Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

So there is this boy and i really really like him a lot. im not sure if he likes me back though. but it wierd because we kinda talk like on aim but not on the fone. i havent told him i like him but my bestfriend told me he already knows. but im not to sure because even though we always flirt(at least it seems like it to me) im not sure how he feels about me or what i should do next. plz HELP ME!!!!

2007-12-23 20:19:48 · 15 answers · asked by baby_gurl_ace 1 in Singles & Dating

too little to sit on his own and eat then. I'm really worried she's going to do it again this year, since she's bought an even smaller table than she had last year. I don't understand WHY she did that since she has 4 kids who are all married and she has 8 grandkids. I'm NOT allowing my kid to eat on the floor, especially HERS because she is a terrible housekeeper. I want to say, "Oh, NO! MY kid is not a dog and can sit in a chair." What should I say so that I don't offend anyone and start WW3?

2007-12-23 20:19:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

people tell me i'm beautiful on the inside but why do guys never see that? =(

should i just give up forever?

2007-12-23 20:18:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

was either

a) a very nice, sweet person but became a very rude, nasty person

OR

b) a very bitter, mean, unfriendly person who became a sweet, nice person

What's your story with that person? Was it for no reason or from a traumatic event?

2007-12-23 20:18:01 · 5 answers · asked by Dusk 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you like facial hair on a guy or just clean cut???

2007-12-23 20:16:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or would a feather duster do?

2007-12-23 20:15:56 · 9 answers · asked by 5 star 3 in Singles & Dating

well theres this one guy i really like hes a year older than me but thats ok i guess? so like he knows i like him but then i feel like he doesnt like me and my friends keep saying that they have a "feeling" that he likes me but you never know that "feeling" might be wrong but i also noticed he keeps looking my way and he keeps smiling to himself o.0. He also started hanging around wit his friend at my grade hallway. He does notice me but then i have him on msn as well and he's written something like i miss her and it has something else written like for "......(someones name) read this msg" or something like that but that girl is already taken by someone else so im really confused here if he likes someone or if hes just writting that for well iono fun or something and thats written on his msn name so please help me and does he even like me or do i even have a chance and what can i do to make him like me some of my friends are helping me to try and make him like me and i am getting to

2007-12-23 20:15:46 · 3 answers · asked by ohsofresh! 2 in Singles & Dating

she's your ex, would you kiss her even if you didn;t feel anything for her??

2007-12-23 20:14:14 · 15 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

my bff, her boyfrid moved way AWAY (to Korea) and she hopeing they can still be together, but i'm worried it wont work so what do you think.

2007-12-23 20:13:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have recently started seeing this girl whom i love. but tonight i went out with friends and she called me i said i would call back in 30 min but forgot cause of all the booze ppl where buing me. she sent me a txt saying not to do that again i replyed saying i was sorry and tred calling her to no avail. now i love this girl what should i do to make this right in her eyes

2007-12-23 20:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by 86fire 1 in Singles & Dating

told you that:

He wants separation and he has been talking with another woman on the phone for 2 months and has affection towards her even though they have no dating. He is physical/mental collapsed towards existing marriage and he want a new life.

2007-12-23 20:08:51 · 21 answers · asked by TT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-23 20:08:38 · 6 answers · asked by ADITHYA G 1 in Friends

I started dating one of my friends soon after he & his GF broke up. I was ready-don't think he truly was. Things were great for a while..until he got back with her behind my back. He lied and lied-& one day he got caught. This all of course happens after I find out I'm pregnant. I had a miscarriage though. We didn't talk for about a week but I missed him despite it all. He is back with her & somehow I have found myself being the other girl & sneaking around. I hate it-& its not fair to me. YET I love him. I can't imagine not having him. But he's so flirty w/other women when we go out-& he recently has been hangin out with my so called best friend behind my back. She says he asked her sister out on a date when i was there int he other room. he says no. they sing very diff tunes..who do i believe-i think they are both shady. He doesn't see how patient I have been. Ive also spent alot $ on him. i feel that he cares-but also think hes a scumbag for doing this to me&her.tell me how to fixit

2007-12-23 20:08:34 · 14 answers · asked by Michelle Bell 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, I and my bf have been together for two years. Every xmas day, in those two years, we always spent it at his mom's to have dinner and little party and such (his parents divorced but still are good friends). and every thanksgiving we spent it at his dad's. He always spent it that way before he is with me. On xmas, he goes with me and my parents to church in the morning. I was just thinking about celebrating xmas with him and my parents a whole day long on a trip or something, but I was worried that his mom would freak out and think that I steal her xmas thing with her son. My bf is fine, he is more than willing to do it, but i just dont want to make his mom sad and think that way. but i also think that if she freaks out and gets upset, it would be very selfish of her since my parents never really had a chance to have a good time together with both of us. what do you guys think?

2007-12-23 20:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by ViTheDuck 2 in Family

2007-12-23 20:04:15 · 13 answers · asked by Alessandra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-23 20:03:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have to drive from providence, ri, to new britain, ct, tonight for the get together, but i dont want to. what excuse can i make?

i dont want to buy gifts, i dont like long drives, and i did not buy anything to wear. i'll just go on new years eve.

2007-12-23 19:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you chose one of them, why did you end up choosing the person you did?

2007-12-23 19:56:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its christmas eve 2nite and for my 10month old sons first xmas me and my partner decided that we would spend it at my parents house to save us from having to save my son from the xmas tree. My parents house is 1hrs drive from here and tis now nearly 8pm. I asked my partner to tell his work that he needed to be home early because we had a long trip. He is suppose to finish work at 6ish but never does because his work asks so much of him and i have never complained and this is the one night I wanted him to be home because we never see him and now cause we are going to be so late I told him we cant go to my parents house. The worst thing is my son has nothing here now cause all his presents were picked up today by my stepdad to make my partners life easier. Now my familys christmas is runied and its like my partner doesnt care. Do i have the right to be mad?

2007-12-23 19:56:24 · 7 answers · asked by Jemjems_Mummy 3 in Family

my boyfriend just got a scholarship to play basketball in a new school. i feel like his friends have the power to influence him-i feel like he will cheat on me. he says he only wants to be with me but i have so many fears. i love him but how can i learn to trust him?

2007-12-23 19:56:09 · 3 answers · asked by Tessie89 2 in Singles & Dating

creamy . very mouth watering!

2007-12-23 19:52:36 · 4 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

... well?

2007-12-23 19:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is a guy supposed to ask you to be his girlfriend or do you just assume after a few dates?! When do you know?

2007-12-23 19:48:53 · 7 answers · asked by kl2007 1 in Singles & Dating

as in 20 years ago but the emotional scars still exist is it grounds to leave now? The man in question has not returned to aggressive behaviour but is and has been on anti depressants for many many years is this just blanking the real issues. What advice would you give to a friend married 26 years with this background.....she stayed for the children and has a financially secure life but still there is a discontent.

2007-12-23 19:42:58 · 14 answers · asked by eagledreams 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my father twhen I was 14 . I'm now 27 . I was wondering should I reach out to him in the spirit of forgiveness? I have 2 sons of my own and they have enough grandparents. I would be doing this for me not them...

2007-12-23 19:42:22 · 15 answers · asked by m t 3 in Family

My daughter-in-law and I would like to contact my sons (her husbands) father, they've never met, My son was raised by another man, but is still curious about his biological parent and we believe my son would like to have a relationship with him. We do have his address, we're just not sure what to say when we contact him. He ( the bio parent) is married with two other children, both grown. He paid child support for my son, so the wife does know about my son. Any suggestions?

2007-12-23 19:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by michelleann49684 1 in Family

You all are correct. What I've concluded is that it's either his security or mine. As I said before, I shouldn't have to give up my house to keep my husband. He's not a deadbeat dad, he is paying for our child....fortunately. But I think that I should ask him to take his pick....me or a house with his name on it. What do you all think?

2007-12-23 19:41:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can you have a high sex drive or crave sex when you are still a virgin by all means? How can you crave something without knowing how it feels?

2007-12-23 19:41:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 19:27:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in a tough situation. I had been struggling since 2004. I had a horrible job with a horrible boss. I left the job to then be by my parent’s side. Dad passed away and I remained by mom's side and my granny's side. Both have health problem. After 3 years without working, I’m back on the workforce. I’m working part time. Not the best job but still close enough in my field, Marketing.

I’m still living with mom and helping her out. But it’s out of control. I am flat out used. I barely have time for myself. Just this Sunday, I woke up went shopping with mom. We came back cooked the Christmas meal for the 24th. By the time we were done it was 1am and so I went to feed granny and she was giving me a hard time and didn’t want to be changed. I figured I would take a break, sit down and eat (2:30 am) and then go back finish up with granny.

Mom gets pissed and she is telling to go now take care of granny. Mind you haven’t eaten since i woke up! So i throw my food in the garbage ( I’m to mad to eat). I try to take care of granny she still giving me a hard time and so i go to mom for help. She refuses to come and help me. I'm so pissed and tired of this situation. During the week I work late hours. Mon-Fri I come home at midnight. Only to find no one took care of granny, no one feed her, no one cooked anything for her. But everyone is sitting and chilling.

Am I crazy??? Why is this happening to me? I’m trying not to snap. But a part of me just wants to throw the towel and just jump off some bridge. I’m currently trying to move out. My ticket is an MBA, I pray to go I get accepted because I don’t know what I’m going to do to myself if it doesn't happen. Any advice please?

2007-12-23 19:25:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family