He comes home;his house is clean, dinner is cooked, laundry is done. He is a total *** to me. He barely has sew with me, and when he does, it for a minute or two. I am going to school right now, and he rubs it in my face. We both pay the bills. He gets everything and I get nothing!! He is so mean sometime and makes me cry and calls me terrible things, and tells me to **** off!!! I am misreable. our 7 year old daughter askes me why dad is being like that, and one day, I said, cause he is an ***, by accident. AND, now when he is being mean, she will come up to me say that dad is being like THAT again!! I didn't mean to say that to her, it just slipped out!!
He has so much debt and when I want to make a payment on my credit card, he get pissed and screams at me!! He drives my NEW jeep, and I drive a car that over heats!! I AM MISREABLE AND I WANT TO LEAVE!!! But, I want my daughter to have her father in her life!
2007-08-20 05:17:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would leave. I have two kids and I wouldn't want them growing up thinking that's how they should be treated. I think you and your daughter would be better off without him. It'll be hard but my mom waited till I was 13 to leave my dad... She'll tell you her one regret was not leaving as soon as I was born... Good luck!
2007-08-20 05:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mommyof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE. If you don't you will show your daughters that it is alright to put up with an abusive jerk. Set an example for them. Be strong and walk out. Your daughters will only learn that it is ok to tolerate this behavior from a boyfriend or husband and they will have miserable lives too.
2007-08-20 12:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by catsaver001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in this kind of environment and i understand u want her father to be in her life but honestly you are hurting her more than helping her but letting her see all the abuse in your home. All this is teaching her is that when she gets older and is with a man if he treats her like crap it is acceptable because you indured it while she was growing up. I would leave honestly think about your child. Do you really want her to grow up and think these things are normal? Good luck
2007-08-20 13:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sasha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he will always be your daughters father...how he chooses to act on that is secondary to you and your daughters mental health. if talking to him is out of the question...he is leaving you no choice but to leave...i think he knows you are trying to do better by going to school and maybe he has fear of what education will do for you....it is no excuse for mistreating you though...please do what you know in your heart you need to do.
2007-08-20 12:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a mess to me.
you want your daughter to live with a tyrant who cusses, puts others down and is generally miserable? i'm sure she's uncomfortable as well....
do what is best for you and your daughter.
dysfunctional living is not a "safe" place to be.
2007-08-20 12:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gtfo of there!
What he is doing is emotional abuse. Take back your life, and leave him to his. If he verbally assaults you, go to the police.
Seriously, he is abusing you, please please leave!!
Your daughter does NOT NOT NOT NOT need someone like that in her life, father or not.
2007-08-20 12:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling is needed. Today.
2007-08-20 12:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋