Family - August 2007

2007-08-20 19:10:01 · 4 answers · asked by laynarose_21 1

couple years ago my sister wanted me to lend her $535.00 of my own money that i had saved in my savings account which i was going to buy a x-box 360 with it but she wanted to buy her first cell phone with it and i kept on telling her no its my money but she said please i promise i'll pay u back and never did yet and im still waiting and im getting mad and angry..what should i do

2007-08-20 18:48:31 · 16 answers · asked by hellkeeper15853 1

their siblings.?
what do they do to you?
tell me your stories.

in my case its my younger sister;
shes the black sheep of the family;
haha.

2007-08-20 18:19:58 · 14 answers · asked by stephbabyy<3 2

Okay my house gets soo f-ing hot i can not even sleep because it is too hot i am so tired rightn ow but i cant sleep because of the hottness my brother has an a/c in his room but the rest of the house is soo hot and my mom wont take it out of my brothers room he is 18 and he gets anything he wants me and my little brother have to beg for stuff this sux dont u agree an ideas on what i should do and oh yeah i ask her to buy an a/c but she calms she never has money !!!

2007-08-20 17:54:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he do nothing, he just care what to eat, just want to eat good , and express unsatisfied with what maybe not good as he expected. so i feel not happy , but cant say anything , what can i do .

2007-08-20 17:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by ringking 2

can someone wright like things from the web or personal expeirences to convince them it's ok, i'm 13 and i know at least 10 ppl who have been wearing them on a regular basis since like 5th grade!!

2007-08-20 17:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by M&M 1

I am going to visit my mother in the alzheimers care unit. She wants to leave with me and she can't. I'm not sure what to say to her. Should I lie and say I'm working on getting her out or do I try to tell her the truth? My heart breaks at the thought of this. Anyone willing to share would help so much.

2007-08-20 17:29:26 · 5 answers · asked by pix 1

i have a little bit of money but not alot so don't say anything big

2007-08-20 17:19:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in talks with a lady in my neighborhood discussing babysitting. She has her neice and nephew staying with her for a year, as the mother is not in a stable place right now. The neighbor is a single woman and was saying she is looking for affordable babysitting. I offered to look after the kids when she needed me and she said that was great and that we could discuss the pay. Today she came by by surprise and asked if I could watch the kids for 2 hours. I did. Then she said she had a meeting and could I watch them tonight for an hour. Well one hour turned into 2 and I was expecting some $ when she came for them...but she just thanked me and left. I could have asked for the money I suppose but then we never set a price. I am just a bit bewildered that she didn't even OFFER me anything. I'm 33 and have 2 kids of my own. I fed her kids and kept them happy for 4 hours today. What do I say when she asks me to sit again?.

2007-08-20 17:15:51 · 6 answers · asked by Cindy 2

I have an 8 yr old daughter...bout to be 9. She is already developing and is getting interested in boys. I don't know how to handle it. She talks to her NaNa more about these kinda things than she does me. We have had brief conversations about boys. I just still wish she would be more open with me and talk to me about her feelings. I know it's hard to talk to mom about boys and how you feel. I went thru it I just don't want her to go thru the same thing and feel she can never talk to me like I felt I couldn't talk to my mother.

2007-08-20 17:10:47 · 11 answers · asked by LaLa 1

I am recieving $8,000 for my biological brother passing away. We were seperated our whole lives because I was adopted into another family. When I receive the money, I'm pretty sure my family that I've been adopted to my whole life will want me to split it. But they are in Chicago and I am in California trying to get my life and career started. I work and go to school. I'm a little bit in trouble finacially, and this money will help me out a lot, and I'll be able to save about $4,000 dollars as a back up because I plan on moving overseas when I finsh college. I really don't want to split anything because I feel that I really need the money. Is this selfish?

2007-08-20 17:05:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Son is 18 yrs old. His schedule:
7 am- wake up to take gf(16) to school
8am-1pm-sleeps
1pm-3pm - computer
3pm leave to pick up gf from school
3-400pm stays at gf house, drops gf off at work, goes to work
11 pm, gets off work, picks up gf, stays at gf house until 2am
(that thru the week), this is the weekend
7 am up, showers, goes to work
4:30pm, off from work, home to shower
4:30pm-2am, at his gf house
2am, come home. This is how it is every week.

His dad and I talked to him a couple of months ago, told him if this is the way he is going to spend his time, he needed tp move out. He promised us, he would straighten up. He did for about a week, then it went back to the same thing. About 3 weeks ago, he did not come home at all. I called to tell him, he needed to come get his stuff, he gave us another sob story and said he didn't want to move out and that he would change this time. He did for about a week, now it's the same thing. Do you think I'm being too hard on him?

2007-08-20 17:03:20 · 8 answers · asked by ♠LISA♠ 4

She was recently caught (again) with marijuana. I'm fifteen and she is forty-two. This time I lost my cool and called her out. I told her it was the stupidest thing I had ever heard and that she was a disgrace to the family and herself. She was crying by the end of it. Was what I did the right thing?

2007-08-20 16:40:36 · 6 answers · asked by You Had Me At HellNo 4

My brother keeps making fun of me so i'm askin' you.

2007-08-20 16:32:03 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 15 and am living with a friend from school cause my mom abandoned me. Im planning to get a job, so could i get emancipated when i turn 16? how would i go about that??
can i file abandonment charges on her now?? how would i do that?
Im really confused right now, so any help would be apprecitated.

2007-08-20 16:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by Pixie 2

jinappropriately ohnny is beating his mother senseless in the middle of wal mart during his temper tantrum. his mother (probably zoned out on valium) calmly tell him that if he doesn't stop acting inappropriately , she will put him in TIME OUT....WTF???

2007-08-20 16:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i am stuck with mine and am in need of sympathy stories.
*and dont be mistaken, im really very nice

2007-08-20 15:58:59 · 12 answers · asked by live for today 4

Im going to the fair with my cousins and i need a way to stop my stomach from freaking out!!
HELP!

2007-08-20 15:58:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

im really nervous about starting highschool. any advice or things i should know about highschool?

2007-08-20 15:54:25 · 10 answers · asked by trisha 2

2007-08-20 15:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband soooo much and we have been married for almost a year.About three weeks ago we found out he has Hodgkins Lyphoma Cancer. Stage two. He is 20 and i am 19. Since we found out he has had surgeries and tests off the wazoo. He is such a strong person, and is the nicest most caring person i know. He started chemo the 16th of august, and it made a bit nauseated, and weak, and very tired.I am trying to do everything for him and take care of him the best i can. I know God is going to heal him but i am so scared that i am going to lose him, and it hurts so bad to see him weak and tired and just not his strong self.I want to make it all better and i know he is the one going through it but i am hurting to. It kills me just to look at him becasue i want to cry everytime i look at him, its just because i love him so much and i hate that he is in pain and i am scared to lose him, and that i know i can't make anything better. I need advise, incouragement, and prayers please!!!!!!

2007-08-20 15:29:20 · 22 answers · asked by Christian 1

is it better if a kid is younger and can't speak or walk or halfway before they become adults? When is best?

2007-08-20 15:29:20 · 23 answers · asked by Cub_Fanatic 3

I need your help. My daughter just turned 12 and thinks she knows EVERYTHING we have tried talking to her about the way she dresses and acts(her idols are Paris Hilton and Nichole Ritchie) She is also mouthy and thinks she should get anything she wants but doesn't want to do anything for anybody .We've tried the grounding thing, no phone and stuff like that. Please tell me what else i can do before she gets worse. Thanks.

2007-08-20 15:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

During my parents divorce. My mom was fighting with my dad on the phone. I got upset and ran to my Taekwondo school. My instructor was on the phone at the time and got her husband's attention. I ran to him ( there was no class) and he told me that he would never let anyone hurt me. His wife got off the phone and she said come here, She held me while i was crying. She said that while her and her husband was there no one can hurt me. I said Why are they fighting. They said sometimes parents fight. I am like Please dont leave me. They also said dont worry we arent going to leave you. But there was kids coming in for a class. My male instructor said take her and talk to her. Maybe you can tell her its alright. I am like no its not. I don't like it. I still have a Taekwondo teddy bear that my female instructor gave me. She's like if they are fighting and we aren't there to help you out just give this bear a hug and know that we care about you and that you are also like a daughter to us.

2007-08-20 15:19:41 · 1 answers · asked by ? 5

My mom is a very complicated woman. She's a perfectionist actually. she wants me to always clean the house! if it gets dirty, she spazzes at me even though i already cleaned the house. I cant stand her sometimes! she really gives me a headache! And sometimes she blames my best friend for all the things that are happening.she thinks that she's a bad influence to me. of course, i always stand up for best friend, i know she's a good person and she's not a bad influence to me. I hate my mom when she's being judgemental but everytime i tell her not to be judgemental she would say: "so thats what THAT GIRL (my best friend) thought you huh? "Me and my best friend talk about 2-3 hrs everyday, which i think its not that bad, because i think i deserve some fun since i always do whatever my mom wants me to do. but the worst thing about my mom is she hits me when she gets really angry..

2007-08-20 15:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

aaah! my family's driving me crazyi have 2 little sisters 1 baby brother and theyre always annoying, my stepdad's a jerk, my moms lazy, and i have an awful headache and i just want to calm down, so how do i calm down in such a stressfull madhouse?!?!

2007-08-20 14:51:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i was bored so i decided to hump i pillow well i heard footsteps so i stopped and listened well i got off and turned around and my dad was standing right and the door he asked what are you doing and i said im on the computer and then he walked away my stomache hurts now and im scared hoefully he will forget i dont know if i was caught or not what should i do

2007-08-20 14:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my boyfriend and i have been togetherwe have become each others halves, best friends,and shoulder to cry on. He lives in another state but we hardly feel that since we visit eachother at least once or twice a month, and we're on the phone or texting eachother at LEAST every hour. I know it doesnt seem that long but our love together is so strong i knew we'd always be there for each other. well last wednesday we had a disagreement about a hypothetical situation, and it turned into us second guessing eachother because of our suprising reactions ((sorry i cant say what it was about- too personal.)), he said he needed a few days to think things through. i agreed, and the next 2 days he didnt call or text me which hurt alot, and then saturday morning came and i emailed him saying how sorry i was for being inconsiderate and told him how much i loved him and 2 min later my mom comes in screaming and crying she was yelling his mom died. i called him immediately but he wouldnt talk to me

2007-08-20 14:05:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

or in my son's case, me and his step mom. We just got back from a vacation, and I am curious as to what other parents do

2007-08-20 13:36:44 · 8 answers · asked by Love the west 4

my mom wants to teach me responsibility, and thats fine w/ me, but i want her to teach it to me in a way that doesnt make my back hurt because right now, shes making me clean the house and fold laundry out of our side-opening dryer which hurts my back. im not old enough to have a job, so that isnt an option. thx in advance

2007-08-20 13:27:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous