Family - August 2007

my little sister (6) and her friend (13) wont leave me alone there in my room playing my wii and i tell them to get out and they dont i tell my mom (she works at home) and she says she needs quiet and wont tell them to get out of my room. my sisters friend has been over every day since 9:30 or 10am till after dinner thats arond 5:30 6:00. i dont care what they do as long as they leave me alone i need some help here

2007-08-22 03:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

THIS IS A SERIOUS QUESTION.!!! MY MOM DOESNT NOE WAT TO DO NO MORE!!! THEY MAKE NOISES EVERYDAY!! (MORE ON WINTER) THEY DO IT ON PURPOSE!! &SINCES IM FROM NY U CANT JUZ KICK THEM OUT.U MITE NEED TO GO TO COURT OR SOMETHING &&THEY R WAITING 4 US 2 DO THT SOO THAT MY PARENTS PAY THEM & THEY CAN GET A NEW HOUSE.&WE JUZ HAVE TO HOLD ON.I DUNNO WAT 2 DO NO MORE!!I`M NOT GETTING SLEEP!! HELP!! HELP MY FAMILY TOO PLEAZ!!! (THEY LIVE UPSTAIR & WE DOWN STAIR) HELP!!

2007-08-22 02:34:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what u can do if u know that ur husband is not so co-opreative, pay much more attension in his brothers family

2007-08-21 23:23:39 · 13 answers · asked by reekha 1

I really want ALL inputs. Our family is so blended. I told him my views, but I also included varied family views.

He is on the verge of a religious convinction. He will view these answers. Please...........He is asking about life after death.

2007-08-21 21:34:57 · 15 answers · asked by MOI 4

My parents are divorced (and have been for a couple years), and recently I realized that I didn't have enough clothes at my dad's house, so I told him. He said he'll take me shopping for clothes this Fri.
The thing is, I hate my dad and don't want to go clothes shopping with him for that reason, and the fact that I can't ask him if something looks good on me (he's a guy for one thing--no offense to guys--and he has a horrible sense of fashion, IMO).
What should I do? Should I ask to go shopping with my mom (who has a great fashion sense) instead (although I'd worry that he'd feel kinda hurt by this), or see if I can convince him to let me go shopping on my own (or with friends)?

FYI: My dad doesn't know I hate him, and neither does my mom. But my friends know.

2007-08-21 21:27:17 · 21 answers · asked by Soccer Lover 3

Atlanta? These relatives are not coming to see me, they are coming here for a weekend for a event and they don't won't to pay the cost to stay in a hotel. They only call me when they need a place to stay for free. I haven't been answering my phone but they still insist on calling leaving mesages on my voice mail. I don't want to hurt their feelings, but I do know that they can not stay. How do I tell them NO without being to mean?

2007-08-21 19:43:24 · 4 answers · asked by tys200230291 3

She wants to get out of the marriage but she's in fear for her life. I'm trying to find ways to help her without jepordizing the situation.

2007-08-21 19:39:05 · 4 answers · asked by Summer 1

Parent been living in basement of our house, lives 6 month of the year in RV in south. We added running water down in basement, had own fridge, used bathroom upstair was trusted with freely moving throgh house. Recently gave written notice living situation no longer tolerable and can't talk to him with out him flying into a rage of anger that we are later accusing us (of family) of attacking him. we came to find he'd taken off in his RV, towing his car, leaving much of his stuff behind and no notice of his intentions. Paid us rent for about 2 yrs. No written lease agreemnt. Can we dispose of his things left behind (probably take them to storage, carefully packed)? the idea is so he can pick them up at a neutral spot as we believe he could be violent. Before took of we'd been walking around our own home with video camera, tired of being blamed for HIS outbursts. We want to change locks as he's already taken &/or damaged some of our things

2007-08-21 18:18:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He did this in front of a lot of people at a family party. I didn't think it was funny, as another person standing with me is a breast cancer survivor. We were both upset and yelled at him. I went to another area of the party and stayed away from him the rest of the night. He went to other people and told them that I was just being a b---- and can't understand how his son could stay married to a f------ cu--! (We've been married 17years!) He also told this to my husband and in front of my kids (ages 15 and 11)! What should I say if he starts talking like this again? I try to stay away from him as much as possible because of his vulgar language but have to see him at family gatherings.

2007-08-21 17:49:00 · 34 answers · asked by DoubleDMom 3

Ok well I live with my fiance with her greedy *** grandparents in Georgia and I am hoping to get 1000$ quick so I can move back to Ohio with my fiance. My dad in Ohio is willing to let us live with him and he doesn't ask for MONEY like her nutjob grandparents do. How can I get this fast and I AM SERIOUS!!!! I don't need stupid answers. We can't stand this anymore.

2007-08-21 17:19:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with my guy for year and half, everytime Im around his parents or they come up home they pick on me so much that it nearly makes me cry, worse part is that my bf joins in, after they leave he thinksits all a big joke and then we fight about it.
Im preg with his baby and already have a daughter to his X mate and they say stuff to me like"oh lets take the beach whale back to sea" Im not fat still very small, and because im a aborigial they say stuff that hurt about that, I cant win either way with them or him , so hwo do i tell my bf that I hate what he and his family are doing to me?! Im not allowed to say anything to them becuase he goes of at me and well a few time were came close to hitting each other!!! SO WHAT DO I DO?!

2007-08-21 17:12:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad and i seem to butt heads on politics all the time(i'm a very liberal libretarian, he's a very conservative republican). he told me just today that he saw a bumper sticker that he liked that said "don't vote for Osama Obama or Chelsea's Momma". i told him that those were my two personal front runners in who i was going to vote for. he went into how Obama was a Muslim,and i corrected him, that Obama was a Christian(he then pulled out the lie told on Fox News that Obama had went to a Madrassa(sp?) for 3yrs). i told him it wasn't true, and set the record straight w/him. and i said "well, the republicans certianly have done one *heck* of a job cleaning things up since 9/11(sarcastically said, obviously). he then rapidly changed the subject. my mom says we disagree bc our temperments are so similar,and, according to her, we both have a dire need to get the last word in. why do i fight w/him so much if we're supposedly so much alike?

2007-08-21 17:04:50 · 5 answers · asked by kelleygaither2000 1

My family and I are moving from Australia to the US (i'm Australian and my husband is American), my husband is moving over next month and myself and our 2 children (3 and 19 months) are waiting for paperwork so we won't be moving for a few months later.
I'm excited about the move but i'm also worried about not having any friends or family. I'm worried that I won't fit in or won't be able to find a job, I just don't know what to expect. How can I make this a smooth transition without worrying so much?

2007-08-21 16:13:28 · 10 answers · asked by JazzyKat 2

to start off, theres an Indian family who lives not too far from me or my cousin, and whenever we bike in the area, they are always very rude to us. so my cousin is planning to draw a picture of Osama in their driveway. should i try and stop him?

2007-08-21 16:12:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know if I'm out of bounds, or what.

Basically for the last seven years, every weekend, my family piles in our little car and goes to a little shack in the woods in a 'town' that's actually a road. My sister and I -both 15- hate it, my dad is apathetic, only my mom wants to do it.

Translated in to a teenager's perspective, I don't have Friday, Saturday, Sunday, or a lot of Monday to do anything. I don't object to spending time with my family but it's starting to negatively impact my social life, I'm only free when nobody else is. My parents are also getting on me for not spending enough time on schoolwork, but I only have three or four days during a normal week to do anything, the rest is spent either in transit or sleep deprived from showing up late.

My mom needs the break, I know, and she's not staying consistent. First she says she doesn't care, she'll go alone. Then she complains that she's going to be the only one up there. I don't know what to do.

2007-08-21 16:10:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wants to do whatever she wants, and she's mean to me.
Calls her Dad and complans about me and her friends parents.
It's hard to explain

2007-08-21 15:48:57 · 12 answers · asked by lorre 1

my dads girlfreinds daughter is stealing my dad please help

2007-08-21 15:27:41 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

This year I was depressed terribly from last winter to January. February-march I was very happy. April-June I was between depressed and uneasy. Now, for the last 2 months, I have been uncontrollably angry and have been disrespectful to my parents, hurtful in what ive said to friends and family, and having several episodes of anger where I wouldnt know what I was doing. In this phase, I remember my parents werent home one time, and I got completely plastered to show my friend I am not just a good little christian boy, and that was wrong, but i was so mad i didnt even think about it.

This kind of thing has been around since I could remember; into my childhood.

Whats with this? Im tired of feeling like I want to kill myself over the fact that I am not who I want to be, and treating my parents tough, etc.

2007-08-21 15:23:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel crazy that me & my twin sister don't. I feel like we're the only twins in the world who are each other's worst enemies. Do you know of any set of twins who don't get along?

2007-08-21 15:13:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime i am engaging in conversation with my mother and my brother walks in the room, it's as if god himself has graced us with his presence. now we all live in the same apartment, so i'm not talking he just arrived from New York or something. it hasn't failed, every single time, she ignores what i'm speaking with her about and looks over at him and starts talking. is this normal? are mothers supposed to be this rude, just because their precious baby boy walks in. he's 21 mind you. oh and don't get me wrong i'm not like mom you like him better then me. it's just kind of rude and annoying.

2007-08-21 14:58:59 · 4 answers · asked by Deb M 3

a 20yr old, who still gets told what to do by a parent, not allowed to go out and hang with friends, and also if they want to go out its a problem?....could the parent be overprotective or what?

2007-08-21 14:54:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 14:30:49 · 25 answers · asked by Mckenzie M 1

2007-08-21 14:24:26 · 19 answers · asked by pinkcutie 1

I am a young female with 2 kids, a nice husband, and a good job.My inlaws come to visit us every year for about 5 months. Now they are taking care of my kids. We have a very small two bedroom apartments. I cook and clean everyday. I get up at 5:00AM cook food, clean vessels and then go to work, get back in the evening, take care of kids, I also take care of my kid at night (still breastfeeding). My hubby shares work 2. My job is extremely demanding too. At home, I am not a warm person. I talk to my mom-in-law ok. But my relationship with my father in law is really bad. He is always angry. In the past he has talked really bad about me. He does not continue that now, but doesn't even smile at me. My husband and I fight over all this everyday. He feels I am the problem and I should talk more and keep them happy. But I feel suffocated and need some space. I prefer kid go to daycare (we can afford). Am I a problem monger? With stress at work and home i go crazy.Give me your unbiased opini

2007-08-21 14:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by NetWoman 2

so what would you do if you heard your parents doing it ??? would you ask them to keep it down or something and how would you ask them if yes?

2007-08-21 14:17:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom was diagnosed with thyroid/pappilary cancer on friday. i am 13 and my little brother is 9. he is Autistic and also has ADHD. my mom is a single parent and she has had this cancer for 12 years apparently, but because it is so rare, no one thought it was cancer. so i am so scared that she will die. what are the chances of her living. she starts radiation on September 1st. and before you give negative answers, so you know, my mom is the strongest woman you will ever meet. she is tough, and is ready to take this on... but i hear her cry. she is 39, he B-day was on August 9. my dad died on December 24th, 1998 at the age of 30. i need my mom. she is all i have. please, if you have any help on the topic.. tell me. be brutily honest.. just tell me. thank you all....
~Dominique

2007-08-21 14:13:42 · 27 answers · asked by Falling for you... 2

Is/was he a hero to you. What is/was his best and worst quality? Would you like to be like him? Your thoughts?

2007-08-21 14:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by Wild Ape 4

How am I related to my first cousin's son?


my father_____________my cousin's father

me___________________my cousin

____________________my cousin's son



_____ represents generations

2007-08-21 13:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by Antwaan M 5

So I'm 15 years of age and my boyfriend is in Foster care. I'm really concerned about his whereabouts. He is no longer in city limits. And I was wondering is there a way I could find him, by calling people, or is there a number in Columbus in which one of his relatives could call and find out where he is at, and see about getting custody. All information is appreciated.

2007-08-21 13:33:43 · 4 answers · asked by wyneshia j 1

I have been looking for my father off and on for about 15 years. The last time I saw him was when I was a baby, 1984 Dunedin/ clearwater Florida. His name is Dennis Lynn Napier and he would be in his mid to late 50's now. My mother never really told me much about him other than the fact that his family lives in either Missouri or Mississippi (or one of the other M' states). When he left, he left my mother Deborah and my half brother Darren. For obvious reasons, I am not going to give away my real name but I can tell you that my mothers family is from NJ. If you know anything or how to contact him- please let me know. Or if you have any advice for me on how to locate him.

2007-08-21 12:20:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous