I had a fiance in the military. I just found out he is married to someone else but has been getting seperation pay for being away from his wife its been a little over 7 years and the amount is very high. Isn't this illegal I have been with him for 10 years and she lives in another state.
2007-08-20 12:34:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He can get into trouble for having an extra marital affair while in the military. Does not matter if they, in their minds, feel the marriage is over. In the eyes of the law they are still married. What he is doing is conduct unbecoming a soldier (or officer, if that applies).
2007-08-20 12:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by msims52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not collecting separation pay illegally because they are living apart. The military may have some issues with his involvement with you, but only if someone else begins to make waves.
2007-08-20 12:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he's legally married then he can get whatever pay comes along with being away from where his wife is/home. It sounds like he is manipulating the system, to always be away, but that's not necessarily illegal.
2007-08-20 12:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not too familiar with military rules but I have a friend who is in the army branch..or navy...lol..anyhoos he once mentioned that they are penalized for breaking wedding vows. In other words yes that sounds like a big no no! Not only tampering with the military but the US gov as well.
Yikes...
best wishes
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2007-08-20 12:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by artsygal_cc86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope....Separation Pay Has Nothing To Do With Being Married ....
2007-08-20 12:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think your bitter and hes decided to leave you so you want to get him in trouble i bet you enjoyed the money when he was with you and if hes not married to you he is still clearly seperated from her if not in the same place so try not to let so much jelousy rear its ugly head
2007-08-20 12:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Leanne B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great balls of fire, yes!
2007-08-20 12:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a loser....
2007-08-20 12:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋