Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

After being together for 5 years, married for almost 4, with four kids total between us (hers, mine, ours situation), I am still totally infatuated with my wife. Honestly, I still think she is the most beautiful, sexy woman she was when we first met. I hate to say, but she has gained weight, doesn't do the same things we used to do, and we don't get near as much time to ourselves, but no matter what, I still look at her every day and stand in awe. She thinks this is completely odd, but is not complaining. Others think I am just doing this as an overcompensation.

I just thought I would put it out there and see if this was an odd thing or do others agree. Even if it is odd, I don't care, I always liked being the weird one :)

2007-12-23 07:50:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was chatting online and had become bored with my relationship and started talking hot and heavy and talking badly about my boyfriend online with these people and he found some of the logs and this happened almost a year ago and and things were fine up until 3 months ago and now he says he went every weekend and read the logs and it hurt him bad and he has no trust for me and treats me terrible. He has been sleeping on the couch for three months. Please help I don't know what to do????????????? I love him so much.

2007-12-23 07:45:57 · 13 answers · asked by newhampshirewoman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She claims she loves me but she is mean, bitchy, negative, nasty, controlling, takes anti-depressants, comes from a broken home and is terrible at sex (she was sexually abused as a child). However she cooks great, has a perfect 10 killer body and is a neonatologist earning $135K an year. My friends all tell me bite the bullet and go for it. The rationale being it's better to be married, miserable and rich than married, miserable and poor.

2007-12-23 07:43:52 · 31 answers · asked by jessica_simpson_is_dumb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl and I asked her out 3 times and she says no.so i ask her why she wont go out with me and she says "your to inmature and i really love but she still says no. Help me and Thank You.

2007-12-23 07:40:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thank you to all of you who have encouraged me during this difficult year with my swine of a husband. He's been banned from the local pub,lol! There was an incident with "squirting" ?? God knows what that's about, he won't tell me. Anyway, hope you all have a very merry Christmas x

2007-12-23 07:38:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-23 07:37:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 07:35:26 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-23 07:35:23 · 20 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Family

Okay me and my husband of 6 years have a joint account together. He just sold one of our trucks and I put the money in the account. Well I used 700.00 for bills and presents. Then my husband took out 300.00 to buy some gifts and extra things for himself. When he looked at the account he called me and said that I owe him $1000.00. ANd that I need to pay him back. Now mind you I AM THE BREAD WINNER IN THE HOUSE!!!! I make $5 more an hour then he does. Is this right that he does this to me??? I just want to walk away from this marriage. But I have two boys with him and we are pregnant again with another child.

2007-12-23 07:33:17 · 20 answers · asked by Proud Mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so i have my best friend and she has a boyfriend and they have been togather for about a month.
well, me and her boyfriend are also best friends.
but.. i think i have a crush on him.
whenever i get sad i can only think of him, hes the only one i want to talk to, and he always makes me cheer up.
but i keep talking myself out of liking him because he is my best friend's boyfriend.
and it would be SO wrong to take him away from her.
but they both rele like eachother.
and i dont even know if he likes me!
but i mean hes rele nice to me and talks to me all the time and we try to hang out as much as possible.
i just dont know what to do.
(we are 13 by the way!)

2007-12-23 07:32:12 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I ordered a CD from HEB yesterday and I hope to receive it in time by Christmas. How long does it usually take?

2007-12-23 07:31:48 · 2 answers · asked by Geekzor 2 in Singles & Dating

GUYS IVE SEEN THIS MANY TIMES YOU GUYS INSULT PEOPLES OWN OPINIONS ITS KINDA RUDE!!!! WHOS WITH ME?

2007-12-23 07:30:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Some boy I talked to outside of school, rather friendly and flirty inside school too told me, "It may be socially looked down upon to talk to you, but I don't care." (I said ouch) and he replied with "jk". His friends dont really like me and I think they told him to stop, hence when I told him my feelings towards him he freaked out and acts super mean towards me as if he was offended. His friends are super popular too.

I wonder if five years from now people like him, ponder mistakes they make like that. Do you?

2007-12-23 07:27:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, me and my fiance worked at the same place, I thought it would be cute, since we're almost always together, and we could also be partners. But recently, he is annoyed for some reason, and so am I, I'm thinking probably, he's afraid that I might beat him at ranks, or might get a promotion higher than him, but then again , I'm just guessing. I tried to talk to him, but he always ignore it when I bring up that topic. How would you feel if your spouse worked at the same place as you? Oh yeah, one more thing, I can't quit my job, I love it.

2007-12-23 07:26:43 · 6 answers · asked by jenny 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What is your sexual fantisy involving only one woman?
I want to know mens oppions mostly, but I don't care if women answer too.
and also, any ideas on how to "be" sexy, would be good.
I think my husband is getting bord of me, and I need ideas.
I'm not saying that he is cheating, 'cause I don't think he is. Just bored.
any real ideas would really help.
Thanks

2007-12-23 07:24:57 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been messing around a lot.
and he told me that he really likes it when i get mean, and tie him up and stuff.
he is completely serious, and really does like it a lot.

and suggestions for things that i should do that he would really like ?

thanks.

2007-12-23 07:23:51 · 5 answers · asked by ellie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 07:22:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do I tell one of my best guy friends that I like him? He got out of a messy break up about a month ago, but they only went out for 4 days, but long story short his gf slept with his best friend. Anyways I know that he likes me he told my best friend he did, and we flirt all of the time and he is all over me, but I am shy and I don't have the courage to make the first move, but I know that I have to, or something might never happen because he is leaving in five months. I just don't know if I should wait on him or do I tell him, and how I tell him if I do. PLEASE HELP ME I am having a nervous break down...

2007-12-23 07:22:31 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf left me for another gurl, i feel soo bad, and i am so mad at him, cause i expect him to apologize to me and come back but he doesnt seem to care, do guys usually come back after leaving their gurls?, this my first bf even though am 20, i have never hurt him or done anything bad to him, will he come back?

2007-12-23 07:21:01 · 37 answers · asked by shatha f 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl for so long, but when i kissed her while we were 'together', (not officially dating), i didnt feel as much excitement as i wanted to...i know if you kiss them and dont feel nothing, you should move on, and probably be meant as friends, but i dont want that...i know inside, i really like her, and i dont want to lose her over a kiss that didnt mean anything to me, because we have so much in common.... when had our first date, i didnt want to kiss her, because i didnt want to rush it unlike during our hangouts....what should i do...and none of the "move on/it wasnt meant to be stuff"...i know there is a way, i just need help finding it.....it is because im in denial that i kissed her, or i rushed it when we werent officially bf and gf....serious answers plz, no sex comments either...

2007-12-23 07:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

i tould the guy that i like that i really like him and wanted to go out with him and he said that he doesnt know me enough. some of my frinds say that he might not be able to date. my other frinds say that i should talk to him more what do you think it means?

2007-12-23 07:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by Barbara L 1 in Singles & Dating

Boyfriend and I were discussing the upcoming wedding of a mutual friend. (I'm going to be one of her bridesmaids). I was telling him how wedding clothes run smaller then regular clothes (ie: friend wears about a size four in regular clothes, but almost a size eight in wedding dress).

He asked what size I wear in regular clothes (size 14) but I wouldn't tell him.

So he goes, "That's okay baby, just subtract about four sizes from it and plan on getting your wedding dress in that size".

I felt insulted and said, "Why don't YOU plan on gaining four suit sizes for your tuxedo" and he told me, "We both know my body is more than adequate and its' going to just get better over time. Stop trying to make me feel inadequate".

2007-12-23 07:19:51 · 46 answers · asked by Original_Syn 6 in Weddings

Just wondering if romance is dead. Help me see it isn't :)

2007-12-23 07:19:20 · 1 answers · asked by Trin 2 in Singles & Dating

So if a relative dies and you remember how bad this relative was. You remember how much they abused you as a child and how they planned to make your family suffer. Would you attend their funeral? Would it be wrong not to attend a bad relatives' funeral? What do you think?

Thanks

2007-12-23 07:17:15 · 17 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family

any choices? which one hurts more? cany anybody help?

2007-12-23 07:12:32 · 16 answers · asked by mike 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 07:09:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a woman who really intregues me. I have dated women before but none have captivated me as much as she.She is like no other female that i have dated, Yet i feel as though she does not really care weather i call her or not. I am an open person so if i am thinking something i usually say it. And if i am misunderstould i try to convey my true feelings on the subject. But i do not want to frighten her away.She reflects the parts of me that i like about myself And i like who i am when i am with her.But i sense a barrier around her that consciously keeps me at a distance . Could this be true should I pursue ? Or should i give her space.(FEMALES ANSWERS ONLY)

2007-12-23 07:07:26 · 2 answers · asked by jjjaaammm 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering how many people are right now wishing they where single and married not single to run off with a boyfriend or girlfriend I am talking about someone who is married and rather be alone period!

2007-12-23 07:07:25 · 12 answers · asked by lisalisa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

that you want too look stunning .more than the other 364 days of the year .

2007-12-23 07:06:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

liked their best friend's girl friend? i really like her and i dont know what to do. it kills me everyday not to have her. if this has happened to you, please tell me what to do. i had many times to ask her out and i blew them all. i wanna know how to deal with this.

2007-12-23 07:05:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating