Family - August 2007

Okay, if a guy is bi that means hes gay..there is no in between when it comes to guys...
Does anyone agree or disagree? and why?

2007-08-20 12:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a fiance in the military. I just found out he is married to someone else but has been getting seperation pay for being away from his wife its been a little over 7 years and the amount is very high. Isn't this illegal I have been with him for 10 years and she lives in another state.

2007-08-20 12:34:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today my friends and I were performing a seonce, when my parents got mad at me for lighting candles in the house (im 13). They are opposed to Wicca, but not in favor of Christianity either. Usually, we go to the park in the woods to perform magic, but it was raining today. My parents grounded me and wont let me go the park tommorow. What do I do? (And also, if youre going to say something negative or that i am too young to light candles or wicca is evil, i will report you)

2007-08-20 12:19:25 · 15 answers · asked by Sean L. 1

I dont know what to do. A few years ago my daughter told me my brother in law (her uncle) had touched her. I freaked out and called the police. They arrested him. I pushed the matter for my daughters sake. He's still in prison. My daughter has problems. I have other posts about her. The psycologists working with my daughter have made major progress (Bipolar). Recently this is all coming out. She told them and me that he did nothing to her. Shes really upset about the lie that put him in prison. My god she was so convincing when she told me he did this to her. I don't know what to do. The DA won't do anything. They say he's be convicted and that has to stand. My daughter even talked to them.
At the trial they didn't have any evidence but, they said that children don't lie about molestation. I believed that at the time and so did the judge. My daughter and I have been in a therapy group. I was surprised to find that so many kids do this.
What else can I do to help him and my sister?

2007-08-20 12:04:05 · 11 answers · asked by julie_pstr 1

please help me an my family

2007-08-20 11:39:14 · 9 answers · asked by tanya 1

I'm stuck with a neurotic brother-in-law that is hard to avoid because he still lives at home and I love visiting my in-laws. This guy is 22, smokes pot, drinks heavily, was on cocaine a while, has a filthy room, doesn't shower, and is also on anti-depressants.

At Christmas he kept us up all night blaring music, he laughed at my engagement diamond, and most recently after I joked that his cat was gay (it was trying to mount their other male cat) he got furious and said "Stop it, I know what you're trying to do and it won't work. You're trying to get to me through my brother and I don't like it." Then he walked away. WTF ???

Since then he's only spoken to me once. We were all having dinner and talking about karma. I said my opinion and he replied "Well I dont really care what you think."

He's extremely insulting, no social conscience, doesn't appear to respect women and as violence goes, seems to be a ticking bomb. May get kicked out soon, a real psychopath.

2007-08-20 11:25:17 · 9 answers · asked by NDO 2

If you had a 15 year old daughter, who is a good girl all around, what you you let her do with her friends?

Would you let her go out on dates, let her go to the movies with her friends (with no adults), go over to guy friends houses..things like that?

im 15, and i just want to know what you think the rules should be!!

2007-08-20 10:42:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

At 13 she made mistakes, went through a bad phase, did stuff behind my back, was under influence of bad friends. To my hubby and me trust and honesty have alwas been very important. She apologized, said she understood she was wrong and promised to change but we emphasized she had broken out trust and had to abide by the consequences. She got a harsh punishment and though she dod her best to get out trust back we were harsh and it took us several months to trust her again. She suffered a lot, our trust was very important to her, actually this broke her spirit. She turned up into a great girl, made us proud, but got sad, stopped talking with us, became a stranger. She never messed up again, but we could never have her love again. We tried to talk, she even went to counselling but didn't change. Polite but distant. She told us she couldn't see us as loving parents any more. Today she's married, graduated, a great youmg woman, has a girl and nothing has changed. Hardly talks to us.

2007-08-20 10:21:25 · 4 answers · asked by Tania 1

Her mom just died of cancer, her youngest sister committed suicide as a result, & her baby niece died from malnutrition all in the same day. My friend said that's too much for her to deal with, & she hates funerals because it's church-related & she hates church. However, she's very sad to lose 3 famiy members at once.

I kind of think that's messed up.

2007-08-20 10:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was watching Super Sweet 16,
and this girl wanted a necklace worth 314,000 dollars
and her father said, do you really need it?

And this B*tch got all mad and said "It's only 314,000! ITs not that much!!"

Of course he bought it, and she was like
"Daddy, did you know I love you?"
OMFG, who else is disgusted by this?
and yes, my heart must have stopped.

2007-08-20 09:07:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister's husband's sister = my sister-in-law?

would I be calling her that?

2007-08-20 08:58:40 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

My mom and I always had a great relationship. She was always the friend type though and not so much a mom. I moved 2 1/2 hours away and I live with my fiance. We talked all the time on the phone and I helped her out through her man troubles. Since I got pregnant I have only talked to her like 3 times and I am 36 weeks. She isnt mad or anything but she acts like she doesnt care. The times that I did talk to her she only would talk about herself and she just acted like I was just one of her pals that got knocked up rather than her daughter having her first grandchild. She never calls to see how I am doing and I am soo hurt and upset by this. I dont have her number and I have no clue where she is living now. I dont even know how to talk to her next time she calls. I love her and I wanted her to be a part of our lives as the grandma. I actually feel more sorry for my son who's grandmother could care less about him. What should I do or say when I do end up speaking to her?

2007-08-20 08:54:27 · 9 answers · asked by angel l 3

What was the biggest difference in your ages? What were or are your biggest complaints? Did anything get better or worse as you got older? Was there something good about sharing a bedroom?

I'm an only child, but I've had several teenage friends who had to share their bedrooms with a 4 year old and I can't imagine what that's like. Any stories?

2007-08-20 08:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister in law is a horrible mother , her daughter lives with my parents and she only comes to see her maybe once a week or when it is convenient for her , she is constantly bringsing guys in and out of her daughters life and doing drugs around her , when she takes her daughter she always brings her back within 24 hours and the baby is always miserable . On top of all of this she is telling everyone that wednesday when she comes to pick her up she is not bringing her back and is not going to let us see her anymore , we dont want to let her take her , we are worried about her well being , what can we do and what type of rights do we have ???

2007-08-20 08:32:01 · 6 answers · asked by applesauce 1

I only have one sister.older.she's 26 and I'm 21. We have never been close really. But I lived with her last year and we started to get pretty close.Closer then we had ever been. I moved out and got my own place. We live in the same town only a few blocks away. She never calls. Never wants to hang out. She's always put her friends/boyfriends before her family. We will make plans and she always brakes them. Something Always come up. And I'm really getting sick of it. I want a sister that I can hang out with. I always try and make time to call her and see whats going on. Sometimes I think she screens my call. I'll call and leave a message just saying call me back I wanna see whats up. She NEVER calls back. I just hate it that we aren't close. I mean I'm not wanting to spend every min. with her but lunch, shopping, just plan hang out from time to time would be great. But theres always something better to do. The only time she ever comes around is when she thinks I need something.

2007-08-20 08:10:57 · 4 answers · asked by luveschvys 2

2007-08-20 07:12:12 · 4 answers · asked by Hot Lips 4077 5

at home,she's a very good girl,gets awesome gradesand is a good daughter,she's got this man she's been dating for 21/2 years now,he's 39 years old(but weve already went through the age issue with that)about twice a month she will spend the night over at his house,i know this,but she tells my husband,her dad that she's staying at her friend Amanda's,he has a feeling shes lieing and hasn;t said anything yet,he says its not right if she's speding the night over with him ,which i agree also somewhat,then i think she is an adult and doing what she's supposed to be doing in life,she says she doesn;t want to move in with him,and she's not doing anything wrong,she says she don't drink or do drugs,she's doing what she's supposed to so whats wrong with staying over sometimes,they have traveled to Hawaii for 4 days and my husband said nothing,they are planning another trip to Austrailia,which my husband knows about of course,so why does he have a problem with her staying the night once in awhile?

2007-08-20 06:25:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to visit my Grandma yesterday, and I somehow just KNEW: she doesnt have long. She is severely diabetic, and has liver and kidney damage as well (among a list of other ailments). She is the sweetest, most upbeat person in spite of it all. She has been the biggest inspiration to me since I was little, and I love her dearly.

What are some things I can do before she goes? Things that will help me remember her when she is gone. Things that we can have fun doing too. Remember, she cant see, so she cant write, etc..... And she is very frail, so I cant take her places. The other problem is that I live 2 hours away from her now.

2007-08-20 06:01:45 · 8 answers · asked by Brenda 4

its not fair at all, we're not poor. and i havent been to the movies scince the first day that the simpsons movie came out.

2007-08-20 05:59:42 · 14 answers · asked by zany 1

From the day my wife met my parents she thought my parents were rude to her and no matter what she did it was unappreciated. Her folks do well, so my parents never bothered to offer to help with anything. My mom said she'd throw my wife a baby shower but then asked her to pay for it. After baby was born, parents insisted on seeing baby every weekend and my wife said no and said they can come during the week. They never buy or do anything nice for the baby. Eventually I sent a letter to my parents explaining how we feel, they ignored it. My wife and mom got in a yelling match on the phone and my folks cancelled Mother's Day and ignored my wife on Father's Day and bad-mouthed by wife to other family members. It all blew up when emails were sent from wife, my sister and then me. My wife now wants nothing to do with my family and my family who I've never stood up to feel I just do what my wife says. My sister has always wanted a girl and is extremely jealous of my daughter. What do I do?

2007-08-20 05:55:18 · 10 answers · asked by Jim Beam 1

My friend ashley has a new boyfriend but hes really mean 2 every body and he cheats on her but she dosnt care even if hes being rude and dumb to her friends! I dont like it but when ever i try 2 talk 2 her she always gets mad at me what do i do?

2007-08-20 05:39:08 · 19 answers · asked by cutieprincess 2

Check out this link:

http://www.grandparentsrights.org

I'm posting this question, because apparently some grandparents actually think they have certain rights with regard to their grandchildren. Don't get me wrong. I think that it's sometimes tragic when grandparents lose contact with their grandchildren, because of family acrimony or for various other reasons. However, I can't help but think that only the PARENTS and the GUARDIANS are the ones who should have the final say regarding whom their children should have contact with and that no court should be allowed to interfere with this right.

2007-08-20 05:37:03 · 10 answers · asked by tangerine 7

He comes home;his house is clean, dinner is cooked, laundry is done. He is a total *** to me. He barely has sew with me, and when he does, it for a minute or two. I am going to school right now, and he rubs it in my face. We both pay the bills. He gets everything and I get nothing!! He is so mean sometime and makes me cry and calls me terrible things, and tells me to **** off!!! I am misreable. our 7 year old daughter askes me why dad is being like that, and one day, I said, cause he is an ***, by accident. AND, now when he is being mean, she will come up to me say that dad is being like THAT again!! I didn't mean to say that to her, it just slipped out!!
He has so much debt and when I want to make a payment on my credit card, he get pissed and screams at me!! He drives my NEW jeep, and I drive a car that over heats!! I AM MISREABLE AND I WANT TO LEAVE!!! But, I want my daughter to have her father in her life!

2007-08-20 05:17:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i should rethink the wedding. things are'nt gonna change. his mother and sister are one in the same. weird, mean, selfish and weird! do i really want to deal with them forever?

2007-08-20 05:06:28 · 43 answers · asked by kiss e 2

Call a relative you never talk to, and tell them that you love them.

2007-08-20 04:54:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter wants to have a part time job, and she told me she wanted to be a stripper. she said she'll just do it to raise some money and cause she really wants to try it. i talked to her about it and im thinking of allowing her, seeing as there's no harm in it. but the only problem is she's too afraid to ask her dad. she wants me to tell him what she's doing. how do i talk to my husband about it? how do i tell him that our daughter wants to dance nude?

2007-08-20 04:39:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter had to choose whether or not to see her dad again she lives w/ me but visits her dad on weekends. well her stepmom lets call her angie hates both me and my daughter lets call my daughter ashley. ashley and angie are always ignporing eachother when ashley goes over there ashley has also made it very clear to everyone that she DOESN'T WANT ME AND HER DAD BACK TOGETHER angie and joe (dad) have been together for 7 years now. ashley knew o matter how much she tried that angie would never accept her so she decided to never come back i have to go have my lawyer draw up papers thursday and i want to make sure it's what she really wants (she can see her dad whenever she wants vut then the child support will start back up again
this has nothing to do with what i feel i just want to make sure it's what ashley wants even though she says it is
P.S. this isn't a trust thing

2007-08-20 04:36:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok many people i know are really hatin teresa and i happen to be one of many that hate her.... i mean seriously wouldnt you think she would want jr to have a good racin career? i sure would..... i wouldnt be wantin money money money... i mean duh alls she wants is money and she dont even like nascar at all! so why exactly is she such a B***H? i would really appreciate any answers or info. that you have on this topic..... thanks so much~~~

2007-08-20 04:25:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having probelms with being where I am and where I want to be. My mom took my brother and me to move to Chicago. However, I told her I wanted to stay in Ohio. She said she understood, but she doesn't want to. I think it is because of her mother. She said I can always make new friends, but I don't want to. Any good advice?

2007-08-20 04:23:43 · 3 answers · asked by GG 2

Last night, my 9 year old daughter got mouthy when I told her it was time for bed, and I told her that if she continued to be disrespectful, she would be grounded. She did continue, and my fiance jumped in and yelled at her that she was grounded, and then she kept it up and he yelled that she was grouned for two days. I felt like he "stepped on my toes" by intervening in my disciplining my daughter. I definitely want him to be on the same page with me when it comes to disciplining her, but lately he's been telling me how to discipline her and becoming really controlling almost. One other side note to mention is that my daughter and I just moved in with him 3 weeks ago. He was not like this before we moved in. I'm feeling smothered and undermined. Also, he constantly brings up how "good" his daughter is. It's really getting under my skin. I guess my question here is should my fiance be able to discipline my daughter with me there? He is not her father nor her stepfather. Help, please!!

2007-08-20 04:20:13 · 18 answers · asked by dmh1973 1