Family - August 2007

okay anyone else ever been in this predicament? My inlaws are here from india to see the birth of their 1st grandchild (great that's nice). They are very nice people don't get me wrong, but I feel like a guest at my own house. They are kind enough to cook for me (since I'm so big right now, they're not complaining at all and are helping out). But they eat completely different foods from what i'm used to (I don't want to eat it and be rude). and they watch these shows that I don't understand the language! All day I sit and wait for my husband to get home at 6-7pm. They're here for a total of 18 weeks (oh hell yea i'm counting), but how do i prevent this from future visits? I don't want them staying for such long periods! We have no privacy at all. I feel like I'm visiting my inlaws house and I don't even live there...

2007-08-22 13:17:27 · 7 answers · asked by Pandu 1

hey, I am really confused, I am 20 and I used to live with my mom last year I went to uni. my father lives in another country and I applied for some universities there too, my Mom always told me it is ok with her if I want to go and that is all up to me...this summer I was visiting my Dad... and I was accepted in this university...I called my Mom and told her that I think I want to stay here because the university and everything else here are much better. she told me that it is all ok.... but today I called her and caught her crying that it is all over now...and that I am gone forever!
I really don't know what to do, I want to go to this uni but don't want my Mom to be upset! what should I do????!

2007-08-22 13:13:11 · 4 answers · asked by Diana 1

I was at my mates house and her mum and dad were arguing and when i came down her dad punched her mum n bust her lip. My dad used to hit my mum so when my mates dad did this i just flipped and beat her dad up. Now my mate won't talk to me but i don't really understand why, i was only sticking up for her mum. Im 15 by the way. How can i get her to talk to me again?

2007-08-22 12:47:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

personally, i would say girls because they have to give birth, clean the house, and everything, and they get periods while guys just work

2007-08-22 12:19:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

her mom don't want her and her father is useless!!!!! what can my husband and i do???? she has noone else!!! but i don't want her living with us!!

2007-08-22 12:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by lexus 1

Ok I have 2 cousins that I hang around alot we get along very well and I'm am girl and they are 2 girls too. But....what I dont get is that hey are not talking to me at all I dont know what I did wrong. I even tried saying are you mad at me and they say no we're not we're just busy but yet they'll go out with my other cousin to the movies and the mall etc. beind my back and I keep on asking them to be honest about things and tell me why your not hangin out with me but they wont tell me. they dont go to school eith one droped out and the other on is homebound so they cant be all that busy. tell me what you think because they are acting like ***** Bittches.

2007-08-22 12:03:54 · 2 answers · asked by Livvie 1

emmbarressess me in front of my crush ,friends and boys, and gets everything his way WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????????????????????????????/

2007-08-22 10:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by Bam Margera's biggest fan 1

Ok this is a big complicated, but I will try and explain it as best I can. Any help regarding this subject is appreciated. My fiance is the father of 3 children with another woman from a previous relationship. They were never married, and he has always paid his child support (however detrimental to himself). He has always had problems with visiting them because she isn't the most accomodating. Recently we found out that they moved clear across the country therefore visiting them is going to be even more of a financial burden than it would have had they not moved. Her reason for moving was not to better the childrens lives in any way but her own, by moving in with someone she had met on the internet. Recent info from her is that she is going to try and get social security disability because she is unable to work due to a previous knee injury. My question is: Is there any bearing or case for us to try and get custody of his children due to the fact that she is disabled?

2007-08-22 09:14:43 · 10 answers · asked by mgurney6 1

it was at my friends party and i was drunk?

2007-08-22 09:03:37 · 63 answers · asked by adviser_emmy 1

My mother died and my father remarried way too soon (less than 1 1/2 years later). My two sisters and I expressed our unhappiness with the situation but were told that they didn't really care and were going to do it anyways. I decided to let it be because my father was happy - until I saw the evil side of her. She is extremely selfish and makes everything about herself! She doesn't allow us to talk about our mother and gets really jealous if my father hangs out with his daughters. How do I prove to my dad that she's no good and she doesn't even care about us?

2007-08-22 08:55:53 · 22 answers · asked by Andrea K 1

My friend is having her birthday day party......tomorrow and i still don't know what to get her! She's turning 12 and I don't really want to give her a gift can because I like giving people real gifts. Gift cards are like saying I don't know you that good so here or like saying I was to lazy to but you a present because you're not that important. That's why I like getting my friends real gifts, so can someone please help me??

2007-08-22 08:49:50 · 19 answers · asked by Jackie N 2

I've lost 4 people that I love so much 2 from cancer and the other 2 from a serious head on collision there was 2 fatalitys and 1 that survived. it was a head on with a mustang a semi-truck my aunt uncle and couzin were in that mustang it was totaled after the wreck, i lost my aunt and couzin in that wreck and my uncle survived. it was a miracle he survived but, he was in a coma for 3 months and a week and 3 and a half days. they were about to unplug his breathing tank but, he came out of his coma right before they unplugged him. well, i lost my other aunt to cancer as well, as my grandfather. all 4 people ment so much to me... what am i supposed to do now? my life is fallin apart.

2007-08-22 08:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by Hannah 1

my fiance mom is always in our business. she always asking are we have problems, why i like, are my feelings for him the same, why am i with me, she even had the nerve to ask about our sexual life. I am like dang........can we please have some privacy. My fiance and I do not live together. We will both live at home until we get married. When we are at his house they are constantly up under us even his little sister. She is a total drama queen and a b don't want to finish the rest. well she aint one she just act like that. she was cool when i first met her, but i dont know what happen to her. anybody else have some future monster-in-laws

2007-08-22 08:33:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son who was only 14 passed away a year and a half ago in a 4wheeling accident. my daughter, my only other child who is 17 thinks im over protective of her. i think i just have strict rules to help keep her safe and away from harm. i wont let her stay out pass 1030 at night and i always call her cell to check up on her. Im strict on who she stays with because in my opinion some of her friends arent a good influence. i wont let her ride 4 wheelers , dirtbikes or horses bc im scared and it brings back too many memories of my sons death. I wont let her dive after 800 bc people drive worse at night, alot of drunks. am i over protective? anyone know some ways to help?

2007-08-22 08:24:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepfather,who we all call catfish for a weird reason,is always drinking and smoking.He comes up when I'm laying on my bed or on the couch,and he sits on my stomach so I can't breathe.He hits me and calls my things.I'm trying to figure out what I should do.After he sits on me he pushes me onto the floor so I hit my head on the table.I told my mom,but she doesn't care and even she does things to me!What should I do?I can't take it any longer.Now,I'm always sick or something! Please help me!!

2007-08-22 08:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is his number?

2007-08-22 08:13:16 · 10 answers · asked by Brianna Y 1

i feel like i'm not always that exciting to be around. i think its because of lack of sleep and being hungry and not having energy and the fact that i excersie all the time. Could i be
Bi-Polar?

2007-08-22 07:11:41 · 15 answers · asked by trenbolone 2

My daughter is planning on moving 120 miles away. She quit her job to move with her boyfriend to another town. He is enrolled in college there and she has a history of just sitting on her buff and not doing anything.
I helped her buy the car because I thought since she finally got a job, she would pay for it. Now I am stuck with her car payments because the loan is in my name and the car title has both our names on it.
What should I do. I am so aggrivated I feel like towing the car to a private lot and putting a for sale sign on it.

2007-08-22 07:06:43 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I want to ride my bike in to town to buy some stuff from a store that is like 5 miles away, my parents would never usually let me ride my bike this far and it's on kind of a busy street. Neither of my parents are home and I've got a cell phone. If they call the house and I'm not home then I'd probably get in trouble.
But I don't really want to lie to them. What should I do?

2007-08-22 07:00:09 · 8 answers · asked by Taylor W 1

My boyfriend is turning 28. His dad just got diagnosed with cancer and is in the hospital. My bf has been sitting by his dad's bedside since. He really isn't thinking about his b-day, but I want to at least have a cupcake or something there, in the hospital with his dad present. What, if anything should I give him as a gift? He is also my best friend, not just a boyfriend.

2007-08-22 05:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by JCHERRIE48 1

I have not one but two brother in laws that just make my skin crawl.

2007-08-22 05:20:52 · 10 answers · asked by ask me a 3

My husband and I have not talked to his mother for well over a year now. We had a disagreement with her and she took off out of state. She did not tell us that she moved, we found out from someone else. We know how to reach her if we want to. She has made no attempt to contact us at all. What started the whole thing was so little compared to what she turned it into. Before she left, she walked right by her son and me like she did not even know us. I just can not get over how easy it was for her to walk away from her own son.
Since this whole thing began, we have had 2 baby girls. Our first daughter past away last year, the other was born a couple months ago and is at home but with some medical issues. Should we let her know about the babies? Ever since I had the last baby, I have been feeling a need for family in the worst way. Should I let her know or should I let the sleeping dog lie? Thanks in advance!

2007-08-22 05:06:53 · 4 answers · asked by GlitterSno75 3

2007-08-22 05:02:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we live together and do things in common for 9 years and not married yet with 2 girls children 5 years and 1 year 5 months now he asking bfor another baby.

2007-08-22 04:55:48 · 25 answers · asked by Saybah W 1

I know I'm a bit too old for this. I'm 19. My Sister is 22! I cannot afford for a lock (they cost atleast £70 to be fitted).

I'm currently looking for a job, which I begrudge because I know when I come back something will be taken.

I'm 19 and I feel really immature for writing this, but I'm getting really angry. I was meant to go to my boyfriend's tonight but I have to stay at home because I cannot afford to replace things right now.

2007-08-22 04:49:44 · 6 answers · asked by m8g8 3

I fight with my sister and I am the little sister

2007-08-22 04:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do about my mother-in-law? She can't help but make stupid comments to me and my fiance all the time. She thinks she's being funny but she has just become annoying! For example she jokes and pretends that she's been trying to poison her son (my husband) for years. Also, just this morning I was drinking a cup of tea that my husband had made, but before I took a sip I had to cough. So I coughed and she immeiately said, "ooh it wasn't me that made it, it was him, he's trying to poision you!" Also my husband goes jogging sometimes and I don't because I don't like jogging. She says "I've seen lots of good looking women out jogging, you (meaning me) should be careful". I tell my husband that it annoys me but he just says she thinks she's funny. He agrees that she's annoying though.

These are just a couple of examples of how she makes me mad. What do you think? What should I say to her, if anything? Please give advice. Thanks!

2007-08-22 04:42:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anya 2

If you were a parent would you rather your 10-17 year old kid play a game with nudity in it or violence. The nudity involves sex scenes, breasts, and other things. The violence involves shooting cops, blowing up people, killing anyone or thing that moves basically. Obviously this game would be rated "M" which means 18+.

2007-08-22 04:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by dldx0 1

i have been a good kid, they ( my parents ) tried to blackmail me , emotionally abuse me , brain wash the shi# out of me . b ut i never gave in . Even my brother made me isolate from my own community , i still didn't give in and i never will , because when i know something is right i stand for it .

. when i see anyone now , i Judge them , using the knowledge i have now , because -
i have survived by reading a lot about how past affects our present , and inturn our future . So is it normal for me to judge people like that?

Everyonei see, even , if i sees you . i will judge you , and a tiny slip of a single word would make me think you wre also brought up like me or ,

make up a whole ambiguoous story of your child hood
why am i doing that?
is that normal ??

2007-08-22 04:36:24 · 6 answers · asked by sum142121 1

Do you find them pleasant to be around also?

2007-08-22 04:31:36 · 2 answers · asked by Gilligan 1