Family - October 2007

what can i do my dad move out the house
what can i do

2007-10-20 05:15:13 · 6 answers · asked by fredisha 1

My small sis (8 y/o) noticed my boobs the other day. She asks why my boobs are so big and hers R so small. Then I told her it was hard to explain. Then she said if she could see me naked. We are really close. Should I let her see me naked? Nothing sexual. She asked me this an hour ago.

2007-10-20 04:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is telling me that i have to help with baby while hes at work. understandable. and that i have to wake up every time at night to help with baby too and let him sleep and hes isnt to help at night at all ""because hes tired"" and he has to sleep so he can do his job or he cant do it waa waa waa. i want to know how many of you out there atleasts wakes up durring the night even just for a little bit to help the stay at hom mom? to me all he is is worthless now because hes here but he deserve not to help caz he works.

2007-10-20 04:47:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

So this is the 2nd time that my in laws come to my house un-announced. (they live out of state) Why do they feel like they can do this. I mean if they feel like they can stay at my house why can't they at least give us a courtesy call.
My apartment is so small. yes I have a 2 bed room apartment but i also have a son. And here they are My in-laws and a grandson that they are raising as their own. Why can't they go stay with their 2 daughters since they are the ones who are picking them up from the airport. What bothers me the most is that my in laws and my sister in laws call my husband every day for petty stuff now you tell me that they couldn't tell him that his parent are comeing in. Then my hubby is so kindhearted that even though he thinks his parents are rude for doing this he doesn't want to tell them anything cuz he doesn't want to make them feel bad. Oh Lord! What can I do? I guess nothing huh? I guess all I have to do is count from 10 to 1 and take deep breaths in between.

2007-10-20 04:44:37 · 11 answers · asked by ◄Rainy~♥~Rain► 3

My 2 brothers are 36 & 41 and still living at home with my 70 year old mother in a 2 bedroom trailer. One is a raging alcoholic and the other is simply lazy. Both expect my mother to take care of them financially and be their maid to cook and clean for them. She lives on Social Security and is in debt up to her eyeballs. Inevitably each month she comes crying to me or my older brother to help her financially. We both have families of our own to care for and don't have any spare money to give away.My deadbeat brothers have 4 kids between them under the age of 16 and now our mom is feeding and allowing them to stay over for extended periods of time.The 16 year old has quit school and stays on the computer all the time getting into trouble. We have tried everything, but Mom has beginnings of Alzheimers and is childlike herself now. They have stolen from her repeatedly or bullied her into giving them her check. We have tried helping them get a job, housing, cars, etc.. Nothing works! Help!

2007-10-20 02:15:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 01:44:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have custody of my cousin since he was 8. He's now 13. His mom and grandmother are both deceased. He does not know who his father is and I do not know either. Since he's been in my care he's been a challenge. I have 3 other children of my own, all girls. He's older then the girls. I have always showed him love, kindness and treated him as I would my own kids. He cries when other kids picks on him and he even starts arguments with them some time then wants to play the victim role when he can't handle it. He told his school counselor he wants to kill himself. I have done all I could for him. My cousin in another city wants him to move with her. So I agreed to it. He refuses to listen to me and take my advice. He does not like to be discipline and whenever he is, he always say he wants to kill himself. He reacts so terribly in school, but at home he is the sweetest boy I have known. Am I wrong for saying enough is enough and letting him go live with his cousin?

2007-10-20 01:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by Denese 2

My dad was adopted outside of the u.s. he hasn't found his birth parents, we are pretty sure he is mixed not sure what ethnicitys though?

2007-10-20 01:04:22 · 3 answers · asked by dsdfs 1

2007-10-20 00:42:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

haven't you exepted the fact that she is gone how can i tell my sister she is hurting me by not being very supportive to my feelings without making her mad

2007-10-19 20:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife, asked me several times if I didn't mind adopting her 12 year old niece. At first, I refused, but finally, since I love her so much, pursued ways to bring her here from China. Now a year later with her niece in America, my wife is having doubts because her niece occasionally takes advantage of her. She is certainly a decent little girl from most standards - but personally - she and I don't jive that well. After putting our foot down and telling her we are ready to send her back, she suddenly turned over a new leaf and is being a good kid. However, my wife just gave birth to a baby girl and we are so busy loving and taking care of her that we both wonder whether it is better to send our niece back. Our niece is doing well in school and made a lot of friends and likes the baby. Personally, I wouldn't mind if she left so that I could devote my time to wife and baby. Yet, my wife wants to give her a chance but would easily send her back if I chose.

What would you do?

2007-10-19 18:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by Healing Touch 2

2007-10-19 18:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Caus i just got a F on chemistry and i have to reado a paper i already did
My teacher is old so she cant remember to good ; 0

2007-10-19 17:56:38 · 11 answers · asked by Cassi C 2

Im 17 I was 16 when I found out... I was getting a file out for my dad and I noticed a file that said alm adopt... so being the curius bad girl I am I looks and it was filled with lettters and stuff about my adoption... I finaly at the end of the day got up the courage to telll my dad... he said its true but it doesnt make anyway difrence it did to me I cryed for 3 days it felt like my whole world had fallen apart ... he said he didnt know the papers were in there ... he said my mom and him allways talked about telling me but they were scared.. anyway I will skip a little he told me some stuff about my family be cause he knew them... my mother was alive when I was adopted she didnt think she could take care of me at the time so she wanted my family to foster me but they said they didnt feel it was right swiching a kid from family to family so she agreeded on leting them adopt I also found out I had 2 twin sisters and a half brother.. then I found out my mother died a year ago...

2007-10-19 16:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't meet my father until I was 24 (am 26 now). He just kind of left when my mom was pregnant and my mom knew she was better off without him. For my whole life I never knew anything about him, only his name. I didn't even know what he looked like. I was able to find him a few years ago and we developed an amazing relationship. I found out I had a half sister (8 months younger! found out he cheated on her mom with my mom, my mom didn't know about it). That was the first chip in our newfound relationship, then he would miss plans, say weird things, etc. The final straw being in January when he said "Liz, you were conceived after 6, it's not like it meant anything!" Well to my mom and I it sure as hell did! So since then I have not spoken to him, until tonight, when he IMed me, and I told him it was funny because I had just been thinking of him the other day and he said he thought of me everyday. At the end he said he loved me. I couldn't say it back. Now I'm all upset and confused

2007-10-19 16:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by LFE 2

2007-10-19 16:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by familyfunshopguy 1

i'm sick and tired of my parents. i don't want to go into the whole story cause that would take too long but just tell me how i can do this

2007-10-19 16:07:35 · 7 answers · asked by Dmel 4

I'm 13


I live in a duplex with my 17 yr old brother and parents

My brother is a snotnose and i have to share a room with him we are both guyz i think we need our own rooms


My house had one floor the other one was a duplex we have to go outside to get their though

I never had my own room when wemoved in 96 i was a baby in didnt have a say in the matter if i got my own room or not

i always get colds cause of my brother


does my life suck?

2007-10-19 15:22:05 · 13 answers · asked by Washington Prince 2

especially me and my mother, she believes we are insulting her when we say totally harmless things, and she insults us (you are SO stupid, you think you are SO great, etc.) She does not live with us and we are thinking of asking her not to come over anymore. Would that make matters worse?

2007-10-19 13:17:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

if ur father were to hae left you b4 u were even born would you want to meet him? what would you do if u did?
mine left. i kinda wanna meet him, at least learn his name and what he looks like, and if nothing else spit in his face and cuss him out maybe.... what would you do/want to do? At what age do u think you would want to be when u do?

2007-10-19 11:32:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We live with my fiance's mom with our new born son. We are trying to catch up on bills before we get our own place. I dont work right now because I am breast feeding for 6 months then I will go back. When I go back the agreement is that his mom will watch our son along with his sisters son. He is a little over a year old. The thing is that she doesnt actually watch him. He is always getting hurt and today we had to take him to the ER because he fell down our whole flight of stairs. Luckly he isnt hurt too bad. We will have our son in his bouncie seat and when she isnt paying attention our nephew will come up and try and hit him in the head or pull his legs. She is much more concerned with cleaning the house then watching the boy. I am literally terrified to leave our baby with her especially since she cant even pay attention to the one she is already watching. The thing is, since my fiance has heard horror stories about day care he doesnt want our son going there.

2007-10-19 11:16:02 · 8 answers · asked by angel l 3

this person asking this question and saying that the are 12 and still a virgin and everyone in there class isnt are lying...if you look at there other questions then you would know that they are in college or something like that so please dont feal sorry for this liar and i removed my heartfelt coment frome his sick question

2007-10-19 11:12:56 · 1 answers · asked by leah 3

I'm holding a party in a few weeks, some of the younger members of the family are threating to get drunk, they've done this before at their sisters hen night and almost got removed from a hotel, I've got all my close friends and work collegues going and i don't want them to show me up, i feel really guilty cos they're family, but what can i do?

2007-10-19 10:21:18 · 8 answers · asked by bx_reed 2

I am so bored with staying home with 3 children! What are you others moms doing to keep your sanity, besides cleaning, cooking, disciplining, eating, watching tv, and using the computer? I'm feeling stuck in a little box, help!!!!

2007-10-19 09:55:08 · 12 answers · asked by llenahS 1

OMG at school, these group of boys were joking and laughing at someone who I really hate and then I went,"Jeez, quit it out, she never done anything to you." They stopped and my foe went,"Why did you do that you bastard ?" And she stormed off. I defended an enemy, is there something wrong with me ??!!

2007-10-19 09:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by pop 4

me and my mother and brother moved near to my grandparent house after my dads suicide, after that we went through a very hard time we didnt have any money and my mother couldnt find a job.

my gradparent dont know theyre limitations and but into everything my granfathers doesnt know better and does what he wants and my mothers house even though she tells him not to. .. he doesnt listen and does whateva he wants

the other day my grandparent told strangers at the church our whole life story and now they call us and want to visit us and everything

while everything went so bad my mother leaned on me and i fixed everything . . when i heard what my grandparents did i got enraged i dont want those people to visit and i want to protect my mother . . . and i now want nothing to do with my grandparent. . . i feel so bad for my mother cos shes so lonely and i cant fix it. . . my mother and father truly were soulmates..

pls help me and give me advice i dont know what to think

thanx

2007-10-19 08:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by lucyinthesky5473 1

My 4 month old just started to cry uncontrollably when he is handed to my mother in law. He does not cry when he is with anyone else and I am not sure how to handle this. I dont like seeing him cry and then having to leave him crying is so hard. My husband wants his mom to watch him but I feel there is a reason why my baby cries like this and I would prefer if someone else care for him when we need a babysitter (like my mom who lives 30 mins away). Does anybody have any suggestions on what to say or how to handle the situation?

2007-10-19 08:57:08 · 16 answers · asked by Stacie L 1

Ok so here's the thing, our relationship is sh!t. She is so friken jeleous when i spend time with my boyfriend; she feels like he took her place i guess which is not true... All my mom cares about is clothes and shopping and looking good in front of other people. She gets mad at me when i don't "dress nicely" which means either not enough makeup or my top isnt open enough or im not matching enough... she thinks i act like this because now that im comfortable with my bf and he loves me i dont have to dress up anymore... that's not true, i like to dress nicely i just dont like to provoke attention so i dont wear the super open tops or the mini skirts... I'm so tired of her complaints, shes always complaining, we never get along anymore (im 17 btw) i cant take it anymore... please tell me what to do? Just don't tell me to talk to her about how i feel, i tried that but she's so damn materialistic that nothing gets into her head... So what do i do???

2007-10-19 08:45:41 · 5 answers · asked by Ooh-La-La! 3

I am going to be the Godfather. If you think money is appropriate, how much?

2007-10-19 08:31:13 · 3 answers · asked by joe 2

He lies about everything. Nothing is ever his fault. Even if you see something in his handwritting; he didn't do it. I am at the end. I have never been the type of parent to deny that my kid could do wrong, and

His behavior is starting to cast a shadow on his younger siblings. Since it is a small school, they are starting to think that they are all rotten children. In a private school, they will only put up with so much before you are asked to leave.

Not even two months into a new school and he has already turned everyone in his class against him. Very manipulative, even had the principal fooled.

Unfortunately, dad is not in the picture and doesn't want to be anytime soon. Tried the public schools, he had them convinced that he was abused at home. After an investigation, they found nothing.

Had to go to family counseling, that was a waste of my money. Therapist to him to grow up and take responsibility for his actions.

I don't know how much more I can take.

2007-10-19 08:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by zibby97 2