So there is this boy and i really really like him a lot. im not sure if he likes me back though. but it wierd because we kinda talk like on aim but not on the fone. i havent told him i like him but my bestfriend told me he already knows. but im not to sure because even though we always flirt(at least it seems like it to me) im not sure how he feels about me or what i should do next. plz HELP ME!!!!
2007-12-23 20:19:48 · 15 answers · asked by baby_gurl_ace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GURL, I know how you feel. I'm in the same mess as you. Just talk to him. Take a chance. If you don't tell him how you feel, some other girl might snatch him up. On the other hand, if he doesn't like you, move on, there's plenty of more men- don't spend your time on a guy who doesn't like you.
2007-12-23 20:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by BOOOOOO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't act as tho you like him, but do greet him with a smile and say Hi when you make eye contact. But keep walkin.' Unless he stops you for a minute or two. Then move on.
Let him be the one to pursue you and start the "flirty talk." Challenge him in a "playful" way by arguing with him about nothing in particular. Just take the opposite point of view. If he says he's for the Red Team, then you say, you're for the Blue Team. The next day, if he says he for the Blue Team, then you say you're for the Red Team. lol Just be mischievous and ornery, just b/c you can. He'll think that you are fun to be with, mysterious and never boring.
2007-12-23 20:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask for his phone number and offer yours.
As you are already flirting (sort of) there is a mutual contact and friendly liking between you.
Ask if he would like to walk you home - sit with you on the bus.
If all else fails just ask him if he wants to be friends with you.
He can only say no and he just might say yes.
You can work things out better then when you know more.
2007-12-23 20:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by lassiebear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all I wonder how many of these questions get looked at by the guy there are talking about. And then he answers it with the girl in mind. I wonder if that happens.
2nd of all if your older get drunk on night with him and make out. see where it goes from there, if your not that old yet, make out with him and see where it goes from there. every thin gets easier when you can drink because then the next day if you find out he was totally creeped out you can be like I dont even remember that I was so drunk. If you dont remember it doesnt count.
2007-12-23 20:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by reedy112 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to improve communication, make it a requirement of moving forward in your relationship. Tell him to talk to you, or face possible elimination. Never fall in love before you know ANY guy throughly, its a good rule in life for your happiness.
2007-12-23 20:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way of getting to talk to him face to face!! Talking over aim will not get you all the data that you need to plan your next move.
2007-12-23 20:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him out on a date, or tell him you like him. Don't play that silly "flirt forever, and then regret not getting together when you graduate" game.
2007-12-23 20:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he may be flirting with you. but most likely he just likes you as a friend. if you want something more make it more obvious that you're flirting.
and by the way.
these words are spelled like this.
1.phone
2.weird
3.please.
2007-12-23 20:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lili 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
okay yeah wowzerz yeah okay he sounds a bit loser-ish(srry) but okay so just if you see just coner him(dont scare him tho) but just talk to him fill him out and if u just throw the line out there and hes still doesn't bite it's 1 of 4 things
1. boys are very shy and u have to ask them
2. he doesn't feel the same
3. he was waiting for u to make the first move anyway
4.he's just really stupid and 2 blind to see u like him duh!
2007-12-23 20:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by lovepeaceopinion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get your friend 2 ask him if he likes u if he says why or ya he does like u if he says no ask him on aim
2007-12-23 20:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋