Family - August 2007

i just had to chose whether or not i ever wanted to see my dad again because of his ______ wife i chose to leave was i right?

2007-08-19 14:43:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sister & i r really close.
we were having a girls day and the subject of guys came up.
she told me about this guy that she hasn't seen in 5 yrs.
she was telling me that not a day goes by that she doesn't think of him & that to this day she still has dreams about them being together.
things start getting interesting when she tells about how she went on Myspace.
she looked up his name & found his profile on myspace.
she found his picture & profile but she couldn't see his profile because it eas set to private.
so she printed out his picture.
she goes on & tells me how everyday for about a week she checked to see if she could see his profile and more of his pictures & how eventually she was able to see his page.
here are the parts that make me think she's going a little nuts.
she saved all of his pictures that are on his page onto a dvd.
& how she pretended to b someone else & sent him a message saying she was a friend of hers & wanted 2 c if he remembered her.

2007-08-19 14:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by L0V3_$T0N3D 3

I am 15 and i home! My sister just moved out and i wish i was her. I have no freedom, i have talked to me parents about more freedom but they wont budge. I cant deal with my house anymore. I am constantly spending time at other peoples houses because i get so much relief when i am not home. I mean seriously if i have to spend more then a few hours (not including sleep) at home i go insane! Its really bugging me. I just want to skip my next three years of high school and move out. I don't even want to go back to school, all it does is cause more problems for me! Please give me ideas to help me! And saying that you've gone through the same thing isn't helpful, i need actual advice!

2007-08-19 14:28:31 · 9 answers · asked by Spicy Salsa 1

Now that I have your attention here is my problem:

I was arguing with my sister today and I got so freaking mad that I started cursing at her and then at my mom.
Yet my mom did'nt even do anything and now she is pissed off at me. So I wanted to know if anyine could give me any ideas on how to make amends with my mom. I said I was sorry but I want to do more. Thanks for your help

P.S. - In case you were wondering I don't give a rat's you know what about my sister right now so plz try to guide the answer towards just my mom thanks.

2007-08-19 14:27:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so here it is - I am 19 years old and I go to a college that is like a 45 minute drive from my house. My dad usually drived me every day but (as one could imagine) it's kind of embarrassing to have your dad drive you to school when you are almost 20. Plus I hate bothering him to top it all off.

My only two options are to either:
drive - but I am basically poor
live on campus - again I am basically poor

Does anyone have any ideas as to how I ight be able to resolve my problem?

P.S. - This is a serious problem for me and not just some stupid question so serious answer only please. TY

2007-08-19 14:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister always tells lies to the other members of my family like i hit my kid or that I would kill her kid if she did'nt sleep over. Stupid stuff like that & everyone believes her. She does'nt work & just sits around the house all day thinking of things to hurt me & other lies to tell. What should I do? I love her kids ( my nieces ) i want to see them but if I say something to her about her lies she wont let me see my nieces. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-08-19 14:03:36 · 13 answers · asked by joanne m f 2

For most of my growing up years mom would get controlling boyfriend after controlling boyfriend and conform to what they wanted and totally loose her idenity and put my brother and I on the back burner. This was hurtful, and unfortunately she found one and married him and is doing the same and has no idenity even to the point of missing my wedding because he didn't want her to go. She wonders why our relationship seems strained. I feel like my mom died years ago because even when I spend time with her its not really her. Should I tell her how I feel when she asks why we don't seem close?

2007-08-19 13:46:47 · 14 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2

I am 16 and my mom left me, my sister, and stepdad a year ago. It really effected me. Especially since my stepdad blamed it on me at first. When she left i had to do all the cleaning, cooking, and continue to go to school and keep up my grades.

I got really sad and depressed from always being stressed.
I felt like I had no one to talk to. My stepdad didnt wanna lisren and my sister could have cared less about my feelings.

She is younger than me but she always makes me feel bad, calls me fat, and rubs it in that guys think shes hot but not me.

it makes me feel even worse.
i dont know what to do.

i feel bad constantly.

what do i do?
thanks for any help

2007-08-19 13:45:53 · 9 answers · asked by edtkkfif 2

When my father passed away she was left the house and all goods and when she passes away it will be split between myself, lazy brother and sister.
If lazy brother is living there when she passes, can we sell the house while he is there?

Lazy Brother is 54 and has not worked in some time.

2007-08-19 13:12:02 · 4 answers · asked by Grogan 5

My mother is an alcoholic and her parents and siblings disowned her. I still vist them often and today I was talking with them and they said that they will send their best wishes but will not attend my wedding. I hate my mother for what she has put me through all of my life but she is my mother. What should I do? Should I invite my aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents or my mother?

2007-08-19 12:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by Kiki 2

Recently my father broke his leg. I have been to the hospital to visit and when he went home I was there to help him in. I later received a voice mail from my father asking if I knew where 5 of his tools were. I called him back and told him I didn't know. Later in the conversation I realized that he was not saying tools but he was saying "pills", oxycontine or loritab to be exact. Apparently I am being accused of taking some of his pain medication. I am very hurt and offended plus this is not like I am being blamed for taking a pack of gum. These are serious accusations.
I do not know what to do. I did not and would not do this and I have been upset all day that I am being accused of this. I never thought my parents would think I would ever do this. I am a college grad, an adult, I try to be a good person. I am confused and I need some advise.

2007-08-19 12:37:47 · 3 answers · asked by Kevin 2

2007-08-19 12:07:11 · 14 answers · asked by james peters 1

ya know like the guys in their early twenties that hang out with you.I don't want to be anything like my dad.The only things I have learned from him are his mistakes.I can't talk to him about anything because hes super judgemental and doesn't know crap about girls or hobbies or any of that crap.

2007-08-19 12:03:31 · 1 answers · asked by HM 5

2007-08-19 11:40:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My lil brother is 9. and he has a huge!butt but,he dosnt like candy or suger why is it so big!?

2007-08-19 11:32:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i'm 13 and okay earlier today i was kinda smarting off to my mom like being bad(oops!) and she was like nope i'm not doing your hair for school tomorrow(she always does our 1st day hair that's it) and i was like really sad cuz i hugged her and she was like nope still not doing it. how should i make it up to her like what should i say to her that'd make her forgive me and do my hair??

2007-08-19 11:31:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think of her???

2007-08-19 11:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

as it is not right that we smack children, are we, as parents going to be banned from shounting at them. i personally have never had to smack my kids, but other perents have smacked theirs. what do you think?

2007-08-19 11:04:00 · 31 answers · asked by STEPHEN M 1

How did you feel about it?
I'm my parents only daughter. I felt like I was ignored.

2007-08-19 10:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mother in law asked us to participate in an event that would let her off the hook, and in turn offered to watch the kids. We agreed then showed up at their doorstep where father in law says adamently that he is willing to take one child...not the other. I was in the car and it was loud enough for me to hear him say this to my spouse while at the doorstep and I in car.

2007-08-19 10:51:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom drinks 2 Large bottles of vodka in 3 days, shes alwayse bringing boyfriends in and out of the house, most of em are drunks, one of them hit me and i tried to tell my mom but shes alwayse to drunk to care or notice, sometimes she kicks me and my lil brother outofthehouse for 3 days at a time, and the reason why i havent told anyone is because, my mom has alot of friends that back her up on things, even my grand parents turn against me, i try to tell my dad but, he lives far away and we dont have long distance, i even have to give my mom money for her vodka, i have to mow lawns for about 5hrs a day to pay for it (im only 13), my dad sends her a lil money but not enough, just child sapport, shes given me bloody lips, black eyes, bruses, and even got a knife and cut my leg with it, i would leave her but , i care about my lil brother and i wouldnt leave him there by hisself, ivetryedtorunaway tons of times, i was even molested when i was 11 years, at school idonthave ne friends,hlp:(

2007-08-19 10:31:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I was out with my cousin and friend one night about to have a girls night out. I realized that my tank was very low so I stopped at a gas station and asked my friend and cousin for $5 from both of them. My friend gave me the money and cousin lost her mind and felt that she shouldn’t give me any money because she is family. I had never asked her for gas money as many times I picked up because I'm just a cool person like that. But this time I really needed it and I explain that to them and she just flipped out on me. I haven’t talk to her in like a month and have no plans on calling her. I know this is petty but she said a lot of hurtful things that night that just blow the situation up, when I told her she didn’t even have to give me the money if she is going to act like that!

My question is; do you think its okay to let family get away with more stuff because they are family??

2007-08-19 10:11:14 · 7 answers · asked by Sue Sue2 3

Heres the story:
My mother, sister, brother, and i were walking home from church. My mom told my brother that he needed to practice his piano today. He told her "i know mom, i practice my piano every day". He is 8 if this helps. She responded by telling him "Well, since you always know everything then i won't tell you when you need to do something i'll just spank you for it." When we got home my brother started to eat lunch she walked up to him and spanked him and then told him it was for not doing his chore (putting away the silverware). Then she walked into his bedroom and came right back out and said "you got another one coming you didn't turn off your light in your room." She spanked him again. My brother came down to my room and told me that he was going to do his silverware right after he ate lunch and that it was like she was looking for something else to spank him for so she got mad at him over the light. He was crying and i told him that i would find out if what to do.

2007-08-19 09:40:35 · 31 answers · asked by Dani 2

Tomorrow I find out weither my flat is ready. If it is I'm moving in on tuesday... yeah I know I've left it very late but still my mums not the easiest person to talk to. I don't wanna hurt her I wanna tell her in a way that shows her that she can't chance my mind about it, that i'm putting my foot down about it but still in a way to let her know that she can come and see me whenever she wants, that its not as if I'm not going away for good. Any ideas??

2007-08-19 09:38:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi i,m a 14 year old chinese boy,my life suck,s.the things that happen in my life you would,nt hear from chinese families but it is true.I live with my mom,my dad doesn,t live with us my parents share cuositdy.My mom is going to be 33 this year she had me when she was 17,when i,m at my dad,s house he said that,s the reason why he never stayed with my mom because she used to jump from bed to bed with them.My mom,s new boyfriend is white,he was not the first boyfriend i saw but i can,t handle it anymore,there,s some days when my mom would beat me and scream at me.what make,s me more up set is when she drinks a lot and takes birth control pills.

2007-08-19 09:03:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to quit since I am often soar and generally hate the sport. I am miserable at practice and after practice. I hurt my neck a lot at practice and it is often soar. I am 15, and freshman.

Do you have any ideas how I could convince her to let me quit? The regular season has not even started. I understand she wants me to stay in shape but I am willing to work out on my own accord instead. Help???

2007-08-19 08:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-19 08:44:59 · 9 answers · asked by dgrayley@rogers.com 1

i am 17 and my mom wants me to be home by 6pm even if its summer. She always say im a girl so i need to be home early! I dont think its fair.

2007-08-19 08:36:00 · 8 answers · asked by nonow 1

I am just recently staying at my sis' place on the weekends. She gets really angry at every little thing that's out of place, like a dish in the sink, a plugged in adapter not in use, a wet towel on the floor, etc. Every single time she gets mad, she yells and screams like a maniac. Most of the time, I don't even know why since I don't know every pet peeve of hers. I am beginning to despise her very being and hopes that she stays the bitter old maid that she's become (almost 40 & single). How to deal?

2007-08-19 08:09:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live in a familly of 7 i have two younger bros and mom dad and my grand parents .and my father wants me to help him in his familly business ......but i dont wana do the familly business i wana be a software engenies i am 18 years old and my parents wont let me do any thing of my wish .i go to a collage and also go for computer traning in evening .its not like that i dont wana help him but the thing i have been told to do a so off my qualification .i have to do the work of a delivery person and even more if i do get home early some time from collage they ask me to come to the work place and sit idle ....and if i ask then for some work the give me some work equivelant to a peon or something wht should i do i meam if my father is owner of a factory how can i do such a work of a low profile......


so plz tell me how can i be independent of my parents fully .before u anser plz keep in mind that i am a 18 year old boy from india's one of the most advanced cities and study in a collage

2007-08-19 07:52:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous