happy that they would just shut up and get it over with. so, yea, it's pretty normal if you think one of your parents is a ********.
2007-10-14 15:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by tara_sheikha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is completely normal, when my parents got divorced i was soo happy..the tension was finally relieved! and everything was so chill and relaxed after my mom and dad were apart.. i guess the love just died out! but don't worry its completely normal and you should be gald you happy, and not crying all the time.. this is going to help your family become closer and don't worry!!! im soo glad my parents split up!!! i was a much happier person and i changed somuch after my dad left.. and now im the person i want to be.. and not who he wants me to be!!!! i hope the divorce goes well!! lol =]]
2007-10-14 15:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, even if he is a dick face he is still your dad. I hope one day he grows up, and tries to be a dad instead of an asshole. If he does I hope you will cut him some slack.
2007-10-14 15:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see a problem with you being happy about your parents' divorce... in fact, it will relieve a lot of stress, i'm sure.
sorry he is such a terrible parent. it's too bad we can't choose our parents.
not your fault he's the way he is... take care.
2007-10-14 15:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong to feel how you do. Good luck to all of you.
2007-10-14 15:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by Amy W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋