ok, so i have my best friend and she has a boyfriend and they have been togather for about a month.
well, me and her boyfriend are also best friends.
but.. i think i have a crush on him.
whenever i get sad i can only think of him, hes the only one i want to talk to, and he always makes me cheer up.
but i keep talking myself out of liking him because he is my best friend's boyfriend.
and it would be SO wrong to take him away from her.
but they both rele like eachother.
and i dont even know if he likes me!
but i mean hes rele nice to me and talks to me all the time and we try to hang out as much as possible.
i just dont know what to do.
(we are 13 by the way!)
2007-12-23 07:32:12 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were u and the guy best friends before he and the girl started dating?
2007-12-23 07:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Short Start 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Tricky Situation There....
Try Talking To Your Mate (The Girl) About It And Just Basically Tell Her Whats Going On And You'd Never Take Him Away From Her...
Try It...Its Wierd How People React So Pleasently To Things Like This...
Good Luck :)
2007-12-23 07:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can really do if you don't want to be the evil relationship wrecker.
Relationships like this rarely last for more than a few months. Just hang out, wait for it too bust up and then take your shot. Your friend won't be able to complain as much then. Best luck.
2007-12-23 07:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take your best friend's happiness away. You wouldn't be a very good friend if you did. I know it's hard to like someone who is taken by your best friend. That happened to me once. But I knew my friend was happy and I wanted her to stay happy so I didn't say anything and I let them be. And you are still young so you will have plenty of time to find someone for you that will make you really happy. I can assure you that you will like more guys.
2007-12-23 07:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by *Dreamer* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be scandelous and ruining friendships over boys that you will joke about a few years from now. You have a "crush", you even said it. What is more important to you, your friends (both him AND her) or some boy that you aren't going to marry. Be young, have fun, find your own boy to pass notes to and hold hands. There will be plenty of time for all of that drama later in life.
2007-12-23 07:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by ihti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can't really BE taken away from other people; they leave or stay by their own choosing.That said, you're right to try to focus on someone else who is available to avoid wasting your own time and damaging your friendships in the process. Life is funny at times, and you may wind up together later on, but for now set your sights elsewhere for your own peace of mind. Good luck to you, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-23 07:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably not worry too much about it because you're only 13 and you honestly won't care about this guy in 5 years so it's not worth the possibility of losing a friend.
My friends are still here, my boyfriends aren't.
2007-12-23 07:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Antonia Eden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could always wait until they brake up and then ask him if he likes u. Or u can always Just give up on him. It's not worth it for u to ruin ur friendship for a boy. Guys come and go , but best friends are forever.
2007-12-23 07:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I know you like this guy but even if your best friend breaks up with him DON'T DATE HIM. I dated my best friends ex-boyfriend before and we ended up fighting in the hall. Also, ask him if he likes you, if not, just move on, I'm sure there are other guys waiting for you out there. You just have to look.
Good Luck!
2007-12-23 07:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mkeys927 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13's too young to have a boyfriend
It's not even real to have a boyfriend when you are 13...Just saying hi to each other in the halls...It's not like you can go out to dinner alone when you're 13
Wait until high school, then start to think about going out with someone.
2007-12-23 07:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by L B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13, there should not be this much drama in your life. Your friends come first. ALWAYS. You will realize this more and more as you grow up. A girl friend can be for life...boy friends come and go.
2007-12-23 07:36:21 · answer #11 · answered by duffie_1999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋