19 year old by the way
2007-08-18 09:35:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
5646, perhaps your parents would like to be left alone to argue and disagree with each other. So maybe you should remove yourself from the situation for a while and allow them to try and sort out their differences on their own. It certainly is upsetting watching your parents fight regardless of how old you are. And often times our minds start exagerating what may happen, like divorce etc., when in fact all that is happening is that they are not seeing eye to eye at present time. This happens in all relationships. So my best advice would be to remove yourself and give them some privacy to deal with their issues. That way nobody has to witness what is going on and they do not have to fear being overheard. Best of luck to you all.
2007-08-18 09:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get them to stop, and many parents argue about silly things. That doesn't mean they don't love each other or that they're going to divorce. As you've seen with your brother, getting in the middle is never a good idea. Getting away, to your room or out of the house as you sometimes desire, is a much better idea.
2016-05-22 05:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way, it is none of your business.
You do not understand all the issues, and perhaps divorce is an alternative. They may have irreconcilable differences and separation or divorce is an answer.
You will be out on your own soon, and perhaps each of your parents need a change and now may be the time for a fresh start. They are getting older, you have to realize.
Imagine how uncomfortable it is for them to live together if they are truly unhappy. One or both of them may think they are in living hell, something you just don't know.
Perhaps trouble has been brewing for a few (or many) years, and they stayed together because of you (and other children).
They need to decide what's best for both of them, as life is shorter for them than it is for you....and time is running out.
2007-08-18 10:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if this will help, but this is usually what happens when my parents argue. First, my mom will scream and scream, and my dad will just laugh. Then he leaves for about 3 days and stays with my brother (my brother and my dad work at the same place, except that place is closer to my brother's house so it's actually kind of convinient, so yeah), and during that 3 days my mom goes through 3 stages. First, she regrets marrying him. Then, she starts talking about his positives and negatives. Finally, she'll realize that she loves him, and once he comes back they're fine again... Until their next fight. Then this happens again. Buuuut, I hope things turn out okay with your parents.
2007-08-18 10:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with all the questions about parents fighting, I guess we have an epidemic today, wow. I wouldn't worry about it, there isn't anything you can do about it.
2007-08-18 09:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋