Nobody knows about it but that's something that has always been on my mind now I'm 28 and strong and I don't want to tell the cops because I have no proof and my family is just going to be piss off with me because the guy that abuse me is my cousin, and all the family loves him. But now I'm a grown man and it would be really easy for me to kick that shi% out of him, I feel like destroying him, I feel like I want to make him suffer for the scar that he gave me for all my life. And to those people that would say something like you need to take it easy, or don't do something stupid, well if you only knew the pain of being abuse you'll know the way I feel.
2007-10-18 11:24:40 · 3 answers · asked by gavera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My daughter was sexually abused by my husbands dad when she was five years old. She didn't tell me until she was 12 and he tried to do it again.We took him to court but he got a lawyer who got him off. Something died in my daughter that day. Her face lost all expression and I could see something
just leave her.She has had lots of failed relationships. I blame all this on what she went through.The man who did this is passed away now. But before that she found it in her heart to forgive him. We never had anything to do with him from the time we found out what he had done.That I am sure was some from of punishment knowing that his son was out of his life. Of course I wanted bad things to happen to him .But we can't take the law into our own hands or we will be behind bars.Hope you can work through this.I would call him out for sure and let him know that I haven't forgotten.At let him know that other family members are off limits.
2007-10-18 12:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your family in front of him.They may or may not believe you, but he will have to face up to what he did,if not in this life then in front of GOD'S judgment throne.
Realize he was probably messed up mentally and emotionally in his family (unless he was just plain evil).Never the less, he needs to repent and turn to GOD and ask for your forgiveness, if you dont forgive him though, you will be angry and bitter and it will destroy you.what he did was terrible and he should answer for it, but trust that GOD will judge him rightlly for his actions.
2007-10-18 18:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would beat his ***
2007-10-18 18:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by sheilakel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋