This person was staying at my house for a week, and I'm totally grossed out about it and don't know how I should handle it. This is a VERY close family member. Isn't this stuff illegal? Should I be worried that this person is around my children?
2007-08-18 12:54:37 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes. Be worried about that person around your children.
Confront him/her. Let them know what you found and see what they have to say for themselves. Let them know that this is unacceptable and that you don't appreciate them using your computer to view evil and wicked sites. If they cannot follow your house rules, than you need to consider driving them to a hotel for the remainder of their stay. It is your home, your rules. "Stick to your guns."
Let your spouse know too so they can be aware of what is going on. -God Bless.
2007-08-22 08:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-16 23:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would download anything essential to a thumb drive, wipe the drive clean, show the computer to the perp (they are now a perp) and have them drive with you to the nearest body of water, where you will dispose of it. The perp will then drive you to a store and replace your computer, and they will do all this with a smile on their face, as they are a sex offender, and subject to arrest and prosecution. The only thing keeping them from being convicted and serving time is your complicity--dangerous in itself--because no evidence exists. I know what I''m talking about here...I've treated sex offenders for 11 years.
2016-11-27 16:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was an adult, you may want to broach the subject with him/her.
Just say "I was following some history links to find a website I was looking for, and came across a few that you had visited. I would appreciate if you would please not view adult materials on our home computer, because the children use it too."
While it is a sick thing to be searching for ... it doesn't mean he/she is acting on searching for it in real life. It may just be something they were curious about, and trying to find out why others were interested.
Let it go, unless you find him/her in a compromising position with a family pet!
2007-08-18 13:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by devyl gyrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I would just let it go. Or put this person on the spot and tell them you know what they looked at while using your computer. And tell them you do not approve and they are not to use your computer in the future. I would avoid having my children around this person, and NEVER unsupervised.
All the best!
2007-08-18 13:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by ~Brenda~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock up all the family pets. This is some sick stuff. I heard on the radio awhile back that 30% of men try it with an animal.
YUCKKKKKKK!
2007-08-18 23:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by ladyhawk8141 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my believe he or she was wrong to disrespect your home in that manner. I would say something for sure. Just to make sure that they know you know. Don't play deaf dumb and mute. Your not and it is your house and your right not to like it and like this it is out and if any future happenings were to happen, you will at least know you said something.
2007-08-18 13:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋