we are both 14 and we loove eachother very much. and i just want to make this last as long as it can. maybe till were 18. i dont want any comments that say it wont last cause that makes me feel worse
i just want some date ideads and fun things to do together
2007-12-23 01:14:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm you could think of a few ways you could go and see him because if you love him you would want to see him.. and otherwise have convo's on the phone and on the internet...
and also.. I cant say it wont last long because i dont know either of you and if you truly love him i believe you ;)
Good luck hun!
2007-12-23 01:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by ESL1016 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule # 1: There is no looooove at the age of 14.
Rule # 2: Never ask for an answer that you don't want the truth to. Old Rule - Truth Hurts. Deal with it.
Now to help you, if you want this long distance relationship to work for a while (let's be more realistic than 18 tho) then the key thing is to keep trust in the relationship. How long of a distance are we talking? How often do you plan on seeing him if he's far away? Only things I can think of you two doin if you're long distance is phone chat, internet chat, snail mail, and sending updated pictures. Other than that, i'm not sure whatever else you can do. The question is too vague.
2007-12-23 01:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by King L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think anyone WANTS to have a long distance relationship. Life happens and gets in the way, you just have to work around it. If someone wants to be with their long distance BF or GF enough/or they love them enough, they will move to where the other person is and quit the long distance thing. Those people who have relationships over the internet or out of state "just because" are probably wasting their time. Long distance relationships wont last if there isnt commitment.
2016-05-26 00:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long distance it is? But I understand why you want to make it last as long as you can if you feel you are right for eachother. love has no age.
fun date ideas:
baking cookies, ice skating, movies, bowling, mini-golf, sledding, go for a walk, go out for dinner, play with younger siblings, volunteer together, family events, sports, go out with other friends... movies, bowling, sporting event.
If the relationship is really long distance and you dont see eachother that much. The only advice i have for you is to live your life, have fun, and try not to get jealous or upset if you don't talk to eachother EVERY day. It will drive you crazy. This is both of your time to have fun, you can still include eachother in your lives, but don't forget your friends and your happiness.
goodluck!! =)
2007-12-23 01:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Julia K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well if you really love each other than dont mind people who say it wont work cause , trust me theres ALOT of people who will say that , i must admit your pretty young but hey my distance relationship started at 14 too haha and its still going ! but anyway the most imporant thing here is that u know that the person is whot they say they are and u trust them and ur actually planing on being together cause im moving soon for my bf, sooo lol u need to think is it something u really want ! is yes go for it but yeah date ideas hmm...i have no idea to say the truth lol but get to know eachother better
and good luck <3
2007-12-23 01:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine you communicate by email, phone etc? Be attentive, listen carefully, ask about their lives, their wants and desires. Send love letters each day or each week.
You can only make it what you are given.
I remember mine, from 39 years ago, Ralph in Ohio. Who knows what happened. After a year, we just stopped communicating.
Good Luck! Merry Christmas
2007-12-23 01:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT'S AN "IDEADS"?
AT 14 THE FARTHER AWAY FROM EACH OTHER, THE BETTER.
CONCENTRATE ON YOUR EDUCATION, ESPECIALLY GRAMMER AND SPELLING.
2007-12-23 01:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by SCOTT FREE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fair enough.
well... iceskating, beach, concert>lyk a local gig..
go see a game> preferably a sport they love...
spontaneous dates are the better ones i say
2007-12-23 01:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by wil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only fourteen years old ! what? secondly, honey nothing last forever and nothing is perfect! you cannot predict what is going to happen! stay focus on school
2007-12-23 01:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure take your times..it will work out fine..promiss
2007-12-23 01:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by virgowatersnake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋