what u can do if u know that ur husband is not so co-opreative, pay much more attension in his brothers family
2007-08-21 23:23:39 · 13 answers · asked by reekha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Plz understand your husband. Discuss thoroghly with him the matter without which your concept would be illfounded. What is that he is not cooperating to you. Is it wrong to help his brother's family. Any decision taken as of now from your statement would be one sided and against the law of natural justice.
2007-08-21 23:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all I can say is try making him sail in the same boat. Pay attention to your family, your sibling(s) and concentrate on what you have and make the most of it. This does not meant that you completely divert your attention away from your husband as he will later throw it on your face. However, don't get get him involved in decisions within your family. Hopefully this should work once he finds out the same.
2007-08-25 23:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN a relation like husband wife there should be a space to share everything with each other without any hesitation ....and yes there should be the give n take of the opinion & mutual decisions.But in your case it seems your husband doesn't care about your feeling & even not bother to discuss about family matter....so in that case you stop sharing anything with your husband specially any decesion related to yourself...am sure he'll ask one day to you that he is finding change in you than never share your feeling with him ......this may be the solution or help you to attract his attention to yourself....try once
2007-08-22 00:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by bharti c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have similar issues my wife talks about her brother in law all the time, not sure if she had affair or too impress by her B-I-L spending money on my in-laws and helping them all the time. She till think twice and buys cheaper items for my kids saying we don’t have money but will not hesitate to spend about $700 on airfare to see her family in other state in USA might divorcee her. No feelings for husband and talks about B-I-L does not make sense. Looks like materialistic lifestyle
2007-08-22 03:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 09:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thnk u pay more attention on the stuff he does for his family or brothers.and u feel a bit jealous.just dont care about it a lot try 2 agree with him if u want to lead a good life with him.and be co-operative with his family bkoz he loves hi family if u'll love hi family he would love you.
GOOD LUCK
2007-08-22 03:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ur husband in person. Try to make him understand ur feelings too.
Otherwise if nothing works out just try to attract him by means of sex.
2007-08-21 23:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by poppypreeeeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to think based on his actions that i wasn't respected or even loved. i would have to think that my husband did not trust me if i wasn't involved in any decisions. makes for a very bad marriage with lots of resentment on your part. confront him tell him your hurt, wait for his response if u don't get any satisfaction u need to move on and changee things. we are all responsible for our own happiness, if your with the wrong person chang it. but give him the chance first to make it right before u move on that's the fair way to do it.
2007-08-21 23:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be chill i know that is not so easy dear but do what ur hub wants from u a simling face and supporting him what he is doing and one day will come when ur hub do what u want him to do
best of luck and i hope u cn do it
2007-08-22 05:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be few topics on which it is not advisable to involve ladies in discussion
2007-08-22 05:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by DEAR T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋