Is a guy supposed to ask you to be his girlfriend or do you just assume after a few dates?! When do you know?
2007-12-23 19:48:53 · 7 answers · asked by kl2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a few dates does not make you a girlfriend. It means you are dating...when you ask him if you are his GF and he says yes or he introduces you as GF then you know.
Don't assume or you will end up looking stupid.
2007-12-23 19:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by emtalex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're supposed to sit down and discuss where you both think this relationship is and where it's going. You need to make sure you're on the same page. Assuming that you're exclusive can lead to a really embarrassing and frustration situation where you accuse him of cheating on you and he doesn't know what you're talking about because as far as he's concerned, he just took you out a few times.
Next time you are out with him, and you're talking about how much fun you're having together. Tell him that you really like him. Tell him you're becoming attached to him and wanted to know if he felt the same way. Then ask confirm with him that you two are "exclusive" now because you'd be very hurt if he started dating someone else now.
2007-12-23 20:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you go out on a few date with him. Then you both talk about how serious you want it to get and if you would be comfortable with being BF/GF. Being BF/GF is not just with some random guy. You have to really know the guy and like him a lot.
2007-12-23 19:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Coop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just be sure AFTER he asks u to be his gf .... a few dates cant tell nething
2007-12-23 19:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You assume.
2007-12-23 19:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait for him to ask you officially or you take the initiative to make him your boyfriend. :)
2007-12-23 19:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by teehee :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asks....or you ask.....my gf and I got together first when she asked me to be her bf.
2007-12-23 20:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Haяd woяking guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋