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my dads girlfreinds daughter is stealing my dad please help

2007-08-21 15:27:41 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships Family

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talk to your dad. tell him that you feel left out. i havn't really been in this exact situation, but i've felt like i was loosing my family to an outsider, and i know what a sucky feeling it is. talk to your dad, and even talk to his girlfriend's daughter. maybe you three could hang out together. dont' try revenge tactics, that will just get you into trouble, trust me.
if things don't change right away, try waiting it out. sometimes its like a new car; its all you can think about for a while and hten the excitement dies down. maybe after this girl gets used to being around your dad, she'll stop 'stealing him'. maybe seh hasn't had a father in her life and she's not meaning to steal him away, she's just happy to have found someone to fill the spot.
on the off chance that she is a father-stealer who only wants to ruin your relationship with your dad then talk to a teacher or a counsler. you've got to tell someone before it gets out of control. but tahts only if she's delibratly trying to ruin your life. I.e, gettin you into trouble, lying about things that happened, doing things an dblaming them on you, cutiting you out of family activities, etc.

hope i've helped, and i hope that you and this girl can learn to get along, who knows, she mght jsut end up being a cool sister with cool friends.

2007-08-21 15:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by 2shy2talk 3 · 0 0

Do whatever you can to remove yourself from being in or around the situation at all costs. Your Dad is a big boy now, even though he isn't acting like one, and he needs to handle his own problems. He is going to get himself involved in a whole lot of very nasty feelings - but if he is not aware of what he is doing, hes got more serious problems than either you or I can handle.

2007-08-21 15:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0 0

i know its hard but you have to share you should talk to your dad though and tell him how your feeling and that maybe you to should have a morning that you to set aside that you can do something together but dont feel like shes trying to steal him away from you she probably just misses a dad figure it will work its self out

2007-08-21 15:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0 0

If your Dad is in love with this woman he is probably just trying to impress the daughter. She could never replace you. Be strong and stay nice about it and you will see what I mean.

2007-08-21 15:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by happy@50 4 · 0 0

you need to talk to your dad about this. don't get angry, just tell him how you feel. he might deny it or he may not even know he's doing it. i'm guessing he's trying to make the girl feel comfortable and wanted. unfortunately, you're the one kind of being left out. just talk to him. what have you got to lose?

2007-08-21 15:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0 0

dude ived look in my car garage there is none well u can tell her to back off and try to hang with ur dad mor elike try to aks him to hang out with u

2007-08-21 15:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Spy camera catch her in action

2014-12-22 18:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mr 2 · 0 0

telll your dad how you feel. be open and he will pay more attention to you

2007-08-21 15:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by drea D 4 · 0 0

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