Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

2007-12-23 01:29:22 · 13 answers · asked by i.♥.racing 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why i am with his mum and dad but i was today.They came to see are daughter in the church nativity and brought my sister in laws kids.They came to are house and i so nervous.I don't get on with his sister much as she has been nasty in the past and not nice when i lost two pregnancys early this year(i'm 17 weeks now!!).How do i over come this for christmas day dinner.This is not a new thing i have been with my hubby nearly 8 yrs now.Thanks x

2007-12-23 01:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by noot 3 in Family

okay so me and this guy i like got drunk a few weeks ago and started kissing a little. i didnt mean for it to happen...it just kinda did. but we are hanging out again tonight and i don't want the same thing to happen. i want him to ask me out.

what can i do to hint to him that i only want to hook up with him if he is my bf?

also what should i do/say if he tries to kiss me?

btw i'm 15 and he's 16

2007-12-23 01:18:51 · 10 answers · asked by emilyy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, another Christmas is upon us and I am wondering if I am over-reacting again. Let me explain my situation and then you can tell me.

Every year I split Christmas Day with my ex, which is fine because I think it's only fair. He comes and picks up the kids, but we have no contact, which again is fine with me.

Here's where the whole holiday gets sticky. My husband leaves early Christmas morning to go 200 miles away to see his kids who are grown. Their mother (his ex) is there too. Altho he claims every year that they do not hang out as a little "happy family", I think he is not being truthful to me. I think for one day out of the year, they try to pretend for their kids sake, that the divorce did not happen (mind you, his kids are 20 and 22 and he has been divorced for 7 years and been married to me for almost 4).

I got so tired of sitting here alone year after year like it's just another day. Am I wrong?

2007-12-23 01:16:30 · 15 answers · asked by kikio 6 in Marriage & Divorce

we are both 14 and we loove eachother very much. and i just want to make this last as long as it can. maybe till were 18. i dont want any comments that say it wont last cause that makes me feel worse

i just want some date ideads and fun things to do together

2007-12-23 01:14:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am korean my mom was piss off when she found out that i only like black,brown,mixed girls. what should i say to her?

2007-12-23 01:13:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my bf broke up with me and now hes dating this girl whos 21 and she looks like shes like 30! take a look and tell me....would you leave me for her??? like...whos prettier?

(first 3 me, next 3 her)

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her:
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2007-12-23 01:11:01 · 57 answers · asked by CASSiEE 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 15 and started living with me a few months ago. She was living with her father in another state from age 10 to 15.

Now that she is off for two weeks, she is complaining that she is going to be bored. I feel the pressure to take her on day trips,etc when I would just like to stay home. Its like I have to entertain her because she does not have too many friends here.

Yesterday, we went on day trip and then to the mall. She did not like the day trip and then left my camera somewhere by accident at the mall.

I don't know how to handle her long face if we don't go anywhere. I am upset about her losing the camera, but don't know what to do about that also.

How should I keep her busy while not spending too much money and getting what I need to done also?

2007-12-23 01:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

Well i met this girl at work weve known each other for about 1 month now, weve gone out to see a movie and eat out a restaurant, and also plan to go to the zoo soon. We started talking one night and flirting 4 a while by then and then she asks me if i love her, i said yes and when i asked her she said yes too. But she says shes got a bf (only bin goin out for about 3 wks) she said she does love me bt im like her best mate bt she doesnt want to lead me on...bt then she says that we neva kno wat myt happen in the future. Then i askd her if i kuld kno whether or nt i can move on and she said she thinks i should "just in case you kno" is what she said. then says that she hopes dis doesnt change anything between us. I told her then that i def wanna remain best friends for now mayb more in future. She said shed like that bt told me nt to hold my breath in a funny way haha then she goes i dont wanna hurt you. My main question is shuld i wait it out or take action. i will answer any questions.

2007-12-23 01:02:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 18 and i want to have sex with my boyfriend..its going to be his first time and me, my second time (but that was a year ago).. i want us to enjoy his first time..any advice?? and what is the best condom to use..?

2007-12-23 00:59:28 · 8 answers · asked by stephie 1 in Singles & Dating

My spouse had an affair. I Love Her. I always will. She hurt ME. How do learn to trust her again

2007-12-23 00:58:56 · 14 answers · asked by crackers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If I get married, I want to

2007-12-23 00:55:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think is most common:

They look at the situation and realize the mistakes made and make a concious decision to avoid those blunders

or

No matter how hard they try, they have already been socialized to act somewhat like their parents and therefore will be more likely to make the same relationship errors.

2007-12-23 00:53:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my sisters husband was on the computer late last night while i was in the family room watching movies on the television. he came up from behind the couch and said hi and that he was going to bed. he then reached around and kissed my neck and put his hand on my chest. he then drew back real fast. am i misreading it or did he intentionally touch me?

2007-12-23 00:48:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 2 years and this is my 1st baby! I am so happy, but feel sad because of how my husband is treating me, I have 2 jobs and he is currently only working 1 day a week all this month beacuse his job is slow, anyway he has been staying home all day watching tv, and when i get home instead of him wanting to be with me he wants to watch tv. I have to get home and do the bed, laundry etc.. I love him so much and im always telling him that i love him, im always hugging him etc. and he tells me that im bothering him, I feel so sad because after i got pregnant i have to ask him for sex, because he doesnt even initiate it anymore! I feel useless. last night he screamed at me for having a talk with him, i started shaking and crying uncontrolably, i cried all night. He blames me for what goes wrong, for him not being able to grow fnancially beacuse he says that If I would have taught him how to speak more english he would have a better life, i feel so depressed

2007-12-23 00:47:44 · 13 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are no longer together and she is indian with her permanant residence visa now. shes struggling with the payments and Im afraid if she were to lets say dissapear back to her parents in india, because im her legally married husband is the mortgage debt going to fall on my head? the mortgage is in her name only. Am I liable for the mortgage if she were to defer? thanks

2007-12-23 00:41:16 · 20 answers · asked by Humble Bee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am almost leaving school and will be 18 next august......i want to tell a teacher that i like him.....(probably closer to the time i leave) we talk about anything together and he is such a nice guy. But i do not want to start a relationship or anything with him until i leave....because i don't want him to get fired!! i know that he doesn't have a girlfriend....he's single and lives alone.

what should i do? any suggestions?

2007-12-23 00:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

surname when you got married?

2007-12-23 00:38:17 · 29 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 in Weddings

ive been married 9 years and together 15 my daughters friend has started to come round weve known her since she was born shes 13 now and around most weekends as she says she is bored my husbands in his 40s it it normal that he messes around with her like playing games (not the sexual playing around ) she torments him and plays last hit etc is this just something some teenagers do and am i reading more into it please help

2007-12-23 00:36:20 · 24 answers · asked by unsure about anything 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please help me..

tis is my situation.. ive been waiting for a girl for 2 years.. she likes me bt because of work committments, we cant be together..

she likes me..

bt i cant wait no more.. each time i feel that sme1 else myt take her instead 1st..

wat woud u do??

2007-12-23 00:31:56 · 14 answers · asked by Zak Z 1 in Singles & Dating

They say they want to get marry but when it has been 4yrs . I feel like i am wasting my time with him. I decieded to give him one more year before i throw in the towel.

2007-12-23 00:29:25 · 17 answers · asked by vivi010571 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-23 00:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by meow 1 in Singles & Dating

plz help be pplzzzzzz

2007-12-23 00:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by b4u_mayank 2 in Friends

How can i stop being so selfishly absorbed in my own life and enjoy spending this christmas with my family? how do i stop thinking about the guy i'm in love with and make the most of the time i have with my family (these days i rarely see my family anyway so why can't i appreciate the little time i do have with them?) help me!!

2007-12-23 00:27:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-23 00:12:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a 20 year old lady. I strongly believe that I have found my soulmate. I really love this man with true love.

2007-12-23 00:05:00 · 21 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I know where he is (Europe. He's an engineer and a writer.) But he wants me to fly out there to see him since it's easier than him getting a visa to come here. I don't think I'm interested for very personal reasons.

Anyone relate to this? Anyone go through with meeting their long lost father?

2007-12-23 00:03:39 · 22 answers · asked by Entropy is for sheep 3 in Family