Do you hate your mom?

Question

because i am stuck with mine and am in need of sympathy stories.
*and dont be mistaken, im really very nice

shes an alcoholic
shes abusive
(physically and verbally)
shes addicted to sex
and she cheats on my dad.


BUT

she is SOOOO fake i cannot emphasize it enough. she also goes to "bible study"

its like she uses that and her designer purses and fake hair to fool people =/

Answer 1

My mother left my father after 12 years.I have not spoken to her since she left me with my grandmother and took off with other man..I have not forgiven her for her abandonment.My grandmother is one who rasied me at 7 years old.
My grandmother was 93 yearsold when she passed away Middle of July.I cannot say how lonely I feel because I do.I thank god I HAVE a daughter that is what has kept my sanity.My grandmother left me in her will.And everything she has is in Mexico I cannot go to mexico until I GET my visa approved and go to court from my august 11th DUI..That is other reason my mother so called wants to speak to me because now "I'm worth" something to her since,she is dirt poor..I have this passion of getting even and giving what she gave me NOTHING..I could relate a little to you but I NEVER really knew my mother she is like a "Ghost" In my life non exist is like she died to me in my heart..I have not seen my father either he commited sucide in prison.
I have a brother and his only one I do get along with and speak to even if he is in jail for theft.I will someday have a bigger family over time once..I meet right man..My kids daddy had a affair and I was with him for 5 years.I currently have a new boyfriend and I think is serious.
I have a lot of trust issues and abandonment crap.I could say that I'm desent and make desent living.And I cannot judge anyone or you but..I will tell you..do what is best for your sanity.and your lifestyle.don't listen to people who don't know nothing about having a normal parent.or know about how hard it is to raise yourself and defend yourself worth and life is short .enternity is not.
Is amazing that my life has been a thunderstorm and so far I have lived to learned that it will be over soon and I WILL and YOU will see the rainbow..
I have not seen a therpist or anything I USUALLy heal with..
writing poetry.,and listening to music or taking a long long bath with bubbles anything to get my mind of life and be centered..you should try it some time..I write pretend HATE letters to my parents and rip them up and it feels good to tell them how i feel with out them knowing how I REALLY FEEL..I hope that helps you adios..may the devil workship hell and may god come back to earth to rescue the suffering from cruel world..

Answer 2

Their are days when it seem its true, but that is when I get real angry at what she does. Then the days i really love her b/c she pulls strong ties to get something done for me. My mother and I have this weird relationship, but not the kind you see on T.V. My father and her are really close, no secrets between each other, which is a pact I think my father and her like made before they had kids b/c their still going strong. I dislike her for that because I can't go to her for no advice, because my father will talk about it in our next family meeting. I hate that so much and seek that part of motherly affection in my best friend mother and it sucks, it sucks alot knowing my mother is right their all she has to do is keep her mouth shut and learn to keep certain secrets that can bond us closer.

Answer 3

So am I but that doesn't seem to matter when you get stuck with a bad mother. My mother is old enough now that not only is she never changing but she's fricken rewriting "history". Today she told me that a family medical condition was passed down by my adopted fathers mother. She actually argued with me when I pointed out that it was impossible as we did not share a blood line. She said(and I quote) well its all legal, he adopted you!".

I'm 54 btw, and she's almost 80.

Answer 4

i love my mother even though she acts like a 5 year old at times, is constantly butting in where she is not needed, and somehow magically always knows the right thing to say to make me feel worse about myself. oh and whenever i try to get a message across to her i get "im the worst mother in the whole ******* world!" from her and i hate that. i dont pull the whole "im the worst ******* child" act. i guess she has no guilt trigger in her. sucks for me because i do.

Answer 5

Dont hate her, because at any time you may lose her, (as i did on the 9-11) and i remember the last time we fought was a day before, i was nine then, so please do not hate your mom

Answer 6

well my mom does mean things and stupid stuff ALL the time like threatening to not let me go hang out w/ friends and such i can hate her at times but i still love her cuz shes my mom..she can be VERRRYY frustrating tho!

Answer 7

no i love my mom. and im sure u love urs too just goin thru a rough time i hope. hatred is such a bad feeling to hold.

Answer 8

No, I love my mother very much. My mother is honoured that her children have brought up their children right

Answer 9

I love my mom very mutch and my dad is very strict but I stil love them

Answer 10

I love my mom SO SO SO much. I'm very lucky because my mom isn't even close to your mom.