My friend ashley has a new boyfriend but hes really mean 2 every body and he cheats on her but she dosnt care even if hes being rude and dumb to her friends! I dont like it but when ever i try 2 talk 2 her she always gets mad at me what do i do?
2007-08-20 05:39:08 · 19 answers · asked by cutieprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is nothing you can't do; Stay out of it and when she is ready she will come to you, Just be a good and supportive friend just be there for her.Once she wake up.
If you can stand to be around it, limit the time you are around that energy.
2007-08-20 05:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do. I guess if you tell her and she doesn't care, then she's going to have to get screwed over eventually and it's going to hurt her. She will learn from her own mistakes. Just wait it out and be there for her when it's over and give her positive advice about getting over him. Let her know she deserves way better than that loser and all that good stuff. If he's that bad, then hopefully it won't last too long. I've been through terrible relationships, and I came out alright.
2007-08-20 05:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by sun day 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you can do you probably do for her already.Some people are just needy and having a lover or b/f or g/f is all that matters to them.Just be glad that you care more about your self than she seems to care about herself.At least when the relationship truly falls apart she will not be able to say you weren't there for her and that you did at least try to tell her as a friend.Your job is done.But, make sure you learn from your friends mistakes.
2007-08-20 05:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
once her friends decided to start ditching her because her bf is a jerk she'll get the point. This isnt one of those things that your friend will listen to. She is in seriouse like/love mode. She will have to figure it out by herself. I've been on both sides of this one.
2007-08-20 05:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tabatha M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. Shes going to have to learn for herself. Its nice you want to protect her but your friend has no self esteem and is willing to be a doormat. If you want to help her you need to figure out a way to help her get some self respect.
2007-08-20 05:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell her anything, let her find out on her own....I had a friend that was going out with this guy and i knew he was married and still with his wife and i told her and she got mad at me and said that i was hating on their relationship and that i needed to stop saying lies and she stopped talking to me...Let her find out on her own or she will choose him over you even if you are right....
2007-08-20 05:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by puertolinda2003 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't tell her anything right now. if she likes him, she won't listen to you. But you and all of her other friends can do is refuse to be around him. Politely tell her why, and she may come to realize what a rude boor he is.
2007-08-20 05:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by jules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone. It's there buisness not yours, even though she's your friend. And then she'll someday realize she should of listened to you, or learn a lesson from what's going on between her and her bf.
2007-08-20 05:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by luv_ya 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you still want to be friends, but that you don't want to spend time with him. Ask her if she can commit to spending time with you without him - if not ask her to call when she wants to talk or has broken up with him. Hopefully she'll wake up and that won't take too long.
2007-08-20 05:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly there's not a whole lot you can do. Let's face it, when your heart is involved (your friend) you don't see things in the same way that your friends do.
2007-08-20 05:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Duckie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋