Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

would you be happy if your husband pampered your feet for a whole evening? a pedicure, massage, kissing, the works?

2007-12-23 22:45:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me start off by saying that I'm not a hairy guy to begin with, but I do shave and trim my pubic hair when it get too long. I dread shaving because I always get red bumps from irritation no matter how gentle I am. Are there any products out there that you can simply apply to remove hair? Or is the only other alternative waxing? Please help. Thank you!

2007-12-23 22:43:22 · 14 answers · asked by Randy 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-23 22:41:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 22:38:53 · 23 answers · asked by T 3 in Singles & Dating

family treats me like I am invisible again even though I nearly died a month ago and I want them to care but no they will not for if they did they would have called me and seen how I was when I was in hospital etc.

I may go-- maybe in error --but want to not let them upset me like I usually do,..how can I anticipate and head off their hurtful behavior and no one giving a darn which is quite apparent to me or how can I let a tiny concern they might show for a second be enough and get out of their before I cry for the 8th Christmas in a row,,if I decided not to go, how could I not offend my sister and how could I get out of it. (that is a reasonable excuse)

2007-12-23 22:33:35 · 9 answers · asked by janie 7 in Family

2007-12-23 22:33:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We've discussed the wedding several times but now, the tricky question has arised. I am from Detroit and he is From Maryland, however both of us live in the Massachusetts area. My family lives further away from Massachusetts than his family. He only has a few family members to invite, whereas I have many family members and friends to invite and most of them are closer to Michigan. Where should the wedding be that would be fair for the both of us? We are discussing between Boston and Detroit. If the wedding is in Boston, his family can do a one day trip, rent 1 car and leave the same day to head home, whereas if my family had to come to Boston, they would have to stay at least one night, book at least 12-15 hotel rooms, and rent a charter bus. I want to be fair. Any suggestions, comments?

2007-12-23 22:19:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was just wondering if anyone else is so ticklish that just the lightest touch of almost ANYTHING soft tickles like crazy?

Here is me (and this is the honest to God truth!). You know how all humans lose some hairs from their head each day that are dead & meant to come out (hence the reason they are called loose hairs)? Well, every time I'm washing my hair in the shower & I lose a few loose hairs, as I have my arms stretched up above my head as I'm washing my hair, some of my loose hairs stick to the sides of my body & although it's not enough to send me into a fit or anything, it still tickles like crazy & I can't help giggling. I have to hurry up & spray them off, LOL! Also, sometimes when I'm relaxing in a nice, warm bubble bath, some air bubbles that got trapped under my back when I lay down stroke up my sides & up my spine as they come to the surface. It really tickles & again, I can't help jumping at the lightest touch. My friends tease me about it all the time, LOL!

2007-12-23 22:15:45 · 5 answers · asked by highland_white_wolf 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am really p..sed of with women who only want me to shag them. It seems to happen almost every time I go out. All I want is a date with a nice bird have a couple of drinks and maybe a meal but when I put them in a cab they seem to get all testy so I have to go the full monty. Don't birds ever think of anything else?

2007-12-23 22:13:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to live as Ghar Jamai.
Is it will be good for me and my wife?
Where I can find this type of proposal?

2007-12-23 22:11:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been overewieght since i met my husband. But we fell in love n married. But he doesn't find me sexy. I bought sexy underwear for our wedding night and week..which he didnt even notice! He never kisses my body..and tries not to even touch me when im naked. I have huge boobs..and he wouldn't go near them either.When I asked him about all this, he said he didn't like bib boobs! He likes little pert ones.After this he reassured me loved me and tried to give my boobs more attention! Then I catch him on the net looking at porn...skinny girls....and teenagers! As if I dont feel ugly enough. Before I met him, I felt sexy n gorgeous. Now i feel that Im an ugly wife. I dont act on my sexual urges because i think inside me will just be laughing at my ugly body...or be feeling disgusted with me. I dont know what to do..or how to feel. Iv told him all this, but i got no empathy.At times i love him....but inside i am so hurt and angry that he's killed the sexy woman inside of me. Any advice?

2007-12-23 22:09:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I usually have a great time together, but sometimes I will get upset at things. I will get angry if he ask a question... and it is not him it is other people to. If he ask a question, no matter what it is, sometimes I will get really angry and yell an answer and sometimes I wont.

I don't know why I am so angry for no reason. It happens pretty often with my boyfriend and also other people. I was really rude to this one lady at this resturant for no reason, but then later in the day I was just fine and not yelling.

Does anyone know why this would be?

2007-12-23 22:08:04 · 1 answers · asked by Follow-the-narrow-gate 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's been so long since the man I am married to made me feel alive. He is a good provider. All of the *things* I could want are around me. My children are well taken care of and happy. But, it's been nearly 6 years since he has acted like I am a human being. I am alone in my house. The last time we had sex, he stopped...mid-everything....and said that he was tired. I have become my OWN best friend in bed...I love someone...but that's a sad situation too...I guess I just wanted to know...is this really all I have to look forward to? YES, I have tried talking to him, seeing a counselor, etc. I take VERY good care of myself and look FAR younger than most women my age. (My 18 y.o. daughter and I get hit on by the same guys!!) I have tried being more *assertive* and *adventurous*...but, I guess I gave up and figured I would just wait it all out until the end. I guess my vows never said anything about him touching me...

2007-12-23 22:07:35 · 15 answers · asked by SG68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love her and she says she loves me, but she's got a boyfriend and she lives with him. She tells me she can't leave because if she breaks up with him he'll kick her out and she doesn't have the finances to handle that at the moment.

I can't do anything about this because I still live with my parents and I just started college, so she can't exactly move in with me. I'm 18, she's 23, and my parents are having trouble just accepting the age difference, though they're trying. Haven't told them about her boyfriend- never will.

At first, things weren't so bad, but tonight she told me that she thought we should take a break until she could leave him because she felt terrible for cheating and for me being forced to know we're not exclusive. That fact bothers me, yes, but I don't want to live without her even for that "break". It scares me.

On one hand, I don't want to think of us as "just friends". Ever. On the other hand, I don't like having her feel guilty because of me. Advice?

2007-12-23 22:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend likes to spend alot of time online in different chat rooms chatting with women who he will sometimes meet in person and on more than one occasion, has brought over while I am at work or at school which I have asked him not to do but he says these women are friends, I should trust him and to mind my own business. What should I do?

2007-12-23 21:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by Special D 1 in Singles & Dating

With All of my relationships that I have ever Had , I always got Love letters , but yes I was young then . I have been married for 9 years and with him for 15yrs. And I have never gotten A love letter from him. The only thing that would even come close was a few sticky notes that said he loved me and wants to be with me forever. Now just to give you and Idea , HE Dosen't have A romantic bone in his Body , well he trys so hard to , but he said it makes him fell embarresd, oowww. He is A sweety , and I love him so Much and he would do anything for me and our 2 kids. AS A matter of fact my forst child I had at 16yrs old , and he met me when she was only 2 weeks old and he was only 18yrs old , and he stuck by my side and heres , asaA matter of fact she has no idea he is not her real dady. he loves her. He has worked his tail off for us , and he lets me stay home , because he knows im sick. So here is what I want to KNOW I Ask himm always to write one but he wont. What should I do.

2007-12-23 21:56:04 · 12 answers · asked by Home Is Where The Heart Is 4 in Singles & Dating

My dads cousin is about 45 or so. I'm 23 anyway he has cruelly picked on me since i was 8 or so. Everytime i see him the attacks get more & more intense. Now he yells at me, says horrible things about my mother and threatens me. I get so scared by being around him. I seriously haven't done anything to offend him, I like darker music and that's a major problem with him. HE's a super christian and anybody who doesn't beleive the way he does is evil. I'm a nice person and try to always be one. He's a heavy drinker and a serious momma's boy and he's always mean.

2007-12-23 21:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-23 21:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by Lindylu 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am going through a daforce, here is the kicker. i cant get her out of the house and i am the only one whats on the note. she is running late on the payments and has killed my credit. she put a restring order on me and said a whole bunch of things that arnt true, i pay my chils support on time and every time wich is 1400 a month, she got rid of all my guns and hunting clothes. got rid of my lap top, i cant see my kids, they think i just left them, can the judges see through any of the bs. or do we just count on being done wrong? how can i get her out of my house so i can sell it?

2007-12-23 21:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-23 21:51:02 · 42 answers · asked by Sanj 1 in Singles & Dating

it keept happening since i was young and it's happened ever since..every single night..only not the same topic...

2007-12-23 21:50:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he dumped me because, we are too different, and that he wasnt ready for a relationship and he dont lvoe me no more :'(


we was together for over a year which is long, he was my first for everything!
and i was his first for everything!

and he says he doesnt love me nor wants to be friends with me

im so upset cos im IN Love with him and being without him hurts like ****!


will he come back later in the year?

will he realise that differences doesnt matter

what should i do except move on :'(


i just want him back in my life


please help!

2007-12-23 21:48:23 · 16 answers · asked by St*r 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok guys, I'm really curious what does the, "I'm not ready to be in a relationship," mean? I mean if you're spending alot of time with someone and really like them, would this "line" even matter?

Does it mean this person won't give you a chance and you should forget about it? or does this mean the timing is just bad and they'll come around?

I'd really like to hear the honest perspective of those who've said this or have heard it before.

Thanks

2007-12-23 21:44:00 · 15 answers · asked by Kate 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 21:40:42 · 4 answers · asked by leo 1 in Singles & Dating

My BF cheated on me a few mths ago n the song I was hooked on was "Take A Bow" by Madonna.. Its so old school but I love this lyric

"I've always been in love with u... I guess you've always known its true... you took my love for granted"....

What's your fave breakup song?

2007-12-23 21:36:08 · 13 answers · asked by ♥aman-duh leigh♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I meet an attractive woman, I have the tendency to chase her even though I have a girl friend. The funny thing is that the new woman always gets attracted by me, and we will start dating. I then will end up either dumping my exisiting girl friend or hiding the new girl. What's wrong with me?

2007-12-23 21:31:38 · 10 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Singles & Dating

Because i do it quite often but i do it just for fun and blow it in their face later on that it's a farce just to see their reaction.Wot do u ppl think?

2007-12-23 21:28:26 · 10 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 21:22:50 · 9 answers · asked by kingg 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me few months ago. It was hard break up cos I didnt want to break up. He didnt want to continue our long-distance relationship and ended it. But he kept contacting me telling me he finds it hard, he misses me. He was angry when I told him that the only way I can get over this is to stop contact.We met twice since the break up, it was very nice but each time he left, he said as long as we are in long-distance, we cant be together. It was always so hard to see him, to be with him and then seeing him go again. month ago, he contacted me againg saying he finds it hard and he still loves me. I felt the same but then he said we cannot be together because the situation is still the same. I told him I must close the door as its too hard as I still love him. But he sent me email 2 days ago saying he finds it hard, he misses me and is not sure he wants to move on. He doesnt want me to think he doesnt want me anymore. Wanted to wish me Merry Xmas. I didnt reply yet.

2007-12-23 21:21:27 · 13 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfreind want me to loose wait for him pls tel me how to do that

2007-12-23 21:19:54 · 6 answers · asked by Naja 1 in Singles & Dating