Family - October 2007

i am 16 my grandmother recently pasted away my uncle and aunt have temporary custody over me.i love them but i would prefer to live with my biological mother.can she take me without going to jail beings how i am legal age or does she have to consult someone before i leave with her.

2007-10-18 13:38:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what happens if you have your permit and get pulled over by the cop and you do not have a person 25 or older in the car with you, but you have your permit?? justt wonderinggg =) heehe

2007-10-18 13:38:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum and dad live in different countries. I don't know what happened but I'm scared there gonna get a divorce. I talked to my dad and he said he loves her very much and he said that she told him that she's done with him but he loves her. I cry every night.
My mum's bf guy friend or w.e is trying to get close to me when he comes over our house. He lives right next to us and is always trying to sleep over so at night time he can come in my room and tell me to do sexual stuff to him. My mum works at nights so she's never here at night to witness these things and also when I'm in the shower he comes in my bathroom and tries stuff. Nothing never happened but no matter how hard I try I'm trying to tell my mum he needs to stop coming over here. While he was working at a barbershop he got setup or something and then the cops caught him with weed and he went to jail for like a day or something and got a warning. I need help what should I do ? I'm still a virgin. I don't want him to take it.

2007-10-18 13:01:31 · 8 answers · asked by mixedcurlyfries 3

your parents making out, when you were a kid, what did you think was going on? I know I walked in on them and I was probably 10 or so. And I was like what's dad doing to mom? What about you?

2007-10-18 13:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Money is not the issue, but the issue is my grades. I have all A's and B's but I have a C in Physics!! ahhh I am trying soo hard to raise it. What can I do to show them I care and I want my car soon? By the way I am a junior and I recently turned 16...I will most likely get my licence in a week (If I pass =) lol) I respect them and love them very much and I will do anything for them. I am a very responsible girl and am the oldest of 3 ( other 2 sisters are 3 and 9) What should I do?

2007-10-18 12:58:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this is silly but......okay
My cat Tory was missing, and I was very worried, shes such a great cat and I didn't wanna lose her like I lost my dog =( (different sad story) & well I know its kinda weird for praying for a pet, but I did pray that she would show up and I'd find her, that was 2 days ago. and so last night I was watching a movie, and I said to myself "Tory where the F are you?" and about 5-10 minutes later I heard meowing, and I saw her through my window on the roof. I honestly have absolutely NO IDEA how she got up there! When no one ever has their windows up in the house, theres screens behind them. Idk it was very strange, even my mother wished for her to show up, do you think he could of answered? =)
please dont be disrespectful, you dont have to answer, I just wanted to share this experience, thank you =)

2007-10-18 12:09:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend left my 14 month old daughter and I two days ago. Today is my birthday.
He really didnt give me a very good reason. All I care about is the baby, I dont keep the house clean enough (it is very very clean)

Now what?

How am i supposed to share my baby with him? How am I supposed to be without her on holidays?

How am I supposed to be nice to someone (for her sake) who just stomped all over my heart?

Will anyone ever want me again? Will I ever want anyone again? No one will have my childs best interest at heart so how can I be with anyone else (eventually)

anything from other single (gulp) moms?

2007-10-18 12:06:32 · 4 answers · asked by Pro_Dog_Trainer 3

I two step-daughters. I live with one. In the past she started taking my stuff which because it was happening my husband and I put a lock on our bedroom door. Today I found my lingerie in her room that my mom bought me for my wedding night. And a year ago I found my ring that my kids got me for mother's day in her room. I think she does it because I came into her life when I met and married her Dad and she just wants me to leave. I have done nothing to her but give her stuff, cover for her, cook for her, and take her places when she needs a ride and she repays me by stealing my stuff. I don't tell her what to do so why would she steal my stuff and how do I handle it? And talking to her Dad doesn't help. All he says is maybe my stuff got in her room by mistake. That isn't it. Please help.

2007-10-18 11:46:49 · 8 answers · asked by Mommyof2 2

mw and my brother where playing sims2 on ps2 together adn we hadn't saved for a while, ( like 2 hours) and we both can save from our contoler . His girlfriend and him ( on sims) lost 10 friend point things so you decided to restart it ( without asking me) ( by the way he hs this problem with temper tanromes) Then i told him that he shouldn't have done that becuse we haven't saved in a while, he claimed it was my fault for not saving when he was perfectly capable of saveing, PLUS he didn't tell me before makeing that descision. whos falt do you this this is?

2007-10-18 11:45:45 · 3 answers · asked by the forgotten 4

My dad is moving out and Mom wll be losing our house in a few months. The break up of my home has been at this house. I would like to live with my Dad until Mom moves. I don't want Mom hurt or mad, but I could live with Dad until then. Dad is the one that screwed the family up and I really struggle with being mad at him, but I just want some peace back in my life and he will get to move on before Mom can. What should I do?

2007-10-18 11:38:25 · 6 answers · asked by ggirl 3

So my dad hates me and blames me for my moms death.(She died in childbirth 13 years ago when I was born) Anyway he is going to England for 9 months and gave me a choice to live with my older brother,21, or with my great aunt. Now who would I be able to get away with stuff eisier with. Big brother or great aunt??

2007-10-18 11:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Dad was addicted to Heroin for a very long time, although about three years ago, he got himself clean and has been clean for 3 years. I really am proud of him, I attend some meetings that he goes to when I visit him to get a bigger insight to the whole fellowship. I love him very much, but he doesn't make enough effort with me and my older sister. She is really feeling the strain of it all and cried to me tonight about it. She wants to talk to him face to face to see how we can talk about the past and how his addiction, affected us. He has another son, our brother, who he doesn't get to see no-more and because of this, niether do we. We miss and love him and I always try to get numbers to find him. I feel like my dad doesn't really understand the damage he has done. He says he understands, but he doesn't show it. I am only young and I need my Dad, but he doesn't seem to need me, Please tell me what I should do? Thank-You

2007-10-18 11:29:55 · 8 answers · asked by Cherise 5

Nobody knows about it but that's something that has always been on my mind now I'm 28 and strong and I don't want to tell the cops because I have no proof and my family is just going to be piss off with me because the guy that abuse me is my cousin, and all the family loves him. But now I'm a grown man and it would be really easy for me to kick that shi% out of him, I feel like destroying him, I feel like I want to make him suffer for the scar that he gave me for all my life. And to those people that would say something like you need to take it easy, or don't do something stupid, well if you only knew the pain of being abuse you'll know the way I feel.

2007-10-18 11:24:40 · 3 answers · asked by gavera 1

Well my dad and my mom have been married for a long time but my dad always has mood swings. My mom has been told, and she also thinks this, that he's bi-polar.

He used to leave when I was little and when I finally saw them fighting my dad left, and I chased his car in the rain (I know sounds cliche huh?) Well i did. I was like 7. Whenever they get into fights they always yell and my dad will sometimes curse at my mom saying she's an *** or w/e. but he doesn't curse a lot.

I always get upset and usually cry when they fight because he likes to have control, and plays mind games.
My mom usually has to ask for money from him and he ALWAYS gets mad. Me and my mom always had to watch what we say because if I say something wrong he can get really mad, and defense. It's been going on for several years.

Is this emotional abuse? (I feel like it is but idk?)

2007-10-18 10:05:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband thinks I am being rude to my inlaws because I do not want to spend time around them. The problem is mostly my fil. He is very obnoxious and loud. He is always cracking jokes about people and how stupid they are. He swears and uses words like ***%er , greaser, fat bit$ch, etc. I could go on, but you get the picture. I just can't stand that behavior. Confronting him is out of the question, because he likes to debate with you, and confronting him would make his day. The only way I know of dealing with him is to just avoid being around him. My husband feels that I am rude to his parents and should just be around them and put up with them like he does. I have talked to him about talking to his dad, but he is terrified of his dad's temper, so that is out of the question. Until my husband grows a backbone I do not see me being around his family much. Do you think I am being rude to them?

2007-10-18 08:37:51 · 10 answers · asked by I39 5

call my parents no one answers so i get a ride from my friends to mcdonalds then home = 2 weeks grounding
Go to a baseball game get dropped off at my friends house to get picked up = 2 weeks grounded
Brother call me gay so i told him he was = 1 month no practicing with my band

2007-10-18 08:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've wanted to change my name since i was in pre-school. I've always been made fun of and felt weird... i'm even too embarrassed to say what it is in here because i just hate it so much. I asked my mom if she would take me to get it changed when i turn 18 (i'm 15 now)... and she said yes. She knows how much i hate it. To you it might not sound like a big deal but it literally just makes me depressed, and I never want to go anywhere or go to school because people are going to ask me who i am and i don't want to say it. I don't have a middle name, so i can't use it. I don't want one either. Anyway, i then asked my dad if he would care if i changed my name when i turn 18, and he said he doesnt want me to. I told him that i would be an adult and can legally do it without permission. And he effing said that if i do he wont pay for my college. What the heII??? & He knows my mom doesn't have a lot of money and cant pay for it (they are divorced). What is his problem?!?!?!?!?!?!? I HATE HIM!!!

2007-10-18 08:23:00 · 9 answers · asked by jenni xo 3

My boyfriend is 24 years old. He still lives with his mother (we're in new york. getting an apartment out here is nearly impossible unless you have a super great job like a doctor or a lawyer)

His MUCH younger siblings (10 and 17 aka mommy's favorites) talk to him like he's a piece of ****. And the worst part is, his mother allows it !

She puts 2 of her 4 kids up on pedestals. The other 2 (my boyfriend and his younger brother, 12) get treated like **** daily for no apparent reason.

they're blamed for everything and it's so obvious that his mother plays "favorites" with her kids that the neighbors know about it and they never even stepped foot in the house!

I think what she's doing is emotionally abusive towards my boyfriend and his younger brother.
Also they're the only two out of the four who grind their teeth at night (unreleased tension ?)

I can't take this anymore!
Please somebody agree that this isn't right to do to somebody no matter the age.

just Had 2 vent

2007-10-18 08:15:34 · 13 answers · asked by infomaniac 1

I ve been an @ home mother for the past 8 years. I didnt go to college and feel quite intimidated to go back. I really would like to hear from moms that went through this transition. Leaving the house work and kids to pursue a career. How did you deal with child care expenses and school at the same time. It seems impossible!!!!! I really would like to accomplish this soon. Thanks for your help!!

2007-10-18 07:57:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and I have been having this really bad fight. My dad isn't home he's on a business trip. Lately, we have been having stupid arguments over everything and turning into fights. I don't know what to do anymore. She'll say a mean comment to me and I tell her I hate her. I only say it because that way I can get my anger out. Then I get really mad at her because she dosen't want to be nice. I now she can be, but for some reason she doesn't want to be. Now we are both mad at each other, I try to tell I am sorry and if we can start new. But, she is oo mad she ignores me and says I have pysciatric problems,which i don't. I really don't know what to do anymore, or what I am doing wrong. Please help me. How can I break the ice of out argument and start new and get her to be nice? Please help me....I just don't know what to do anymore. I so desperately want to be friends and just get along.

2007-10-18 07:53:29 · 9 answers · asked by kitcat333x 2

My sister in law 51 and neice 10 is living with us. My sister in law was last seen on Monday morning leaving her daughter in our care. She called her daughter last night indicating that she is not coming home again, last time she saw her daughter was Monday morning. What do I do, she constently lies to us as to her were abouts and is always drinking. She cares more about herself then her own child.

2007-10-18 07:52:09 · 7 answers · asked by questionable mother 1

Does that make it ok for my father to say that I am "living as his (my boyfriends) whore?" I am 27 years old, and we have been together for 2 years. I told him I thought that was an inappropriate thing to say.

2007-10-18 07:47:16 · 11 answers · asked by Vwgirl18 4

My Dad and I do NOT get along. As far as I'm concerned he doesnt love me. Yesterday he kicked me out of his house so he could be able to have a "normal dating life" and move to another state. I could definitly be a better daughter and I feel guilty for not approving of his dating as much as I could.

He is a therapist, but he says stuff that is so hurtful. He always calls me a liar and when he makes me cry he tells me to shut up and go to my room, sometimes for the rest of the night. One day I told him I wanted therapy because I think I'm depressed and he refused saying I'm not depressed and have such good life and i dont know what deppresion is. I think I want to live with my mom and now my Dad wants me back. I'm having trouble saying no because when my sister cut off her relationship with my dad My dad manipulated his family (who I am VERY close to) into thinking she has mental problems. I dont want that to happen. What do I do?

2007-10-18 07:32:50 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 2

There have been so many things happen in the four years since I married her son. 1)Tried to convince me he was cheating on me. 2)Manipulated our relationship until we almost got a divorce 3) Tried to control when we had our child, etc.

My newest dilemna: My husband's younger brother is 15 and watches our 2 1/2 year old daughter twice a week after school until I get home from work. He gets $16.00 a week (for 4 hrs.). I just found out that each week my brother in law is forced to give his mother all of it but $5.00. This has apparently gone on for months and months. This woman is controlling this boy..makes him take a med for ADHD he doesn't have, is verbally abusive, never lets him leave the house but to come to ours and now takes his money!

My question: What do I do or say to stop this? I refuse to give him money so she can steal it all. Should I talk to her or my brother in law? Should I keep all the money until he needs it? This just isn't right and I want it to end.

2007-10-18 07:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by *Almost ready* 5

Ok today me and my frend (were 13) were home alone with my bro and were really bored so what we did was we caught my lil bro (hes 12) and we put him in my old ballerina tutu and we curled his hair with bows and ribbons and we put lipstick on him and painted his nails and now he cant seem to get out of the tutu and he cant get the bows and ribbons out of his hair so now hes runnin around the house in girls clothes and im prety sure the neighbor girl (who he has a crush on) saw him dressed like a little ballerina! He looked so cute LOL have any of you ever doneb this to your bro or any boy?

2007-10-18 07:04:29 · 6 answers · asked by Abby T 2

Well, next year I'm going to college. All my life, it was a general truth that I'm going to a college near where I live. But right now, I feel as if I want to be on my own feet, to finally start living independently; I feel that I want a new start, new everything. I wanna get away from a lot of stuff and people that I'm gonna be stuck with if i go to the college near home.

So, I'm seriously thinking about going to this college far away from home, as in an 8-hour train ride.

From how I know my parents, they're gonna take it bad. Am I selfish for wanting this?

2007-10-18 06:29:58 · 5 answers · asked by Lyla 3

When she was 15, she went through a difficult phase, got rebellious, messed up, joined bad crowds. She disobeyed, lied. sometimes was mean to us and to her lil sister. We had to give her a severe punishment. She apologized, but we sttuck with her punishment anyway. What made her really devastated is we told her we couldn't trust her, though she apologized and begged for our trust, and it took us some months to trust her again. This broke her spirit. Today, at 24,still single, a brilliant professional, great young woman, graduated in Chemistry, she hasn't changed her mind and still thinks we were cruel, didn't act as loving parents and no parent should ever say to their kids what we said to her. She decided to write us off her life, says we bring her sad and painful memories and she'd rather forget about her life w/ us. Actually, the last time we talked, a year ago, it was terrible. For 10 years we've been devastated, but she's an adult and I don't see any chance of reconciliation

2007-10-18 06:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands brother is 27 he married a 42 yr old woman. This woman takes care of him like if it is her child and he likes that. She is always in charge. Anyway, she is so rude, she always has someting to say and its always bad. They recently moved out of state and she expects my husband to call his brother all the time. We dont have time to call them plus we dont call him because she always answers his phone. She is now calling their mom and telling her that my husband is mean cause he never calls his brother and that we dont care about family and blah.. blah...blah. what do I do? My husband wont tell her anything and im tired of it. The mom is always telling my husband to be nice and call his brother and he doesnt tell her why. Should I tell the mom?

2007-10-18 06:07:41 · 17 answers · asked by EVA 1

Yesturday when I picked up my son from his Karate class the instructor yelled at me in front of over a dozen parents about my child's behaviour for about 5 minutes. It was so embarrassing. I know my son is a handful sometimes but the other instructor from Monday said he was improving. I left after I meekly said I would talk to my son. As soon as I got into my car I started to cry. I am a grown woman and it angered me so much to have someone yell at me especially in front of all the parents. I was thinking of just not taking my son to the classes anymore, but this is the only excersise he gets and I paid the month already. Should I say anything to him or let it go? If I say something, what should I say? I don't want to sound angry but I want him to know I will not tolerate being disrespected again. He is not even the head instructor. Should I talk to him first or go and talk to the head instructor?

2007-10-18 06:03:22 · 12 answers · asked by anna_90242 2

like i'm not all that and whenever i come around he has this certain expression on his face as if the sun were shining to bright . he talks to the other sister-in-law without any problems but when it comes to me he hardly talks and i catch him staring alot at me. one day while being at the park he came around to the side door to speak and when i reached my baby out for him to hold he grabbed my wrist at the same time but didn't let go, he just laid his had over mine and lingered for awhile and ran down my fingers. a week later when seeing him he sat next to me and turned to my child and said he didn't want to hold her and he slightly thumped me on the hand. whats going on here? serious answers please of what you think

2007-10-18 05:48:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous