please help me..
tis is my situation.. ive been waiting for a girl for 2 years.. she likes me bt because of work committments, we cant be together..
she likes me..
bt i cant wait no more.. each time i feel that sme1 else myt take her instead 1st..
wat woud u do??
2007-12-23 00:31:56 · 14 answers · asked by Zak Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i were you i would just find some one else and forget her (2Years) are too much, just relax and go to bar tonight , find another girl and start a new life
enjoy l*-*l
2007-12-23 00:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww!your situation is really difficult,2years is pretty a long period...
why can't u be together because of work?that's unfair,andi guess if she really likes you back she would the impossibe to be with you,WHATEVER!!
well,try not to stay at work after your work time,try to avoid seeing her or passing by her,avoid her friends...and everything related to her.
put in mind that u gotta forget her,and try to understand that's just a waste of time,make new relations,try to find someone else,it's not that hard,trust me when you put in mind that u hav to forget someone,it doesn't take much to do it even though u love them to much.
i cud forget my ex even though we have been together for a long time,but i know our love is impossible,i wish u got what i meant.
she might have someone else in her life,she might be in love or something like...
take her out of your mind ur gonna waste so many chances,u might loose the love of your life waiting,put in mind there are other ppl who beg being with u but u don't give them a chance.
good luck!
2007-12-23 13:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Hiba Ahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you two truly love each other like u say u do. Work Commitments wont matter.
Tell her how you feel if she feels the same continue then get a relationship start if she doesn't MOVE ON! =]
I'M PRETTY SURE SHE DOES DOW
2007-12-23 08:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by LostTeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said she "likes" you , but does she "love" you. if she is too busy to commit to you she would be too busy to commit to someone else. I'd suggest to find someone who would give up their entire world to be with you.. Soul mates aren't that rare I can fall in love 100 times just going to the grocery store. As for me . I love my girlfriend, but sometimes i don't like her. She had commitments, in example .. we lived 100 miles away and she was in divorce with 3 kids, she didn't want to take the kids away from home as they were once foster kids who her and her ex later adopted, and she didn't have the heart to take them out of the house so her ex got the majority of the custody, but we worked around those commitments by her and I both making sacrifices. I sacrificed my home, sold it to be closer to her , so she could still be close to her kids, after 6 years her kids moved in with us.. It takes sacrifice to make something work today , relationship take work , time , and effort
2007-12-23 08:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by nonya b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know your always going to be there for her even if you do have to wait, that's what love is you can't move on just like that. It's hard to get over someone when you've liked them for that long, good luck =] xx
2007-12-23 08:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and meet someone else, so that if in the end you can't have her then it won't feel like your whole world is crashing down on you. that would hurt more than slowly letting her go now.
or just tell her and let her know how serious you are about this!
2007-12-23 08:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to meet new people and find someone special. Take your time and you will be fine. Just let you know from your heart that you really want to forget her
2007-12-23 08:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say out of sight out of mind helps but since you say you guys work together you might wanna try dating somebody outside of your work to take your mind off of her.
2007-12-23 08:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diffcult to forget but time will fade her memories....try dating some other girl....
2007-12-23 21:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by moonswamy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until the right time comes.
2007-12-23 09:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by caloonpop_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋