Family - August 2007

2007-08-18 22:11:00 · 10 answers · asked by marrious 2

i want to move to my dads house at the end of this year but i dont know how to tell my mum what do i do?

2007-08-18 21:51:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He makes coffee and drops the grounds on the counter. He eats pizza and drops the toppings on the floor. He pops open beer bottles then drops the damn caps. When he eats, he can't even see the napkins, then leaves the mess.

He doesn't even say "Sorry, I'm blind", use his glasses, or use a goof-proof way of doing things. He is my mom's nephew, yet as almost old as my parents. He was finally caught cheating (psuedo business trips, affair with sister in law) and his daughter convinced their mother to get a divorce. I have to tell him to use a can opener, to point out every mess he makes. I have no respect for him whatsoever and now I gotta be condescending towards him and be the ***. He has been on our couch for a damn year. I don't change the litter on purpose (its 5 feet away from couch). On one hand he deserves it for abandoning his kids for this mistress, but now i'm getting tired of it.

2007-08-18 20:15:49 · 10 answers · asked by cpc26ca 1

ok well, My brother-in-law just died and nobody is telling me how he died. I was looking after my niece so I couldn't attend the funeral but my cousin told me he looked really different. His nails were alll purple/blue. From what I know, he sniffed but he had stopped for a very long time and even stopped drinking alcohol. But somebody just told me when a person dies and his/her nails are that blue/purple it means he/she died from drugs. It had to have been drugs because he was perfectly normal and healthy..he was a pharmacist except that he was an alcoholic a long time back and I think also did drugs. I'm really not sure..how do you think he died...I mean his nails were really purple/blue and looked very different. I've been to a lot of funerals and most people look almost the same but he looked very different.

2007-08-18 19:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by inferno5757 1

2007-08-18 18:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by ida s 1

I have been a straight a student for as long as i could remember for like at least 15 years and i never had any freedom i don't mean like let me out for today and tomorrow no, I mean like no to everything then when i went through the depression stage from being stuck in the house for so many years I felt so horrible and down when i get any time out the house i try and do everything that i always asked to do cuz i know it would be my last me and my parents don't talk and I'm 17 we have been like this for years now we don't talk because every time we try and talk they always yell when they don't hear what they wanna hear. they are the type that doesn't let me have a bf for anything even when i talk to them about it first and even try and get them to talk to the parents and him and everything they won't even let me get a job I just feel trapped and i don't know what to do someone give me advice please and I've tried talking to them too many times and I 've looked at it from their view.

2007-08-18 18:22:18 · 8 answers · asked by Cheyenne F 1

I'm a single mom of two kids. My x's brother and I have always been close. He broke his back falling off a roof at work. Since then I moved my kids and got a bigger place to make things more easy for him. His back is well healed now but he still has pain. My problem is, is that he is a slob and say's he can't do anything not even carry milk home from the store!!! He won't do dishes although he eats like a pig 5-8 times a day!! I told him to buy himself plastic plates!! I have become a slave to this household and I hate it. I've done all the talking possible and I would move on but I can't afford to move and I just want to dissapear with my kids. I have been to nice I belive and harshly taken advantage of. of course I can't explain it all in here but if anyone has some adivce that would be great..thanks

2007-08-18 18:09:48 · 20 answers · asked by Cotton 2

okay my brother got drunk tonight and his room is across from myne and hes in bed but he keeps mumbling a lot and he even sed he loved me and he never says that and im scared bc a few minutes ago he was gagging hellp

2007-08-18 17:58:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sons father has one full day of visitation every other weekend but I haven't heard from him in over a month. Am I supposed to tell the courts or anything like that? If I don't have to then I won't because the guy I'm with now is a better father figure and loves my son more than the poor excuse of a man that helped create him, so I'm not worried about him missing out on "daddy" time. He doesn't even recognize pictures of his biological father anymore so if I don't HAVE TO contact anyone to report him than I won't. Thanks to anyone who answers!

2007-08-18 17:44:41 · 4 answers · asked by verycrazykimberly 2

has mood swings. Is generally really nice but can't take criticism of his actions. Anger management. Pays for friends food and movie ticket etc... just so they can hang out with him. Hangs out nearly 100% of the time(literally). Has zero respect for money(thousands dollars in debt). Low self esteem. Fails college(even though hes pretty smart). He looks like he is digging his own grave and he does not care. Does not listen to parents. What can we do about him? should we take him to a psychologist?

2007-08-18 17:25:46 · 5 answers · asked by Carbon41 2

when they got married she had to leave as soon as she could. there was a new movie she had not seen. so you know how much money she put into the wedding. [she did buy dress]
in july they had baby 2 months early, they came home for 2 days to check on things, while here opened checking account for wife. few days later banker calls, I R S froze account, mother in law used daughters social secertary number for her bussiness and did not pay sales tax.
it really makes me mad, what should son do.

2007-08-18 17:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by sl3style 2

I'm 13 and i live with my mom. She is a single mother. We have never gotten to this point b4. Our internet is getting turned off soon and im scared we might lose our apartment, but i dont know yet. We're also running low on food...can any1 help me!

2007-08-18 17:08:33 · 3 answers · asked by dont_judge_me_001 3

My Husband is overseas, I'm having such a difficult time emotionally, mentally, and physically. This is positively the hardest thing I have ever had to do, other than give birth...cuz let me tell ya, that was a real *****!! Does anybody have any suggestion on how to make the time go bye any faster, and on tips how to be a "single" mom?

2007-08-18 17:01:54 · 3 answers · asked by ArmyWife616 1

on my birthday last week,
i thought we were going
back to school shopping for me.
only my mom and sisters
were focusing more on
shopping for themselves.
and so when my mom asked if i was bored,
i answered truthfully and said yes.
it got her in a bad mood and the rest
of the day was ruined and she
kept saying how ungrateful was.

but was that wrong of me?
i mean, it was my birthday
and nobody was treating me
any differently... =/

2007-08-18 16:22:49 · 43 answers · asked by JoshR 2

my little cousin who i love with my life. we live miles apart and i recently seen him like 3 weeks ago and we had fun...then he cursed at me i told him not do it again then he curses me out and tells me to go back to where i came from with my gay ***. that 2 faced *****.. my brother is telling me to cut him off..should i do it.....that piece of ****....

2007-08-18 16:14:14 · 3 answers · asked by T.K T 1

I'm 16. My family was very disfunctional about a year and a half ago. My dad would hit me. Always arguments and I felt stupid all the time. I eventually tried to commit suicide. I had a friend who was a little bit older than me that I talked to about everything that happened and she called cps. The cps woman came to my school and asked me lots of questions. I denied all of it. My friend has hated me ever since. My family was still very disfunctional. I have had to go to counseling and the only thing that has helped is my dad getting a new job. I regret every day the decision I made in lying to the cps woman but my other choice would have been to break up my family. Was I wrong or right?

2007-08-18 15:20:51 · 21 answers · asked by ash.wri 3

2007-08-18 15:04:36 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4

My brother is one year older than me. He has extreme anger issues( and is very strong) and he cares way more about his friends than he does about his own family. My family has given my brother everything: unconditional love, support. But my brother just fails college, gets into crazy debt and breaks things in the house(due to anger). I tell my mother and father to tell him to get out of the house but they worry that he will ruin himself even more. My happy family is being broken because of my brother, sometimes i feel like taking a rod and breaking his arms and legs, so he can just sit home.

What can we do about him? My family's peace is more important to me than anything.

2007-08-18 15:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Carbon41 2

This person was staying at my house for a week, and I'm totally grossed out about it and don't know how I should handle it. This is a VERY close family member. Isn't this stuff illegal? Should I be worried that this person is around my children?

2007-08-18 12:54:37 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie M 1

my brother is soon going to be in 8th grade and he still watches disney channel and nickelodean. He watches Hannah Montana and other cartoony stuff on disney channel. It really bothers me and annoys me. Is he ever going to grow up and stop watching this stuff, or what should I do about it?

2007-08-18 12:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by barhoom 3

My bf is the god child of his neice and he watches her quite often..they live right next door... His brother doesnt interact wiht the baby as much as my bf does and the bf seems to respond better to my bf.. Him and I are worried she might think he's her Daddy not his brother.... any advice? We know if she calls my bf daddy there will be probs and we want to avoid that....but looks at her like our kids look at him

2007-08-18 12:44:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My children are all grown up and I live with my husband and my mother. My son stays with us sometimes. I feel like as long as they need me I am okay but if they don't need me I am invisible.

2007-08-18 11:29:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lost my grandmother at age three ( i am a teen ) and i only have a few remaining memories of her.how do i hold on to the memories of her?

2007-08-18 10:52:26 · 6 answers · asked by giggles 2

If you had a fmily who talked about you behind and in front of your back. made the girls do all the housework and most of the outside work. Doesn't nourish your dreams. and second-guesses your abilities........... and much more. what would you do?

2007-08-18 10:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to look his fill up what web site do i go to?

2007-08-18 10:44:28 · 2 answers · asked by apria g 1

Okay, well... my mother was adopted and I have no idea who her parents, siblings or anything is. A few months before my birth, my father left my mother and I've never met him. Basically, I know only 2 of my blood relatives, my little brother and my mom. I really want to meet (or at least see) my father and his sons but my mom says he's a horrible person and there is no way of tracking down his sons since most of them don't live with him and she doesn't know where he is. I don't wanna tell her that I wanna meet him because I'm afraid of what she'll think or tell me. Is there any way of finding out who he is and who my lost siblings and without my mom making a big deal about it? I've tried using websites but I don't have enough information. PLEASE HELP ME!!

2007-08-18 10:22:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

19 year old by the way

2007-08-18 09:35:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since 5 years ago, whenever my brother or sister or me make a little mistake we would get yelled at, in a such horrible and insulting way. Such as when I get good grades and then suddenly get a C because I just didn't do well, I get yelled, being told that "I will be come a dirty dog and begger, where people will spit on me and step on me." Or when my brother, who was obviously born to be a bit slow, lost his nano ipod and was yelled at for being "Clumsy and sloppy" and practically the same thing she yells at me. I tried to talk back, but she slaps me which made me think all the time ways to kill my mother. I pray about this but it had never stopped. No one outside our family knew this and it seems after my dad died one year ago it grew worse. Please help on what I should do for me and my siblings!

2007-08-18 09:07:18 · 12 answers · asked by Hoaduy 1

my father is white and my mother is black (1/8 asian) so what am i????????? there' sa rumor that what your father is is what you are.?????????

2007-08-18 08:25:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

lately my mum feels melancholy all the time. she is depressed and i wanna help but she doesn't let me. she has very few friends but she doesn't go out at all. she says that she is tired of being the first one to call them. my dad is so busy with his job that doesn't give a f*** about the situation. i think that they don't like each other anymore. once i told her about divorce but i understood that she is afraid of that and consequences that it has. she says that the kids(me+bro) won't feel good about it but watching her like this hurts me so much. and her job is so stressful and she wants to change it. she is 49 years old but acts like 70. help me plz

2007-08-18 08:11:45 · 14 answers · asked by leyla 3